Don't Fuck With Us!

TREATED WITH RESPECT AND DIGNITY

2006-04-28T23:34:00.087-04:00

ESCORTS AND MASSEURS:
Ever been blown off - but not in the good way?
Stiffed, but not in a way that feels nice?
Or shafted up the ass- with a “bum” address?

Escorts and Masseurs across the USA are taking charge of these negative situations. We are tired of no-show appointments, traveling to doors that don’t open, and not getting paid for the quality work we give.

On this page is a listing of clients who have caused trouble for us.
This page is a reference document so that other Escorts and Masseurs are not burned by the same deadbeat clients.
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IF YOU FIND YOUR PHONE NUMBER LISTED HERE, tough shit. You fucked up.
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When this site started, we had only been listing basic information like a first name, along with a person's phone number. But the Escorts and Masseurs posting here have found that they get a better "response" from blacklisted clients when additional information on them is added, such as the client's last name, family contacts, and/or addresses. You will find on the more recent listings greater details on the blacklisted people who are here.
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THE PEOPLE WHO DO THIS SORT OF WORK ARE DECENT PEOPLE, AND DESERVE TO BE TREATED WITH RESPECT AND DIGNITY.
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Rom Kayman
Also known as PamAmLong, or Mr.Doofus
808-282-9482
kaymanrom@gmail.com
10/xx/11
This person set up an appointment with me 1 month in advance after finding me on a specific TER search. He emailed every week to confirm. He got into town and told me he was here and asked for address, I gave it to him and then he said "I wanted to see you tomorrow, not today." So he shows up an hour late and we did the hour. He then put up a review calling me a "big fat blonde" and that he was disappointed with my looks, then blamed himself for not looking at my current photos. I am clearly listed as Heavy and present myself with current, full body, cell phone pix. He said very cruel things about me that weren't true, calling me “pancake tits” and other names. Going back to look at his other reviews, I see that he bashes everyone he sees, regardless of their size or appearance.
When I confronted him he posted a blog on TER saying that I was ranting and threatening him (not true) but I did say that I was considering blacklisting him for the address trick and the bashing. I decided not to at that time because I found he had been blacklisted by two other providers for bashing and harassment. Now I am getting threatened by people because he has been blogging about me and I am afraid of his retaliation. He is very scary. Bottom line, he sees girls and then bashes them on TER. If you stand up for yourself, he gives out your information so other people can join in on the harassment. I would have let it go, but when I learned of the blogging and then started getting harassing phone calls and emails, I felt it necessary to follow through with this blacklisting.
Service Provider: 2264

Justin P. Jaffe (goes by JP)
210.422.1615
jpaircraft@hotmail.com
1449 Airpark, Horseshoe Bay, TX.
8/xx/11
This was my 4th visit and he had previously paid w/checks (he always said he "forgot his wallet at his office", but all the checks cleared). On the last visit with him, he once again said he forgot his wallet, but that he also didn't have his checkbook, and that he would western union the money. Needless to say, he didn't give me any info and I never heard from him again.
I do realize that I should not be taking checks...but, I didn't know what to do, and the checks he gave wound up clearing.
Also, please take note of the fact that at that time my only transportation was a motorcycle; Meaning that I made what was over a 2 hour round trip (far north Austin to Horseshoe Bay) on a small sportbike just to come home empty-handed. Literally a pain in the ass...and lower back.
Additional information: He has houses in Horseshoe Bay, Austin and San Antonio - I've only been to his condo on the bay. He owns a company involving aircrafts.
Service Provider: 2265

Name Unknown
618-402-2107
10/11/11
As soon as I answered the phone, the first thing out of his mouth was, "How much you want for me to suck on your dick?" He was speaking to me in a very rough, harsh way, and as soon as I tried to talk to him he hung up. I tried to call him back just to ask him not to call me. I said “if you do that again, I’ll need to blacklist you.” He just kept hanging up on me. You might want to not take his calls.
Service Provider: 2219

Burke Lipscomb
214-458-7619
burke@trianglepayments.com
Owns a payroll business, Triangle Payment in Dallas, TX. www.trianglepayment.com
10/8/11
He flew me to Palm Springs, CA (He flew there as well and is from Dallas, TX). He was supposed to pay me my weekend rate, and the day after I arrived sent me home and only paid me 1/4 of my rate before dropping me off at the airport. He said it was nothing personal and seemed into me. But as soon as I woke up the day after arriving, I found myself on the way to the airport. He wasn't hygienic at all and was extremely eccentric. He said it was his first time with an escort for more than a one hour appointment. He wasted my time and paid me less than half of what he should have despite cutting our appointment short. Also he was very socially awkward.
Service Provider: 2253

Jared Jacobson
571-431-2722
rainbow.bear1223@gmail.com
work info
9/30/11
Began contacting me by emall mid-august 2011 wanting a roleplaying/rape scene. He didn't know what type he wanted and after 10 text messages and 10 emails, he finally called me to set up an appointment. We booked time together for the following week and he continued to text and email me sexually explicit content. I emailed him requesting that he dial down his language. Three days passed with no response. Then he emailed claiming he hadn't heard from me and that he can't afford our appointment and was cancelling.
The cancellation came 24 hrs before our meeting and I had invested roughly 1.5hrs setting up and handling his excessive requests. I told him I felt that I deserved some type of compensation and he agreed to mail me 1/2 my rate, and even sent an email saying he felt bad and had increased the amount he was sending. One month later, no payment has ever arrived, although he insists that he sent it.
I believe he is a time waster who is getting off on the dialogue and fantasy and doesn't intend to follow through with the actual appointments he books.
Service Provider: 2239

Gilbert
214-680-4276
9/10/11
I had a call from a guy claiming to be named GILBERT from Dallas. He hired me for a weekend, friday (yesterday, 9/9) to monday morning. Said he was super excited and anxious to meet and spend time together. Gave me his address, I set off for the 4hr drive from Houston to Dallas, all the while communicating via text during the trip. I got to about 45 minutes away and he wouldn't answer his phone, tried 4 times to reach him, arrived at his place but by that time he had switched his phone off completely. The address he gave was an apartment building and I had no room number, the name he gave would not come up in the system at the front desk. I waited for 3 hours in the lobby hoping maybe something had happened and he would fix it and call but that never happened. His phone is still off to this moment. A friend looked up his # and said it was registered to an Ignatious Perez but that name was not in the system at the front desk either. I showed the front desk clerk the g rated picture he had sent me and she said he looked very familiar. What an ass!
So of course I had to turn around and drive all the way back to Houston. Not only did he waste quite a bit of my money to travel to and from Dallas but my entire day was lost with no way of booking any clients the entire day, not to mention nearly falling asleep on the way home.
Service Provider: 2254

Rob
757-729-2442
06/06/2011
Got my number from Rentboy.com. We had an extensive SMS chat about what he wanted to do, and he then made an appointment. Everyday until the appointment he was sending porn to my email (from his cell phone). When I confirmed by SMS on day of appointment, he canceled saying his father just died, yet, he kept sending me porn on that very day! Time waster.
Service Provider: 2256

Name Unknown
415-412-9753
1435 S St NW, WDC
6/28/11
Young guy, light brown hair almost blond, he offered to pay me with pot. I said I wanted money as spoken by text, he said he only had pot to pay me. I left. He tried to trick another friend of mine before.
Service Provider: 2246

Joshua Chase
207-389-3083
436 Washington St, Haverhill, MA 01832
myspace page: http://www.myspace.com/biggchase100
4/30/11
He offered to double my rate to $250/hr if I arrived within the hour, but deliberately gave a wrong address. It took me over 30 minutes to drive there. When I called from the backdoor, he said he'd be right down. Of course, he never showed. It was after 12m, I was standing on the darkened back porch of a not-so-great neighborhood in Haverhill, MA and my instincts told me to just get the hell out of there. When I called him about it later that afternoon, he called me a "fairy," "queer" and "faggot" and told me I'd "get smacked in the head." He lives with his mother Darlene and he has 2 infants: Joshua and Jenessa. After emailing several other escorts, I found that he'd done the same to at least one other male.
Service Provider: 2257

Chris
978-857-4541
5/xx/11
I received a call from this guy. After answering in the positive about whether I gave head, he called me a homo and hung up.
Service Provider: 2257

Name Unknown
978-270-3973
3/xx/11
I got a bogus late night call to drive from East Boston to New Hampshire. When I got there, the guy refused to answer his phone. Fearing that he might've given me a wrong address, I didn't dare knock on the door at that wee hour of the morning.
Service Provider: 2257

Paul
703-625-3366
5/6/11
He called me two hrs before hand from a noisy bar, quoted him rates for incall and outcall, he wanted 90 minutes at my place but needed to call me back to confirm. He called back an hr later from his house and wanted me to come to my place then changed his mind and wanted me at his place, he had seen my website and rates there but couldn't recall from one phone conversation to the next what amount I had quoted him, he seemed drunk.
Before we ended the phone conversation he changed his mind again and decided to come to my place. He arrived a few minutes late and had only said he wanted a sensual time with some kink. He hadn't bothered to prep his ass and wanted it played with anyway. I gave him a full session with that limited bit of information I had and he seemed bored most of the time and lamented that he wished he had some heavier drugs to party with. Seems like he watches a good deal of porn and his real sex life doesn't measure up to what he's viewing online.
He dressed quickly at the end and dropped my fee on the table. I believe I caught a smirk on his face as he quickly left. Upon counting my fee he shorted me 50 dollars. I called and texted him immediately and he didn't answer. I ran out of the building to try and catch him and he was already gone. He still refuses to call me back or answer his phone. I believe he knew he was shorting me and perhaps he justified it by feeling he didn't get what he wanted out of the experience.
Service Provider: 2239

Matt
202-215-4988
5/4/11
He called me the day of to make an appointment for that afternoon. He said he is 5'8, 200+, 38 years old, African American, Bi and a versatile bottom. He said he lives in the Dupont Circle area. We talked for 10 minutes about all the details and he seemed nervous. I gave him my location information and tried to make him feel comfortable. We ended the conversation planning to see each other at the agreed upon time. I hurried to my place and set it up and prepped. He never showed up and is refusing to answer my telephone calls.
Service Provider: 2239

Conrad
716-598-3439
5/1/2011
After phoning to set up an appointment, he failed to show, then refused to ever answer the phone or respond to txt messages.
Service Provider: 2259

Raymond Sullivan
401-263-2700, 401-821-3701
His office in Rhode Island -- Sullivan Realty Group, 9 Wakefield Street, Warwick, RI 02893
8/29/2010
After phoning to set up an appointment, he failed to show, then refused to ever answer the phone or respond to txt messages. Client is a Real Estate Appraiser licensed in Massachusetts.
Service Provider: 2259

Lonnie Pinkston
302-521-9825
5/22/2008
After phoning to set up an appointment, and several follow-up phone calls to discuss details, he failed to show, then refused to ever answer the phone or respond to txt messages.
Service Provider: 2259

Murray
403-345-2426
8/8/2004
After phoning to set up an appointment, and numerous follow-up emails to discuss details, he failed to show, then refused to ever answer the phone or respond to txt messages.
Service Provider: 2259

Don Vies, or Dan de Vries
561-234-9976
donod747@hotmail.com
http://twitter.com/#!/donod747
4/29/11
He wanted to see me, but when he failed my security checks he threatened to “slit my fucking throat.” He said he hoped that I would be murdered, and went on to say I was a stinking whore who deserves to die. He said I was scum and he hoped I get what I deserved. He sent these statements in a text and voice mail which I have saved on a cell phone.
Not sure what boards he may or may not be a member of, but he is definitely a person who is a loose cannon and someone that I would never see. He claimed he was an educator/professor and owned/worked at the University of Toledo.
His claims were easily refutable through Google. I told him that he did not own the University of Toledo, nor could I locate his name on the faculty, the board of advisors or the board of founders.
He claimed to be at the Hyatt on Capitol Square Rm. 1724, 75 East State Street, Columbus, Ohio 43215
Service Provider: 2260

Calvin Wilson
301-643-9841 cellphone, 301-868-8659 office
drwilson@alpha-dental.com
PG County Maryland area
work info
12/xx/10
Said the appt was for him and his cousin from out of town. Agreed to pay for each person. Total of 350 for both guys for one hour. After session, he and his cousin not only robbed me, but said they would tell the police of my location, so needless to say I left my incall that night. Claims to be a professional. You can never get him at his office because he has his assistant screen his calls so you can only leave a message. He also screens his cellphone. After telling a collegue in the biz about this, it turns out that she has had him on her private BLACKLIST for months because he did the same thing to her. He has the idea that because he is a biz owner the police will not believe the girl(s) and he can get service for free because WE (girls) are just whores anyway.
Service Provider: 2261

Matt - Phone registered to a Cih Sung
626-226-6602
gu1625@yahoo.com
4/25/11
There were negative reviews published about this guy on M4RN.com. When I contacted the escorts they said that he just blah, blah, blah's over text but never books or follows through. He contacted me via email and he seemed sincere. He even sent multiple follow-up emails. The day before our meeting I emailed to confirm - no answer. I then texted him and finally today he texts to say that he's been sick since Saturday. When asked why he couldn't of told me sooner - no answer. He owes me for a two hour appointment.
Service Provider: 2262

Jason Venetti
510-891-1590 - Phone registered to RJ Poblete
jacklondonboy1@hotmail.com
4/20/11
This annoying guy booked a few weeks in advance. He sent well over 20 emails stating that he was excited to meet and he was for sure coming. I called to confirm with him a couple hours before and though he seemed "off" he said he was coming and I could recognize him in his "Australia" hat because he just came back from there. Sure enough, 15 minutes before the appointment he sent an email saying that he couldn't do it and that he shouldn't pay for sex. Well my friend, I turned down a multiple hour appointment for you and you owe me for the time.
Service Provider: 2252

Joe J. Vealencis
202-236-2893
633 Columbia Road
8/26/11
He called me me a few times in 2007 while his very cute Personal Trainer boyfriend named Chris was out of town. I went to his place at 633 Columbia road, he was drunk, I fucked him and he paid me. Everything normal.
Last month he called me again. A friend of his died on a helicopter crash in AK, he asked to come to my place in Columbia Heights, he showed me a video of him sucking off a guy while he was serving in Iraq, it was on tube8.com and he wanted to do the same. I agreed but I asked not to show my face. He paid me and when I counted the money he forgot $100 from my regular fee. So I called him a few times but he never answered the phone.
He called me again 2 weeks ago and said he'll make it up to me, he talked about taking me to meeting of the virtuoso society and paying my fee and the difference. The date came but he never showed up.
He called again yesterday, I went to his place, I asked for the money up front and he offered me a check, I said no and I left. He called me and left several angry messages saying that he knows people and he'll get back at me.
He's always drunk when he wants to have sex.
Service Provider: 2263

paul
571-229-0749
5/22/11
says he is 5-5, 150, and 46 years old. he also told me he likes oral and smelling underwear.
about a week before the date he wanted to get together, he contacted me and told me he thinks some people feel intimidated by him because he shaves his head. he wanted me to meet and have him start in as he normally would with a guy, with me giving him feedback at the end. i agreed to do this.
he contacted me two days before the appointment, but didn’t leave a message. i called him back to see what was up, and he said he had to go to charlottesville - so he couldnt make the the appointment, and would call me in the future. later in the conversation he changed his story to say he was ALREADY in charlottesville. i said “i dont know if this will work in the future, you don’t seem to have much control over your schedule.” “well,” he answered, “my job comes first, my family comes second, and you come third” - and abruptly hung up on me! i called him back to try to talk with him but he was very rude and kept hanging up. he did it four times.
Service Provider: 2245

Frank, Frankie, Franky
617-429-2680
4/22/11
I've seen this client once before. He booked a two hour and at the end we went to the ATM and he paid me. Since he was a repeat I didn't count the money. When I got outside I counted the cash and he shorted me $200. I called and texted and never got an answer back. I even went back to his room and nothing. He says he works in Human Resources.
Service Provider: 2252

Marvin Herrera
562-552-1817
4/24/11
This very closeted guy contacted me on Rentboy.com and booked an appointment in LA. He confirmed two hours at $400. After the appointment he said he didn't have money and that we met on Craigslist (which we did not) and it was free. Client refused to pay and left. His phone is registered to Bessy Herrera.
Service Provider: 2252

NAME REMOVED
3xx-xxx-1978
EMAIL ADDRESS REMOVED
4/14/11
He emailed me over and over again with different questions, he wanted me to get to his hotel in Virginia but then he changed his mind and decided to come to my place on Mass. Ave. It took him a long time to simply find my place despite the fact that he took a cab to get to me faster. He had seen my pictures before, but when I opened the door, he said it wasn't going to work out. That was ok with me, until I told a friend of mine what happened to me and he said that a similar guy did that to him a day before.... Guess what, it was the same cellphone...I guess he was turned down too much growing up and he thinks it's time to get back at the world. A cab drive, cellphone chat and emails are cheaper then a psychologist.
Service Provider: 2251
UPDATED 10/2011 - THE PERSONAL DETAILS ON THIS CLIENT ARE NOW REMOVED, BECAUSE AMENDS HAVE BEEN MADE BETWEEN HIM AND THE SERVICE PROVIDER. THIS SHOWS THAT WHILE A MISTAKE WAS ORIGINALLY MADE, THIS CLIENT WAS ULTIMATELY WILLING TO RESOLVE IT.

Jason
310-610-5408
4/xx/11
He made plans with me twice and he never showed up. The first time he callled me 2 days later to apologize, the 2nd time he asked me to forgive him and offer me a double fee. It was late at night and he sounded drunk, he said he was coming soon to my place but once again, he never showed up. He lives in Seattle.
Service Provider: 2248

John Weiser
808-754-2727
4/xx/11
He talks on the phone for hours while jerking off and then he's not sure about making plans. That's fine with me... but one day he finally made plans to come over and he didn't show up or answer the phone. I called him the day before and he hang up the phone calling me a nazi. If you google his name you'll find out that he's an aviator and he landed a plane with only 1 front wheel, he even appeared on Tv because of the "almost crash" and his miraculous landing in the HNL airport with his "nephew".
Service Provider: 2248

Jim Lapidus
818-404-6547
4/9/10
He sent me many emails about all the famous people he knows because he worked for Hawaii Five-O. Then he made plans to come to my place, he didn't show up, I kept calling him and he finally picked up the phone to tell me that he was sick. He lives on Kamoku St in Honolulu Hawaii and he DOES work for Hawaii Five-O.
Service Provider: 2248

Name unknown
618-979-3230
xx/xx/11
He made plans to get to my place and never showed up. I waited for him UN my underwear, he texted me that he was downstairs but he never arrived. He's a yoga instructor in Saint Louis, Mo.
Service Provider: 2248

Patrick
503-281-3000
xx/xx/11
He asked me to get to his hotel A.S.A.P., we agreed on the price and that he was going to bottom for me. When I got there he offered me a check instead of cash, I immediately left. He owns www.patrickscatering.com
Service Provider: 2248

NAME REMOVED
6XX-XXX-6362
xx/xx/11
He’s from Mississippi. He called me when I was in Memphis, then he cancelled. We made plans to get together in New Orleans but he cancelled again, because he wanted an overnight starting at 7 PM, not at 9 PM, and he wanted me to have dinner by myself, I guess he couldn't afford dinner or a snack after 7 PM. Then he came to DC and booked me again, but he never showed up at my place. What a mess! Thank god we never met, imagine dealing with him in the bedroom. I guess he's a teenager in a 50 yo body...
Service Provider: 2248
UPDATED 11/2011 - THE PERSONAL DETAILS ON THIS CLIENT ARE NOW REMOVED, BECAUSE AMENDS HAVE BEEN MADE BETWEEN HIM AND THE SERVICE PROVIDER. THIS SHOWS THAT WHILE A MISTAKE WAS ORIGINALLY MADE, THIS CLIENT WAS ULTIMATELY WILLING TO RESOLVE IT.

Name unknown
916-834-4411
1/xx/11
He made plans to come to my place, he even confirmed that he was coming, but he never showed up at my door.
Service Provider: 2248

Name unknown
415-298-5797
1/xx/11
He made plans to come to my place, he even confirmed that he was coming, but he never showed up at my door.
Service Provider: 2248

Name unknown
415-430-4716
1/xx/11
He made plans to come to my place, he even confirmed that he was coming, but he never showed up at my door.
Service Provider: 2248

Tom
x45-848-5717
twalis215@hotmail.com
1/xx/11
45, bald, goodlooking.... he never showed up at my apartment after making an apointment for me to fuck him.
Service Provider: 2248

Henry
202-230-6635
4/15/11
He phoned me a few days before the appointment, said he hadn’t hired anyone before and wasn't really sure what he was into. Set up a two hour session with me but didn’t show up for it, and didn’t call. When I tried reaching him by phone (several attempts) he never answered, nor did he return my calls. He told me that he is an African-American man, about 5-11, 180, married, and works out. I had a regular client who wanted me at that same time but after Henry didn't show up, I tried calling the other guy but it was too late for him then. Thanks, Henry...
Service Provider: 2244

Name unknown
415-686-2232
1115 12th St NW don't remember the apt. number.
3/6/11
He called and asked me to get to his place ASAP. We agreed on the price and he said he wanted to bottom for me. He started giving me head for 10 minutes and then he said he wanted to tape the whole encounter for his private collection of home videos that he uploads on www.xtube.com. I said I wasn't interested in doing porno with him, he insisted, he said "what if you film me when I'm getting fucked by you and you cum in my face"? I said I could do that, but he was kind of bossy and a little bit bitchy. I wasn't into that either. I left unpaid after being there for 1/2 hour.
Service Provider: 2248

Name Unknown (every time he called he left a different name.)
202-236-4761
2153 California St apt. 503
3/12/11
He called me at 2 AM and asked me to get to him A.S.A.P., I got there, he ate my ass for an hour, he paid me and I left.
After that everything "went south":
1) He called me the following day, Sunday March 13th and asked me about a threesome with another man. He wanted this man to arrive in 2 hours. I called a friend of mine who lives in Silver Spring and asked him to come over. Then this guy called me within minutes to cancel, he had to go back to his job on a Sunday...
2) He called me on March 14th to make plans for the next day at 4 PM with my friend, a visiting escort called Platinum, and me. Then he called me again on that next day at noon to ask me about getting together at my place instead of his place. I gave him my address (I'm at 16th and U) and within a few seconds he said we should put this on hold, and if I get another call to do it I should not to wait for him, and then, “why don’t we just cancel all of this.” This happened within the same phone call, he went from asking for my address to putting it on hold because he wasn't sure! A 14-year-old would be more mature.
3) He called me the next day at 11 PM. He apologized for everything and asked me to get there A.S.A.P. I got there within 20 minutes, I called him on his cell and I got his voice mail. I "tailgated" into his building and I knocked on his door. He opened the door and after I took a shower offered me a check because he had no money, no debit cards, etc. I told him I couldn't accept it and I left.
4) He called me the next day, apologized for everything, and asked if he could come to my place. And then, he never showed up.
Do not bother dealing with him! He's a teenager with A.D.D. in a 65-year-old man’s body.
Service Provider: 2248

Jake Nelson
303-870-1463
jake57105@hotmail.com
3/xx/11
He texted and emailed me so many times. He's a teenager in a 50-year-old body. His grammar is pathetic, like a ghetto boy at 15. He made plans with me when I was in Minneapolis, Omaha and finally DC. He cancelled the first 2 times, then didn't show up the 3rd time in DC. He even emailed me: " @ 8 i will head out to the strip bars... wanna go". He has emotional problems and he doesn't understand things like: "call me when you check in or I will be out with friends, don't make plans by email, just call me." It's easier to train a dog. He finally made plans but then didn't show up at my place.
Service Provider: 2238

Enrique
202-543-1039
2/1/11
He booked an appointment with me for two days later. He told me that because he is a married guy, he wasn’t sure about the actual location to meet (he wanted me to come to him in Capital Hill but had to wait to confirm that). We agreed that he would call me at 8:30am the morning of the appointment to let me know where we would get together - at my place or his. He never called, so 45 minutes later I rang him. He said he couldn’t talk right then but would call me in an hour. I waited an hour and then a little more, and yet he never called me back. Naturally I called and left messages for him to phone me back, but he never did. This guy told me he is 50 years old, about 5-9, and 180 pounds.
Service Provider: 2244

NAME REMOVED
6xx-xxx-1140
1/30/11
He is from Chicago, but he visits DC. He was planning a trip to DC for Jan 30th and felt the need to text and call me 3 months prior to his trip. We had originally met at a bar in November of 2010. After a couple weeks of him calling me, I wanted to make it clear that I was looking for clients only. I told him that I saw men, and that I was with a client this one night. A couple weeks later, he was still texting me and calling me regularly so I had a friend answer the phone to tell him that I only see generous clients to make sure that he understood. He said that he did.
The weekend of his visit I told him he should take me out to eat. Then I was thinking he would want me to come back to his hotel, he was staying at the Palomar in Dupont. After dinner I ended up going back with him, but I still wasn't sure if he fully understood my wishes. After about ten minutes in his room, I told him that I wanted to make sure we were on the same page. I told him that I see clients only and that I am an escort. Of course, he acted like he was surprised, and said he thought I was just looking for "fun." I’m in my early 20s and he is clearly in his 70s. He then went on to tell me that he didn't have that kind of money with him, and maybe next time he could "save up for me." Keep in mind he is staying in a $300/400 a night hotel in Dupont!
Service Provider: 2249
UPDATED 10/2011 - THE PERSONAL DETAILS ON THIS CLIENT ARE NOW REMOVED, BECAUSE AMENDS HAVE BEEN MADE BETWEEN HIM AND THE SERVICE PROVIDER. THIS SHOWS THAT WHILE A MISTAKE WAS ORIGINALLY MADE, THIS CLIENT WAS ULTIMATELY WILLING TO RESOLVE IT.

Ron
607-280-2232
1/1/11
He made appointment telling me he had been to me when I was at another address. He NEVER asked price and I made the mistake of not telling him. He parked near my building and I went outside to get him. My perception of him was that he was controlling in a nice sort of way. He immediately started talking about his "meditation group." [sidebar: He never left the sixties and still has the same clothes and headband to prove it. He is about 70 years old] He then gives me this line about being retired and that he gets a "good vibe" from me and "we can work together." He of course can’t pay my price and I do lower it a bit. He wants lower and I just walked away from him back to my apt and he leaves. He certainly will be calling others.
Service Provider: 2201

Sean
703-338-1308
spc72@yahoo.com
11/10/10
He began emailing me in early August, 2010 about hiring me for a scene where I would be dressed as an executive woman, in a white blouse, pearls, pencil skirt, stelletto heals, and hose. he wants to be dominated and topped. Over the course of three months we exchanged at least 20 emails, some of them lengthy trying to find a time to set this up. I met with a hair dresser twice to discuss setting up a time, showing pictures he emailed me of the makeup design he wanted, and had dropped off the wig to be styled. Sean finally called on 11/03/10 and we talked for 20 minutes about final details and set up not only a time to meet for him to pay me part up front. We had also booked an appointment for the following week. 24 hrs after our phone conversation he emails me to say, “Hey, I need to put this on hold. I appreciate how cool you've been exploring this, but I'm going to need to keep this as a fantasy for a bit longer still. Sorry for the false start, but again, thanks for taking the time to talk it through with me.” This was also 12 hours after he emailed me to say we were on and he would call me the next day. I requested that he pay me for one hour of my time from the 5+hrs I put into planning. He did not respond to my request for compensation. He is a definite time waster.
Service Provider: 2239

Name unknown
404-281-4706
11/xx/10
He texted me over and over again, describing how much he wanted me to fuck him. We made an appointment, and he kept texting me all the way to my apartment. Then, he never showed up. A friend of mine from Alpharetta told me that this guy is a well-known no show in Georgia.
Service Provider: 2246

Mark, also goes by Bruce
703-362-8267
den.marc@hotmail.com
Works with HomeCert Home Inspection Services; homecert@yahoo.com, Phone: 703-333-2783
11/30/10
He called me at 6:45AM to get together “in the next 20 minutes.” He told me he wanted to suck dick, but later clarified that he wanted to suck MY dick. I jumped out of bed to get ready for his visit. Thirty minutes later he called to talk with me about how worried he was about parking around my place, and also that he only had about 2/3 of my fee on him. I had assured him earlier and then again, parking is not an issue around me. He said that once his wife leaves, he can go to the ATM and get more cash for my fee. He then talked with me at length about the parking situation and how concerned he was, which was odd. We extended the meeting time for 45 minutes from then. He never showed up, never called, and never answered his phone.
Other details: Says he is 5-10, 190, muscled, 47 years old, and African-American. He says he is new to this. He has called me several times since April 2008, and at first went by Mark, which probably is his real name. Now he identifies himself as Bruce. He’s told me he needs to have a few drinks in him to do this. He lives in or near Alexandria, 3 traffic lites west of Landmark Mall, off of 236 and Braddock Road.
Service Provider: 2236

Name unknown
401-441-8632
11/4/10
He called me at 2PM to get together later in the evening. Then he called me again at 8 PM and asked me to get to his hotel in Silver Spring. When I was on my way, he texted me to tell me that he couldn't get all the money from the ATM and he only had $150. I told him on the phone to consider the appointment cancelled. Why the hell didn't he check if he had enough money before callling me twice?
Service Provider: 2238

Name unknown
919-452-8021
his email: biwm1375@yahoo.com
11/9/10
This guy called me around 10:30am asking if I could get to his hotel as soon as possible, as he had to check out at noon. He said he would pay me back for the cab fare so I rushed over there. He did not answer the door even though I knocked for 5 minutes, and would not answer the phone. Later he texted me with the lame excuse he had got "carried away" in the shower, but didn't offer any money to me for my time or the cab fare.
He was staying at the Renaissance Hotel on 9th Street. Although he didn't give me his name, he described himself as "32 year old bisexual white male, 6'3 and 180 pounds.
Service Provider: 2247

Alex
202-355-8287
11/13/10
He lives on 18th St and California. He called me and asked me if I PNP (party and play) and if I had some "party favors." I said no, but he insisted in making plans and coming over to my hotel anyways. He never showed up and never called to cancel. He was so "high" that he kept calling me several times during the same day, until late at night.
Service Provider: 2246

Name unknown
443-762-6468
11/xx/10
He called me and made plans to come over from his place in Columbia, MD to my place. He sounded like a person of lower class, just in the way he was talking to me. One hour later when he was supposed to be parking, he texted me to cancel the appointment.
Service Provider: 2246

Name unknown
202-747-4061
xx/xx/09
He called me and I went to his place on 13th St, a building called “The Iowa.” He was doing drugs and he appeared not very healthy. His mind was a complete mess. After I tried for 30 minutes to get his cock hard without success, he blamed it on me, offered me $20 and asked me to leave.
Service Provider: 2246

Name unknown
202-256-6015
xx/xx/09
I went to see him at his place on 13th St in Columbia Heights. When I arrived he was drunk. He offered me a check instead of cash. I left inmediately.
Service Provider: 2246

Name unknown
202-332-9078
xx/xx/09
I have seen this man twice before. He likes to have a huge dildo inside him. The last time I saw him he wasn't clean; he made a mess all over the dildo and then told me he wanted to get fucked. I suggested he use an enema. At that point he started to call me names, and I ended up leaving unpaid.
Service Provider: 2246

David
202-384-3079
11/4/10
He called me and said he likes submissive kinky guys, who can crawl, beg, kiss/lick his feet, and perhaps get restrained. I told him I could do that. He said he is 5-11, and indicated he was a little large. I asked him how large, and he said 300 pounds. He also told me he was 39 years old. He wanted an appointment in 15 minutes. I was willing to do that, but was also hanging out with my friend at the time. I mentioned this guy to my friend (who is also an escort) and he said that the same guy called him before and was a real shithead, fucked up and weird... and so my buddy would not see him. Needless to say, David never showed up and never called. When I called him 30 minutes after he was due to arrive, he said, “Sorry man, I just couldn't go through with it. Some other time...” and hung up on me. He told me he lives at 1300 N Street NW in a condo.
Service Provider: 2244

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4XX-XXX-4462
EMAIL ADDRESS REMOVED
4/30/2010
this guy has been contacting me since 2006, often taking up my time asking things i’ve already told him. then in april 2010 he booked and subsequently cancelled, with a bogus excuse. he even got the meeting date wrong by a day! bottom line - he is not serious about appointments, and (of course) has some ridiculous extreme fantasies too. here are a few gems from him:
would want to use condoms on my dick as he gives me an oral release. has asked me about whips, says he is an exhibitionist, but has never been with a man before (although he previously told me about a guy he was with from west virginia). for our appointment, he asked that when he would arrive, i would be in a g string, and he would change into his, too... we would then talk, kiss, grope.. then i would change into a leather harness, with a cock ring... put a whip collar on him... use a parachute on his balls... and show him how to be a man. when he canceled, he left a message on my voicemail, telling me that his wife was going out of town, but now changed her mind, so he has to cancel (the appointment was at my place). he said he would call back to reschedule, but also asked me not to call him because his phone is a shared line. i followed up asking him for half the payment for his cancelled session, due to the GAZILLION amounts of times i have already spent with him through phone calls and email. i never heard from him, so at least i am freed of his bs. as for you guys - you have been warned...
other stuff about him: DETAILS REMOVED
Service Provider: 2245
UPDATED 11/2010 - THE PERSONAL DETAILS ON THIS CLIENT ARE NOW REMOVED, BECAUSE AMENDS HAVE BEEN MADE BETWEEN HIM AND THE SERVICE PROVIDER. THIS SHOWS THAT WHILE A MISTAKE WAS ORIGINALLY MADE, THIS CLIENT WAS ULTIMATELY WILLING TO RESOLVE IT.

marty (martin wolfe)
323-850-9700 home; 310-560-2426 cell
mww825@yahoo.com
january 2008 to april 2010
i’m amazed no one has listed this guy yet. i know several working men who have had calls from him before. he is based in los angeles, and seems to have no memory of who he’s called before. to be clear, it’s not like he has booked an appointment with me and then didnt show up. but he is a REAL TIME DRAIN. on the phone, he says he is into feet, having someone smash his dick to extremes, and getting his balls kicked. he likes a guy with a bad temper.he told me that he is a painting contractor, is originally from montreal, and would be willing to pay bonus if i trampled his dick and changed its shape. he even sent me his photos. in repeat phone calls he’s told me “i’m still shopping for the right guy” even though i told him i would be up for a scene like he described. he offered me $7k for 5 days, and told me has a waiver for me to sign. bottom line: this guy never books, and is a total time waster. describes himself as 5-9, 165, early 40s.
Service Provider: 2245
MORE ON HIM:
8/xx/11
This guy already has a record on here but thought I'd add another one. My experience is exactly the same with the other guy who posted earlier. He would call, talk for a long time on the phone, tell you he likes you and wants to meet ASAP, he would ask for your schedule.... Then nothing.... He disappears. Then you contact him back and he would go "who is this??? I don't remember..." He needs some aderall medication really bad. He is totally A.D.D.
Service Provider: 2255
aka Mark
310-560-2426
mww825@yahoo.com
MORE ON HIM:
5/27/11
I googled this guy's phone number after he called me today offering me $1,800/day to come out to Los Angeles. He said his name was Mark and kept asking me if I would be forceful and kick his cock and the whole thing with the last day leave his cock flattened. It was kind of creepy, I felt like he was going down a list of things he wanted. At first I was like, ok this could be legit - and for $1,800/day I'll give a guy some lee-way. But it was like a 10 minute phone call and really detailed. Finally, I just told him that we can discuss all this in person.
So, this was my e-mail to him: "Hey, I google searched your number as I do with every potential out of town client and was saddened to see you were on BlacklistedNow. So, unfortunately I will not be working with you. Unless, of course you're willing to front me money for pictures, phone calls etc. otherwise please do not contact me again. If you were to front me money, they only way I accept forms of payment is from a pre-paid green dot money pak number. I will not accept any other form of payment. I apologize if this is unfair, but I am running a business and cannot waste my time on clients who are not fiscally viable.”
I haven't heard back. If by chance he actually pays me, I'll definitely let you know. Though, I believe that I'm not going to be hearing back from this guy.
Service Provider: 2258

larry
403-860-1602
bkk._.2005@hotmail.com
1/27/10
never showed, never called. when i called him he said “i cant hear you” with a bar sound in the background, and then he hung up. i called back - left 2 messages for him, of course he never called me back. pre-appointment he described himself: “i am clean, DDF, some body hair, no facial hair, discreet business man who travels a lot. i am caring, honest, real, a social drinker, and i smoke cigarettes. from a sex perspective, i would say i am a versatile bottom, who loves hot, passionate, sensual, uninhibited, endless, sex with another man who is also into kissing, licking, sucking, ass play, fucking, rimming and more.” he is from calgary, canada, 5-10, 145 pounds, and 49 years old.
Service Provider: 2245

Tami
408-603-5937
10/5/10
Tami called me from Fresno, CA, saying she is a transgender person - born as a biological male, but is now taking female hormones and living as a woman. She asked if I would see her, and I said yes. Then she told me she wants to be treated as a woman, but more specifically, as my wife. She wanted me to take charge, and take what I want from her, but not in a mean way. She booked me for an overnight. Tami said she is Asian-American. The appointment sounded like fun and I was excited to meet her, but she never called me with her room number and never returned my calls. I lost other night booking requests due to her.
Service Provider: 2244

Fernando
240-764-7558
5/31/10
He wanted an appointment with me, but didn’t show up at my place, and never returned my calls. He told me has a mustache, is originally from Mexico, but currently lives in Hyattsville on 70th Avenue.
Service Provider: 2244

Name unknown
301-957-0129
10/9/10
He called me at 8:30 and he made plans to come to my place at 9:15. He assured me that unlike so many other guys from the great State of Maryland he knows the city and he wouldn't get lost. I texted him my address and he confirmed his arrival at 9:15, I even recommended him to park on Meridian Hill Park. I insisted that my cock was going to be hard for him and I would be able to top his ass. I waited for him til 9:50, I called him 3 times, and I texted him, too - but he never answered the phone....
Service Provider: 2238

Craig or Greg
312-286-3492
9/15/10
He called me and made plans to come over, said he has a dildo fantasy. He was 20 mins. late when I decided to call him. He hung up the phone when I started to speak.
Service Provider: 2238

Drew Breen
917-721-2356
9/7/10
This guy seems very high strung. He first called me and left two messages, describing himself as a "sexy passionate bisexual top" and telling me I should look for him on Youtube and Google. I did, and learned he is currently a teacher at Miramar High School, and is hoping to get on the Broward County, Florida School Board. I called him and left a voicemail message for him to get back to me. When we finally spoke, I found him to have a very abrasive style. No greeting - the first things out of his mouth were questions about my age, challenging me since I don't have face pics up... and then, how he would be "willing" to see me for $100. I tried to get a word in, but he kept going. Finally I told him, "I don't think we are a match, I find you to have a very abrasive style..." and he hung up on me mid-sentence. I called him back, simply to tell him how rude (and abrasive) hanging up on someone is - whereupon he went on a huge rant against me - literally screaming at me, about how he doesn't need advice from a 39yo "kid", how he's engaged to a 21 year old guy, and more. In fact, he sounds a bit crazy. Also noteworthy - in one of his earlier voicemail messages, he left some VERY incriminating information which I am not printing here at the moment, as it would likely damage his career.
Service Provider 2236

Chris Robert
Deaf, so calls come in from an impaired service: 866-747-7352
smileyniceguy197@aol.com
8/9/10
He called me one week prior to the booking, trying to schedule an overnight. He sent me countless e-mails and called a few times through a telefone/video service for deaf people. After assuring him I would be Ok with the fact that he was morbidly obese, effeminate and deaf-mute, he scheduled an overnight with me. I cancelled many appointments because of him... Then, he never showed up.
Service Provider: 2205
MORE ON HIM:
8/15/10
Client arranged an overnight appointment with request for a discount. He called on phone service for deaf people a week prior to scheduled overnight appointment. 18 emails were exchanged prior to the date of our appointment. Nine minutes prior to our overnight appointment, he emailed and cancelled with the excuse that he hired someone else. A quick Google search led me to this site. Had I known prior, I could have saved myself all of the bullshit!
Service Provider: 2243

Tara
703-376-8759
7/22/10
She called for a massage. She seems to have a NY or NJ accent. Told me that she works in DC at 14th and Q Streets, but lives in Reston at 120394 Sugar Road. She booked an appointment at her house for the next day. Later, when I went to Mapquest it, I could not find a Sugar Road in Reston. I called her, but the number just rings and rings - perhaps it’s a pay phone. Needless to say, I didn’t drive out to her, and of course, she never called to find out why I wasn’t there.
Service Provider: 2236

Dave
410-487-5873
lostime69@aol.com. he lives on Plum Avenue in Baltimore.
6/22/10
i got duped. i went to this guy's house in baltimore. He appeared to have a broken leg and was in a lot of pain. He mentioned something about getting off oxycontin. told me that his cousin was a state trooper and that there were 4 state troopers living on his block. before he booked the appointment with me he said he lived in Glen Burnie, later i found out it was actually about 20 minutes NORTH of Glen Burnie, in Baltimore. this guy is a real scammer. He appears to be very nice and trustworthy. He's about 300 pounds. he had a strange rash in his inguinal area and on his thighs. He has red hair cut really short.
I asked if he was ok with the fee; he assured me he was. halfway through the massage i asked him to get the fee - he said he would take care of it. i trusted that. at the end of the massage he said he had to get the money from a safe. He asked me to wait in my car because he was going to get his car from the back yard of the rowhouse he lived in. i realize that i did not have my blackberry with me. i believe he took it out of my bag when i went to the restroom... i was pissed. I kept calling him from my tracphone; he never answered. He never came back. i kept calling him and he left an outgoing message on his phone with the excuse of it being broken. He kept apologizing for the inconvenience. He said he had to go to Laurel Regional Hospital to the credit union's ATM to get the money. He left another outgoing message on his phone telling me where his "cousin" (who mysteriously came home using the back door) left my blackberry. i had to climb under a fence and go to his back porch to retrieve my phone. i spent 2 hours with this guy and got nothing - after driving all the way from DC, at 11pm. This is the last time i will start a massage without getting paid up front. He's making it bad for all of the hobbyists. I hope this helps others from getting ripped off... he's a TOTAL waste of time and energy. I hope he gets what he deserves....
Service Provider: 2241

Name unknown
757-405-8689
6/xx/10
He called me, made plans, and then he never showed up. He called a week later... I explained to him what happened, I told him my address and he couldn't remember the conversation at all. I wonder if he was drunk or something else.
Service Provider: 2238

Name unknown
240-319-3138
6/xx/10
He called me at noon and made plans to get to my place at 8 PM. I texted him at 7 to confirm; he told me that he had forgotten about it. He called 3 days later, he made plans again, and then didn't show up.
Service Provider: 2238

Name unknown
207-450-3311
6/xx/10
He called and he asked me if I would be available that evening. I said yes, and I told him to call me when he checks in at the hotel - he agreed to call me at 7 PM. He made plans with me not once but 3 times, and yet he never confirmed at all. Tuesday at 10:30 PM, then Wednesday at noon, and then late at night. He simply made plans and when I called him to confirm and get his room number, he just didn't answer and replied with a text and the new date.
Service Provider: 2238

Steve
516-589-3457
5/8/10
He called and asked my location and he said he was just by that area and would have to call me back later in the afternoon. He did, and said he was walking up from Dupont Circle. I told him to take a cab. He asked about me and said he thought he had been to me before. Wanted my address - I told him to get the cab first, and I would give that info. Never heard from him again. People like this are becoming common. They forget to whom they have been to, want someone different and then use our time to figure it out once they have an idea of the address.
Service Provider: 2201

sammy
202-487-5490
5/7/10
i have seen him several times before, and always had good experiences. this time he said he wanted to be with me and a woman, together. i arranged that, and when he was fifteen minutes late for the appointment (and the woman and i were waiting) i called him; he said he thought we were starting fifteen minutes from then! so we waited some more. he never showed, and never called. a week later, he told me his flight was late. why didn’t he call then, i asked. he apologized and said he would make payment to us, but never did. my female friend was very, very pissed off. and now, i will not see him again. he is originally from eritrea, or ethiopia.
Service Provider: 2207

Name not given
757-405-8689
5/17/10
He called for an incall appointment. said he had a GPS, so I gave him my address - but then he never showed up.
Service Provider: 2238

Jeremy Bond, aka Josh
434-249-6944
05/19/10
He set up the appointment over email two months in advance, sent me photos of himself and called me hours before the appointment to give me his room number. When I arrived at the hotel there was no answer at the door or his cell phone. He seemed like he would have been great, but unfortunately he seems to have panicked and decided to back out without telling me.
Service Provider: 2239

Name unknown
703-901-8184
He is looking for someone to fuck his wife while he watches. Time waster. Loves to talk.
3/xx/10
Service Provider: 2201

Justin
540-212-1132
He has called many many times wanting to "get to know you". He makes appointments, but never calls back the next day to reconfirm. Time waster.
Winter, 10
Service Provider: 2201

Name unknown
504-400-7556
2/21/10
I was visiting New Orleans. He called me and said he wanted me to cum in his mouth but he wanted me to fuck him without a condom first. He loves cum and he kept talking about how much he loves a cumshot in his mouth. I told him that I only play safe, I use condoms for anal all the time, and he agreed on JUST getting a cumshot in his mouth. After asking me over and over again to cum in his mouth, he didn't show up at my hotel.
Service Provider: 2238

Larry McClendon
214-228-7382
2/17-19/10
After numerous emails back and forth, hammering out this date to fit into his 'very busy' schedule, we agreed and confirmed these dates for a Palm Springs visit. I sent him airline information (as he requested) and he said that he'd book the ticket immediately. Several times throughout the process, I gave him chances to back out, making it clear that I had other clients who were interested in this timeframe, but he kept saying 'yes' and that he was sure about this particular trip.
Less than 12 hours before the trip and without time to reschedule anyone else into the slot, he goes silent. Doesn't answer calls, emails. Totally left me hanging without explaination. He's horribly unprofessional and cost me thousands of dollars.
He's in the insurance business and often is on his Facebook page (under 'Larry McClendon'). Here are a rundown of his business internet addresses:
national insuranced agency inc, www.nia.biz
best health quote, www.besthealthquote.net
America's association for alternative care www.aaacbenefits.org
NIA asset protection group, inc www.nationalbenefitplan.net
ivirtualoffice - www.ivirtualoffice.biz
VIP Text Reservations - www.viptextreservations.com
LG McClendon Investments, Inc.
Service Provider: 2237

Michael
207-590-0135
1/30/10
He called me when I was visiting Boston and made plans to come over at 7 PM. He said that we couldn't meet the other time I had been in Boston and so he was looking forward to meeting me. He's into a lot of crazy stuff with dildos, which is not what I enjoy, but I agreed to used butt plugs on him anyway. Then he didn't show up, he didn't call to say he was late, nothing. Another no show, although he sounded so polite on the phone.
Service Provider: 2208

Tom
508-583-5937
2/4/10
Called saying he was from Boston, coming in to DC. Told me he likes rough play, and is into wrestling. He sounded pretty cool. Told me he would be staying at a Marriott in town. Never showed up for his appointment and never called.
OTHER INFO: He found me on RentMen. His phone is a landline registered to Mary Stevens, 18 Anne Ave, Brockton, MA 02301-2146
Service Provider: 2224

John Scrabblin
540-814-0144
1/25/10
This dude has called me several times and has been very wishy-washy about booking an appointment. In one conversation, he told me that he had never been with men before, but then said he wanted an appointment with two men at once. That should have been a red flag to me. He called me on Jan 25th and wanted an appointment on the same day. I told him I could see him 2.5 hours later, but he asked if I could do it earlier. I said I could do it 2 hours earlier, and then he very sweetly requested that I make it for an hour and a half from then. I agreed - and rushed back to my place to get it - and myself - ready. He said he wanted to bottom and to top, too - so I had some prep work to do. Well, he never showed and never called. I've tried to call him, but can't leave a message because his voicemail box is always full!
OTHER INFO: He is either from Hardy, Burnt Chimney, or Martinsville, Virginia. He works on power lines, so he doesn't work when it rains. He is originally from southern Virginia and has a very strong accent. He likes to say things like "OK, see you soon, wild man."
If I were you I would refuse ANY appointments with this dude - he does not respect our time whatsoever. It is people like him who drain escorts... and then other clients wonder why we are so wary!
Service Provider: 2236

Ed Sandefur
270-860-3185
Date Unknown
Made appt for two hours but did not show. Later he emailed me and said he got called in to work. Asked if I would set another appt for later that day. I did, but he did not show - again.
Service Provider: 2235

Josh
aka David Patton - Jackson MS
aka Charles Patton - Jackson MS
aka Joshua Charles
601-983-0181
patton10@sprint.blackberry.net
1/3/10
this guy is a serious time drain, a braggart, has some extreme fantasies, and disrespects people in our profession. he first contacted me in april of 2009 with an email that included this text:
“How Rough will you get with my cock over a six hour session? We can work on it once a week to start and as we progress we can increase the sessions! I really don't want any permanent damage but with a lot of sessions it will turn darker like David Beckham. In flogging and using a whip and your hands and fists you will tear the foreskin some, Scars like that are ok! Even at times you can use your teeth on me!”

he didn’t set up a session at that time, but emailed me 10 more times over the next few weeks. and this year - january 1 to be exact - he contacted me again. in this new decade he has asked for me to compile a group of men - 3 or 4 or 5 of us - to work on him with cbt (even though he says he has never done it before.) he has told me how he will hire me once a week (or, at a different point, he said “every night this week”) to stomp on his dick. he has told me in various emails that he is very rich, he drives a jaguar, he works for bank of america, he wants to take me on trips abroad, he has his masters in banking and finance, he has a big long uncut cock, and he is SO good looking that even married men hit on him - with their wives around! ugh, exhausting. oh yeah, he also told me he is 60 years old...
here are some other nuggets from this man:
“Dude I am riding around DC near DuPont Circle In my 2010 BMW 750 i’m Buck Naked!”
“Your time is running out for you to Answer? I'll be a regular at $3300 a week!”
“If you cut my cock with a flogger we will stop till the bleeding stops or continue! I want to see what your thought this will heighten my desire to do this!”
“Are you going to Box my Cock an Balls? How intense you going to get? Are you going to flag me from the navel Down? How intense? Just call Me.”
“You have 30 minutes before I dress and go to my Office at Bank of America! No play because I will be Working! Your missing out on a Golden opportunity! I have checked you out! Answer Me! J”
obviously, he is a big fan of the exclamation point as well.

why would i put up with all these emails so far? well, i can entertain a lot of kinks and fetishes, and i am willing to work with people who are on erotic journeys - so i tried to help him make his fantasy a reality. eventually he set up an appointment with me on january 3, but didnt show up. he contacted me the next day, saying he got tied up, and telling me that he wants to pay for his missed appointment as well as another one for the upcoming night. i told him how to make payment, and he said he would but after giving him two deadlines and with him still wanting me to discuss what i will do with him, i felt i had no choice but to add him to this blacklist. by the way, you are doing a terrific job of this, Lars - thank you very much. it is a real service to guys like us, who deal with the 99% great clients and the 1% pitiful people who end up on this site. sorry this is so long but this guy is really someone to watch out for - i strongly suggest you guys refuse any communication from him from the start.
Service Provider: 2233

Patrick
206-854-7245
12/8/09
I exchanged emails with this guy, who wanted an appointment during my trip in Seattle. He kept writing openly sexual things, asking me to rim him, and telling me that he "likes to get his pussy eaten." Other times he referred to his ass as his "man cunt." He finally called me and made plans for a 1 PM appointment, but before hanging up the phone he suddenly requested we get together at 8 AM. That should have been a sign of the problems to come with him. In the end, he agreed to come over at 1 PM - but he never showed up.
Service Provider: 2208

Steven
310-316-3769
12/5/09
I was invited to spend time with him in LA (Redondo Beach, CA) and all was going well until he literally snapped. He ended up throwing my laptop on the ground, verbally abusing me and I eventually knew I had to get out. I asked for my overnight rate and he stiffed me $400 on it. I then had to find a motel by the airport (costing another $200) and found the next day at LAX that he cancelled my flight back home. I had to repurchase a ticket at full-fare. This guy is a scammer, a thief and the only bad experience I've ever had. BEWARE.
Service Provider: 2234

Ken
310-616-6400
11/15/09
He called me at 3AM for a 2 hour session. Described himself as a "bisexual masculine vers athletic bottom from Woodbridge." Never showed, never returned my calls. I stayed up late waiting for him.
Service Provider: 2219

Tim
703-216-1637
11/14/09
Called at 1AM, wanted an appointment in next 45 minutes. Didn't show. Called him to see if he was lost, but he hung up right after answering. On third attempt, I left message for him to call me but he didn't.
Service Provider: 2203

John
214-499-6767, 214-871-1000
11/9/09
I'm based in DC but travel to various places for client appointments. He called me the day before I arrived in Dallas, to make plans for the first day of my visit there. When I got to my hotel, I called him and there was no answer from him. 2 days later he called me and told me that he missed my phone calls and he had no memory of our previous appointment. We made plans for Tuesday at 6 PM to have fun and dinner after.
He called me on Tuesday at 12:30 and asked me to get together at 1 PM that day instead of 6. I said yes to his new schedule. When I was getting ready he called me and asked me if it was OK for him to take pictures of me naked. I said no to him for obvious reasons, he said he would pick me up at 1 as we spoke previously but first he had to pay some workers in his property and he might be a few minutes late.
I waited for him til 1:40, I called him to his house and cellphone and there was no answers. I finally called to tell him that I had other guys to see that day and I couldn't wait for him anymore.
He called me at 2 and 3 PM to ask me to take a cab to his place and get some pictures taken by him... I already had told him that I wasn't going to allow that to happen and that I wasn't available at all... He also forgot the first date we had scheduled, the one at 6 PM on Tuesday, etc.
Service Provider: 2208

Sean
410-487-5873
Date unknown
I did an outcall to his house in Baltimore (I was coming from DC.) At the end of the massage, he told me he could not find his wallet. He asked me to wait at my car while he went to his car to get money. I never saw him again. I reported the incident to the police, but unfortunately I never got paid.
Service Provider: 2232

Tom
240-349-2287
9/22/2009
No show. Started out telling me how he thinks he is bi-curious, and how he wanted a session with me and a female friend. Described himself as having a good build and a shaved head, and told me he's turned away "dozens" of women(!) I set up an appointment for him with myself and a girl I work with, based on the dates he gave me. When I confirmed it with her, and then got back to him, the date was no longer good for him. So we set up a different date to meet. She arrived, we waited for him - but he neither called, nor came! This was rude - not only to me, but to her. I will not book anything with him without getting some payment for this. And future appointments? I would suggest you get pre-payment from him first.
Service Provider: 2233

Allen
240-350-6965
9/08/2009
No show. When he didn't arrive, I called him... he actually MUTED the call when he answered. I asked him to call back, but of course he didn't. I will not be seeing this guy again unless he covers me for the last session. I suggest if you agree to see him, you get pre-payment first. He told me he is originally from El Salvador.
Service Provider: 2233

name unknown
678-768-0306
7/10/2009
He never arrived and never called to cancel. He also never picked up the phone when I called to see if he was lost. On the phone, he said he wanted to come with a bag full of dildos for his ass. I guess he wants only to talk on the phone? He may not be serious about booking.
Service Provider: 2208

Michael
434-760-1375
7/07/2009
He called me and said he wanted to do some light bondage - he wanted me to use a rope on him. I gave him my address but he never showed up. When I called him to find out if he was lost, he never answered the call.
Service Provider: 2208

David
703-915-8673, also 703-998-5531
6/20/2009
He wanted an appointment, but never showed and never called. Beforehand, on the phone, he told me that he found it hard to connect with other people in DC - how ironic...
Service Provider: 2229

Eric
202-422-2105
Date not specified
This guy called me and he said that we saw before. We made plans to get together again, but he never showed, never called.
Service Provider: 2208

Name Unknown
901-494-9215
Date not specified
He made plans to get together with me in Memphis but didn't show up for the appointment at my hotel.
Service Provider: 2208

Name Unknown
301-915-7156
Date not specified
He never showed up, never called to cancel.
Service Provider: 2208

Name Unknown
404-816-8201
Date not specified
This guy called me at least 5 times offering to fly me to Atlanta "today" or tomorrow. When I said yes, he asked me to do it bareback with him. I told him I don't do it bareback, in Europe guys play safe all the time and there's no BB fever as it is in this side of the Atlantic. He seems to like to say that he has money to fly someone the same day to Atlanta, or maybe he gets off having a phone conversation about BB sex.
Service Provider: 2208
MORE ON HIM:
2/19/2008
Want you to know about a guy who called me to set up an appointment. He only wanted it if I would bareback him. Lars, I don’t know if he deserves to be blacklisted - but I thought other escorts should know about this.
Service Provider: 2229

Name Unknown
202-550-7183
Date not specified
He called me to go to his place in Adams Morgan. We had fun together. He seemed to be a nice guy, who happens to take a lot of antidepressants and has a crush on one of his students. He paid me and I left. Then, a week later I got a text from him. We made plans again, but this time when I arrived he didn't answer the phone and I couldn’t get inside his apartment building. He called me a couple of times later, but when I reminded him of his previous behavior, he hung up on me.
Service Provider: 2208

Jim
781-517-3186 and 781-620-0071
Approximately 4/09
He called me when I was in Boston. He asked for a discount price. Later he called to confirm but he never showed up for the appointment. When I called him he had his cell and home phone turned off.
Service Provider: 2208

Jason Wolin
703-505-6886
4/15/09
He called me and told me he wanted an immediate appointment. I rearranged my plans to see him two hours from then. After two phone calls with him setting this up, he then called back ten minutes later, telling me, “I got someone coming now... I'm gonna pass...” and hung up on me! I called him back, after several attempts I finally got him and told him he had done something similar to me about a year ago:
In March 2008, he told me he wanted to party with me and see how that went before taking me on an international trip to London. He told me he would want me to wear a tux for his corporate function there, said he was in good shape, told me he can be aggressive, be a “coach” daddy, and that he likes to have guys to pose for him. Then at the end of the conversation, he told me he would reimburse me when I brought the party favors to his place. I said, "Sorry, man, I don't have any connections." And he said, "Well, thanks but I'm gonna take a rain check" - and immediately hung up.
I reminded him of this similar call a year ago, and told him that he struck me as erratic, extreme and abrupt. I went on to say that I had to blacklist him on Lars' website. He went from being apologetic to calling me a Nazi, to cursing me out, and finally threatening to call the police on me (For what charges, I wonder?) Be careful though - this guy sounds a bit unbalanced.
Service Provider: 2222
MORE ON HIM:
3/21/11
He called and left a message responding to my massage ad on Backpage.com stating that he was 'serious' about meeting. I called him back that day, but the call went to voicemail and his mailbox was full. I sent him a text telling him that. He responded the next day and he wanted to set up an appointment. I only do outcalls and he told me he was located near Dulles airport. I declined since that was a good deal away from me. He said he would pay $300 and only wanted to do muscle worship. I decided it was worth the trip for the compensation and services requested and agreed to meet him at 9pm that night.
I should have known something was up because he started blowing up my phone with text messages asking questions like what time I would get there (I answered 9pm about 5 times) and asking about my shoe size and requesting that I not wear socks, not wear deodorant and when he found out that I was going to the gym, that I not shower before meeting him. He wanted to know how long I could spend with him, whether I wanted to go dinner, if I drank and his desire to hang out, etc. He sent me multiple messages in quick succession and he was really starting to work my nerves. I was near ready to cancel the whole thing, but decided to go along as some clients are nervous and really get carried away with their fetishes.
He gave me the address of 20320 Beechwood Terrace, Ashburn VA. He even called me at 9pm when I'd taken a wrong turn and was 5 minutes late. I showed up at the address, which is a condo develoment. I called him to tell him that I'd arrived and he said, 'okay' and hung up. I stood in front of the address waiting for him since I didn't know the unit number, but no Jason. I texted and called him multiple times, but- still, nothing. I sent him a final text telling him that I was giving him 5 more minutes then I was leaving. To say that I was furious is to put it mildly. I burnt (expensive) gas to go over an hour out of my way and gave up another client for this jerk. When I got home, I immediately started searching the phone number and came to this site. I wish I'd seen it earlier. I also found out that he's a realtor in Northern Virginia. Looks like he's with Samson Properties, which might be associated with Coldwell Banker.
His email address is jasongreatfalls@aol.com
Beware!! If he calls you, just hang up and block.
Service Provider: 2250

Albert
203-859-2756
Approximately 4/09
He emailed me several times about a trip I was taking to New Haven. I called him when I got to New Haven, we made plans to get together at 9 PM, but then he didn't show up. And then, he wouldn't answer the phone when I called him.
Service Provider: 2208

mike
301-300-9637
12/19/2008
after telling me how good looking he is, and how he rarely does this, and how he can't believe he is hiring a man to be with him, he scheduled an appointment with me for later the same afternoon. 30 mins before he was to arrive, he called to say he had booked a session with another guy - someone from frederick... so he wont be coming to me. and then started to promise me that he would call over the weekend! i told him, "no, don't - this isn't working out. please don't call me again." he stressed that he called to cancel, as if that showed that he was being decent. i tried to explain to him that he shouldn't have booked with me in the first place unless he was serious - this is as much about my time as it is his.
Service Provider: 2203

Kirk
571-315-9520
8/15/08
This guy is to be handled carefully. He called me for a same day appointment. I went to his house, in Herndon, VA area, in the 13000 address range on Feldman Place. There was no answer at the door, but 30 feet away (just one townhouse down), there was a guy sitting outside, watching me as I approached the door. There was no answer at the phone number above. The guy watching me said he didn't know anyone around there named Kirk... he was pretty suspect - his voice sounded similar to the guy I spoke with on the phone. I would suggest you beware of anyone booking an appointment on Feldman Place.
Service Provider: 2212

chris b
540-550-7857, 540-439-6565
10/17/2008
booked a session with me at the marriott courtyard in tysons corner, three weeks out. he had to check in to the hotel the day of the appointment, and i had him on my calendar for all those weeks before it. but that day, he never called me with a room number, nor to confirm our session. i left several messages for him, but never heard back.
Service Provider: 2229

Scott M
804-399-7171
Date not specified
This guy calls me with an attitude, but I, being a nice guy, ignore it. He then shows up in the parking lot where we are to meet, says, "you are too old," and walks away from me. He knew my age beforehand, and if he had questions he should have asked beforehand. All this without even an apology for wasting my time!
Service Provider: 2218

Matt W
503-816-9432
8/14/08
He booked an appointment with me in his hotel room for the next day. I got there, knocked on his room door, but there was no answer. Called him a couple of times to his cell, and also no answer. This guy never called me back, even though I left two separate messages. Four days later I called him to tell him about this blacklist site, and he quickly said, "You've got the wrong number," and hung up on me while I was still speaking. No respect to me or my time...
Service Provider: 2203

Ed
240-328-3504
7/24/08
He set up an appointment for the same day he called. Then he called 1/2 hour before he was to arrive, left a message: "The taxi isn't here, I don't know if I can make it in time, please call." This was odd because he told me he was going to take metro... I called him, left a message for him to call me back - but he didn't. I called him again later, and he said he would call to set up another appointment next week. I told him first he would have to pay me for this one, and I would hold the money for a full month for him to redeem, or else I would have to blacklist him on this site. He insisted he would call me next week to set something up. I said said, "Sorry, I'm going to have to blacklist you." (I have heard that line - "I'll call you again to set something up" - way too many times before, with no phone call later)
Service Provider: 2222

Alex, aka Darin D.
540-325-8801
6/25/08
Had booked a 90 minute appointment with me, but did not show, did not call.
Service Provider: 2212

Brian, aka Bill
540-729-3837
6/26/08
Called me several times over the last few months, telling me various things: he never has done this before, he has a fantasy of two guys working out, naked, on workout equipment - etc. Booked an appointment with me and never showed, never called.
Service Provider: 2202

NAME REMOVED
2XX-XXX-4753
5/24/08
Called and booked an appointment for the same evening. I was driving back from Rehoboth and told him I thought I would be in my apartment in DC, for an 11:30PM starting time. We agreed that if I were running late from traffic, I would call him. In fact I was ready to go at 11:30. He never showed up and never called. Thinking that he might have fallen asleep, I called him a couple other times over the next two days, but didn't hear from him again.
Service Provider: 2207
UPDATED 11/2011 - THE PERSONAL DETAILS ON THIS CLIENT ARE NOW REMOVED, BECAUSE AMENDS HAVE BEEN MADE BETWEEN HIM AND THE SERVICE PROVIDER. THIS SHOWS THAT WHILE A MISTAKE WAS ORIGINALLY MADE, THIS CLIENT WAS ULTIMATELY WILLING TO RESOLVE IT.

Mirko
703-786-9406
Approximately 5/08
At the appointment, he said he had no cash. We went to a cash machine which said his card was not valid. He said of course he would pay, but did not.
Service Provider: 2201

Andy
202-297-0037
4/7/08
I gave him one massage in fall of '07. Nice guy, no problems. Then he called on March 10 telling me he had been to me before, and how good I was - and that he needed to come see me right away. He said he would be at my place in 30 minutes. He never showed, and never answered the phone.
He called again on April 7 but I was booked. Again, he said he had been to me before. He made an appointment for 1pm the following afternoon. I felt he would not show, so I called him at 11:00am and there was no answer. I left a message for him to call me back and let me know if he was coming - but never got a return call.
Service Provider: 2201

Name Unknown
443-465-9330
2/24/08
He called for an appointment within the hour. Never arrived.
Service Provider: 2231

Bram
540-222-2365
his email: puggles127@yahoo.com
2/21/08
He called me setting up an appointment for night time, making me even cancel other things I had as priority just to make sure I could ensure him the greatest and most enjoyable time. Then a 2nd phone call from him asking if it was ok if he arrived kind of late. I said it would be fine since he was at least keeping me posted.
The 3rd phone call came 2 hours after the 1st call. He said he heard about a big storm on the news and he was concerned about driving to DC. I noticed that at that time he was still at home - and not on the road almost arriving at my Hotel. I just had strength to hang up on him - I could not even stand his voice at that moment.
This guy e-mails me two days later: “Sorry about the other night. The weather got bad and I truly apologize. I'm free this evening and can come over if you still want me to, please email me. I like it mild to wild and can come again. I'm sorry. Thanks.”
Before I could respond, he found one of my screen names on GAY.COM and started chatting with me, starting apologizing for the inconvenient hard time he made me go through, and asking me to please give him another chance to come to see me. He said that he was going to make it up to me.
I ended up making the big mistake of saying yes, come over.
He set the appointment for 8PM but I asked him to call me when he was on his way. That way I could see if he was for real or not.
I never heard from him, and now it is midnight, which is why I am blacklisting him. Well,well,well !!! Should I say anything else?? ...DON'T FUCK WITH US
Service Provider: 2231

Jerry
703-963-0448
2/11/08
He booked an appointment with me in March of 2006. Didn't ever show up, and never called afterwards, even though I had left messages for him. I never reported him to the site because I didn't know about BlacklistedNow back then. But I do keep good records on these guys who don't show. He called me again today, and wanted an appointment. I told him, I won't see you because you blew me off for an appointment about two years ago." He said he knew about that. I said, "You can either pay me for a portion of my fee, or I will blacklist you on a website for this, for other guys to know so they can be made aware." He said, "OK, well then, I'll just pass on making an appointment..."
So, guys, here is his information!
Service Provider: 2202

Tim
301-373-3854
1/20/08
He e-mailed me in early November about setting up an overnight visit at his place in Hollywood, Maryland. He was going to pick me up at the closest metro station and we would drive to his place. He contacted me a few days before, and called again later in the week to confirm. But then he called last minute and said he had a cold and couldn't meet. I said that was fine, but I didn't tell him I had declined another offer for a meeting since I thought I was going to meet him. Oh well, that's the business sometimes.
He contacted me two weeks later, and the same thing happened! This time, he said he had to go out of town for an emergency. I was a little annoyed then.
He tried a third time and cancelled again!
I blocked his e-mail address and figured he would get the hint to not contact me anymore.
He just called me a few minutes ago and said he wanted to meet. I told him I had no interest in seeing him because I knew we would never meet...it would just be another cancellation. He got upset with me and I told him that was the reason I had blocked his e-mail address.
This man needs a hobby besides jerking around guys that are trying to be honest when it comes to this line of work.
Service Provider: 2230

Chad
781-361-2335
1/19/08
Called me at 7:30am, for an outcall appointment at 11am. Asked that I give him a call shortly before arriving. I called him half an hour before, he answered and said, "Can I call you back in a minute?" but never did. I tried him ten minutes later, it went to voicemail, I left a message for him to call back. I tried him again at 11am, no answer. I didn't go to his place, but it was frustrating, because I had another call from a client later in the morning who wanted me at that time, and I told him I was already booked. When I called the other client back, he had made other plans.
For what it's worth, this guy Chad sounded a little out-of-it on the phone when we spoke. Otherwise, he might be a nice guy - but too unreliable for me to book with him again.
Service Provider: 2212

Steve
517-487-5669
1/4/08
Contacted me a month before his appointment, telling me he's into all sorts of kink and said he could be wearing a buttplug or CB harness at our appointment, if I wanted him to. Sent me an email with a detailed description of what he likes - from "attitude" and "limitations" to sensory deprivation, ass play, and toys. Text from this email included "Whole body: mummification, hot wax, clothespins (Someday I'd love to try for 1000, but it would take 7 people- 1 each on left head and arm; right head and arm; left torso; right torso; left leg and hip; right leg and hip; and cock and balls). I've been shaved head to toe, pissed on and buried up to my neck at a beach and face-fucked." Booked a 3 hour appointment with me - he was coming in from Michigan - but never showed up for it, and never called me back.
Service Provider: 2229

marcos
571-490-1036
12/20/07
he wanted an appointment, telling me he had never been with a man before, and a friend told him to try this. he never showed up for the appointment. he also called me in march 2008, i told him i wouldnt see him, he just hung up on me. this guy said he originally is from el salvador.
Service Provider: 2242

Michael
301-951-7517
10/12/07
Michael called me wanting an outcall to Chevy Chase right away, and I went. We agreed on the price, and when I arrived he was polite but seemed like he was on medication that perhaps was prescribed. He acted a bit drunk, but did not smell of alcohol. He is very hard of hearing and I had to say things over and over. At the end of the session he went into the bathroom for a long time. I told him I needed to leave, and he asked me how much the fee was. I told him and he handed me 3/4ths of the money, telling me he had no more. I told him he could write me a check. Then he tried to take the money back, but I clutched it and told him to write me a check for the rest of amount. He then asked me if I had change for a $100 bill, and I did, and he paid me.
Service Provider: 2201

Teddy
202-368-0539
7/23/07
He contacted me on 1/4/07, said wanted an appointment at 2:30 in the morning for that nite. I was willing to do that, and he was going to call back to confirm at 2am - but he never did. This was not enough to blacklist him, but he did seem flaky after that. Months later in July, he booked an appointment with me, but never showed up, and never called.
Service Provider: 2207

aubrey
504-919-4442 cell. ever2succeed@yahoo.com. based in new orleans.
6/27/07
he wanted a massage, told me he would need one after his long drive up from new orleans. however, he never showed up, and never called. i called him but no answer. tried him again two days later - he said he was at my place 5 minutes early, but had phone troubles, and didn’t have my phone number, and thought he was in the wrong apt (!!!) and then he left. this was all strange because you can not get in my building without getting through the security door. he made no offer to pay for my lost time.
Service Provider: 2242

Keith
703-536-2546
4/10/07
Aside from the fact that he told me he might like me to fuck his wife in the future, he never showed up for his appointment, and never called.
Service Provider: 2207

Name Unknown
240-285-8477
Approximately 3/07
He called me at 7:10 and made plans to be in my place as soon as possible. Because of his cellphone, I knew that he was from Maryland. Knowing how "difficult it is to drive in DC" for these guys from Maryland, I asked him where he was. He said he was driving on Connecticut Ave toward the White House. I gave him my address (16th and U) and told him to get off Connecticut toward the left and look for the street numbers 18th, 17th and then Bingo: 16th.
I called him again at 8pm. He told me that he was at 14th and S and didn't know how to get to my place. I explained to him one more time to look for 16th St, and I told him the street number of my building. At 8:35 I just gave up on him.
What the f... is it with guys from MD - why is it so difficult to just follow the street numbers in DC? Every time I see a 301, 410, or 240, I think: “He might arrive late.”
Service Provider: 2208

Name Unknown
312-636-6989
Approximately 6/07
He didn’t show, and didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2209

Name Unknown
214-636-1699
Approximately 6/07
He didn’t show, and didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2209

Name Unknown
240-285-8477
Approximately 6/07
He didn’t show, and didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2209

Name Unknown
410-370-0640
Approximately 6/07
He didn’t show, and didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2209

Paul
703-431-1203
2/19/07
Never showed up, never called.
Service Provider: 2206

Tom
727-271-1667
2/19/07
Before the appointment, he called to say he was driving in from Alexandria. 40 mins later, I called him, and he said he was lost, and that he just ran into his boss (!!??!!), and he needed to call me back. 20 mins later, I called again, got his voicemail, and left a message. Later, when I finally spoke with him, I told him - “I don’t want to have to blacklist you.” He asked if he could rebook and have his female friend come to accompany. We also talked the next day but he never did call back to finalize an appointment.
Service Provider: 2206

Michael
937-271-5463
4/30/07
He didn’t show, and didn’t call. I called him later but his phone would not answer.
Service Provider: 2206

Dennis Roy
202-374-4393
Date not specified
Also known as Andy. Set up and confirmed a meeting with two of our escorts at the in-call location. Called to confirm, and then was a no-show. Kept everyone waiting after they traveled some distance to meet. When we were finally able to reach him, hours after the appointment, he became upset and gave some excuse about misplacing his wallet, but did not call to cancel.
Service Provider: A local escort agency

Name Unknown
202-588-9249
Date not specified
He set up an appointment for an incall, and called 30 minutes before to confirm. Then, he never showed up.
Service Provider: 2210

Name Unknown
202-256-5160
Date not specified
He gave a Georgetown address. I showed up, but the address did not exist and he did not answer his phone.
Service Provider: 2210

John
703-622-3265
Date not specified
This guy is my running joke. He has made seven appointments and canceled every one.
Service Provider: 2210

Paul
703-431-1203
2/19/07
Never showed up, never called.
Service Provider: 2211

Tom
727-271-1667
2/19/07
He booked a spontaneous appointment, telling me that he was driving in to DC from Alexandria. 40 minutes later, I called, he said he was lost, and that he just ran into his boss so he needed to call me back. 20 minutes later, I called him again, but the phone went to voicemail. He called me two days afterwards, to say he wanted to book an appointment for three days later, and asked if his female friend could be there, just to watch. I told him that was ok - and he was to call me back with a time that was good for both of them. I left follow up messages afterwards, but he never called.
Service Provider: 2211

Amy
571-261-1059
2/08/07
Never showed, never called.
Service Provider: 2212

John
410-952-4076
1/23/07
i live in dc, and a guy from baltimore called me to come over for a 3 hour meeting. we had agreed on a 9:30 p.m. meeting, and i had explained to him that i was taking the train over since i don't have a car. i rode the train for an hour there and called him because he was supposed to be waiting at the station for me. he pretended like he was sleepy and said that it was supposed to be at 9:30 a.m., not p.m. this is a total lie. i specifically asked on the phone if the meeting was for that night, and he said yes.
i had to wait for the next train, and ride an hour back. three hours total i wasted and i missed a potential client during my ordeal.
Service Provider: 2213

Tim
303-808-2939
Date not specified
I went on a call to this guy. Everything was going well until he asked me to finger him and I found he was not clean. I told him I would not do it anymore unless he took care of the problem. He then got mad, told me to get out, threw the money at me, and said I was the worst escort he ever called!
Service Provider: 2214

name unknown
202-745-9573
Date not specified
Never showed, never called.
Service Provider: 2215

name unknown
703-348-7523
Date not specified
Never showed, never called.
Service Provider: 2215

Scott
760-235-9177
Date not specified
Never showed, never called.
Service Provider: 2215

Alex
202-492-8316
1/11/07
Never showed up, never called.
Service Provider: 2216

Bobby
301-987-2451
1/17/07
Never showed up, never called.
Service Provider: 2216

Sean
301-449-4475
1/16/07
He set an appointment with me to meet at his place. It was far away from me. I met him at his place. At the end of the one hour session, he said he had no money to pay me, that he lost his checkbook, and he was going to mail it to me. He never did.
Service Provider: 2217

Jeff
757-343-3580
12/27/06
He called me just before the appointment, parked at the wrong property, and came to see me over the neighbor's fence. I asked him to park next to my car... then he went over and started driving away. When I called him back he didnt answer his phone. A rude, time-waster...
Service Provider: 2218

Alex
703-589-4261
Date not specified
Asked to see one of our transsexual companions, but when the person drove 45 minutes to Alexandria, failed to answer the phone and had neglected to say it was an apartment building. Finally gave the apartment number after we called from a different number - but no one ever answered that unit.
Service Provider: A local escort agency

Roger
540-408-3156
Date not specified
Set up appointment with one of our escorts at one of our in-call locations. Client had escort travel across town to meet him and then never showed up, never called, and did not answer phone.
Service Provider: A local escort agency

Victor
909-241-1470
12/19/06
Never showed up, never called!
Service Provider: 2219

Gary
302-690-2608
7/05
He set up an appointment at his friend's place in Prospect House in Arlingon. When I was at the L'Enfant Plaza Metro station he called me to confirm that I was coming. I told him I was on my way as promised. The comunication was bad and I couldn't understand what he said. I asked him to repeat himself and then he told me with a very angry voice: "I don't like your attitude, we'd better cancel this now." I called him back when I got off the metro, but I kept getting his voice mail.
The next day a friend of mine had the same problem with him, again he cancelled at the last moment! It seems that Gary enjoys turning down a guy - maybe it's a "Freudian" thing?
He called me once again at a later point for a session - he doesn't even keep the names or phone numbers of the guys he has bothered before. I politely suggested that he go to a mental hospital.
Service Provider: 2208

Larry
540-829-9531
Date not specified
He called several times offering me US$25,000 to appear in a movie about a guy who is a fitness model during the day and an escort at night. He kept talking about meeting first just to talk about it, but not for "fun”. I told him many times that I wasn't interested in his proposal. Then, one day a guy called me from a nearby pay phone and showed up in my place. He was dressed like a homeless person, and he was very sweaty. I asked him politely to take a shower to feel more confortable. At that moment he introduced himself as the guy who called me for the movie. He told me again the same story about the movie and how perfect I was for the main character. Once more time I told him that I wasn't interested. He never called me again.
Service Provider: 2208

Phil
804-387-6935
Date not specified
He called me to come to his hotel room at the Mayflower Hotel. When I got to his room, he wouldn’t answer the door. I called him on his cell and got his voicemail. I left a message, and waited in the hotel lobby for 15 minutes for him to call back - but he never did.
Service Provider: 2208

Names as yet unrecorded
917-673-4038, 301-221-7590, 917-991-8125, 301-717-7883, 240-744-6750, 301-674-9477, 724-272-7418, 214-636-1699, 301-643-5757, 804-356-7037, 571-643-2706, 240-672-2264, 703-569-8515, 301-654-7535, 202-486-8919, 202-271-8600, 202-441-3859, 202-398-1764
Multiple dates
All of the above numbers are from guys who didn’t show up for their appointments in my apartment. Up till now, I did not keep the names of them; I’ve only kept their phone numbers as “no shows.”
Service Provider: 2208

Name unknown
240-601-8924
Date not specified
He didn’t show up for his appointment in my apartment.
Service Provider: 2208
MORE ON HIM:
I saw him once. He told me his name was Soni. I arrived twenty minutes later than I intended, as his place was very hard to find. When I got there, his roommate was there, and he said he wanted to cancel the 90 minute appointment. I insisted he pay me half of my fee, which he begrudgingly did.
Service Provider: 2202

Paul
703-283-6316
12/9/06
He told me he likes to be paddled. He gave me directions to his place, and I was to call him when I got off the Van Dorn exit in Virginia. But when I called him, he had turned off his phone. A waste of gas and my time.
Service Provider: 2220

Jason
917-657-8495 and 724-272-7418
12/3/06
He didn’t show up for his appointment. Then he called me an hour and a half later, and asked me to travel to his place in Alexandria. I went there and we started our session. All was good, until he suddenly became worried his roommate was going to come home. He asked if we could go back to my place. I told him by the time we got there an hour would already be up, and asked him if he wanted an additional hour or more. He said he did, and followed me in his car to my place. When I arrived but he didn't, I called - he told me he realized he had left his wallet back home. He never did come back to my place. Afterwards, he would hang up the phone when I called him, and of course never did pay for the session. A complete waste of my time.
Service Provider: 2204

Stan, aka “stangon”
773-203-5343
12/1/06
He didn’t show up for his appointment, and he didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2221

Ray
310-751-7751
11/18/06
He didn’t show up for his appointment, and he didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2205
UPDATE FROM LARS: on 10/13/10, someone (probably Ray?) sent me this message, from the email address dmnsn8@aol.com: "Please remove 310-751-7751 from the http://blacklistednow.blogspot.com/2006/04/did-escort-or-masseur-tell-you-to-come.html site. We made a mends. Thanks!" Needless to say, I contacted the Service Provider to follow up, and HE responded to me with this: "Hey Lars, thanks for the email. Please Do Not remove him from your website, he's a game player, time waster lunatic."
UPDATE FROM LARS: on 10/17/10, someone (again, probably Ray, right?) sent me a message, from an email address that is the escort's name, but with the number "2" after the escort's name. It looks like this (for anonymity, I have blocked out the escort's name here with x's): xxxxxxxx2@hotmail.com. It appears that the sender is now impersonating the escort: "Remove dmnsn8@aol.com from blacklist page. Amends was made. 2205"
One would think that it might be simpler to actually make amends with the escort, rather than going to all of this other trouble. He is starting to take up a substantial amount of my time (additional messages have also been sent to me as well, extreme in their content).

Chris
703-774-6938
11/18/06
He didn’t show up for his appointment, and he didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2205

Mike
703-801-1898
11/18/06
He didn’t show up for his appointment, and he didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2205

robert
301-793-7092
11/15/06
he didn’t show up for his appointment, and he didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2222

miles
240-305-4031
11/2/06
he didn’t show up for his appointment, and he didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2222

kevin
202-423-3422
10/28/06
he didnt show for his session, and didnt call. when i called, he said he fell asleep watching TV! said he totally understands what its like to miss an appointment, as his work involves appointments too (he cuts hair), and he felt so bad that he wanted to reschedule, and pay for half of the missed appointment as well. i rescheduled him for 11/01/06, and AGAIN, he didnt show. when i called, he said he totally forgot about that appointment, and because of that he wanted to just come by and pay for the two missed sessions. i confirmed arrangement of payment (i once again clarified, only by cash) and the time for him to come by, which was to be the next day at 5pm. he didnt come by. when i called, he said he totally forgot, but promised that he would be over in 1.5 hours. he never came. when i called again, he apologized and asked if i could come to him, as he had taken some sleeping pills and really couldnt go out (he was 4 blocks away). at that point i told him he was going to be blacklisted, so he said he would come by to pay, but it would have to be by check. there were just too many changes, too much bullshit, and too much spaciness from him. i told him i cant take a check, and reminded him that he knew that previously. beware- this guy is VERY FLAKY. DO NOT SEE.
Service Provider: 2222

Bob
480-247-6242
11/6/06
He leads you to a fake address over 50 miles away.
Service Provider: 2223

ricardo
202-561-0156
11/28/06
When I arrived at his place, he didn’t answer the door for a couple minutes. He had hired me for a massage, but was very nervous. I gave him a massage, but after a few minutes he said he wanted to turn over. Then he said he wanted to fuck me. I got a condom, and he began, thrusting too hard and fast (not a very good fuck, didn’t know what he was doing, to start out that way). He quickly pulled out, and freaked out- I think he couldn’t handle the fact that he was having sex with a guy. He canceled the rest of the session. I told him he could call me if he needed to talk about any of this in the future. Then he told me he wouldn’t be paying me, since he was so wigged out. He said we didn’t even go for the full session length! I offered to continue to give him a massage, but he said no. DO NOT SEE THIS MAN - he is a mess, and cannot take any responsibility for his own actions.
Service Provider: 2200

tim
313-610-1203
10/03/06
he had no respect for me; he just wanted his rocks off, and me out. afterwards, he didnt even want me to shower - - once he came, he was ready for me to get the fuck out. moreover, he was way too nervous. during our session, he freaked out after he came, and shouted "don't come on me!" however, not only was i NOT near coming, i wasn't even TOUCHING my dick! ultimately, he seemed very uptight about his sexuality. i won't see him again; as for you- well, just be prepared for a very nervous, very uptight guy to deal with.
Service Provider: 2203

John
540-481-0942
10/6/06
No show for appointment that was reconfirmed the day before with this number. I called him when he was late and he does not even have a voice mail set up for this number.
Service Provider: 2201

Peter
703-243-9493
10/6/06
No show. He called from a pay phone to make appointment. When I told him I needed a reconfirming number, he gave me his home number which was the same voice and name. Then I gave him my address and he did not show. He called an hour later from a hotel to tell me he was tired and not going to make it and "maybe this weekend". I told him I would not do business with him as he was rude and he hung up on me. Avoid him.
Service Provider: 2201

Jeff
202-364-9028
9/21/06
He didn’t show up for his appointment, and he didn’t call. Moreover, his number is not in service for incoming calls.
Service Provider: 2224

Nick
202-489-7326
9/13/06
Called me one minute before the appointment, and canceled, saying "something came up" - and this was at 11PM!!! I pointed out that he was canceling ONE MINUTE before the appointment, and I could have taken another appointment for that time, and I requested that he not call me again. He said I was not being very professional. I pointed out that HE was not being respectful of people’s schedules and appointments, and he hung up while I was talking to him.
Service Provider: 2224

Glen
443-404-6148
10/01/06
Never showed up, never called.
Service Provider: 2202

John
aka Casey
301-580-2306
9/08/06
Never showed up, never called!
Service Provider: 2219

Doug
754-264-1581
7/27/06
Never showed up, never called! Finally got him on the phone, he said he got confused, and thought I had two ads (!) Said he called ANOTHER guy named David to cancel. I told him that I lost the time. He said he would pay me almost half of my fee- I thought that was fair. He was to send it to me via post. It's six weeks later, though, and guess what - nothing from Doug.
Service Provider: 2219

Peter
203-554-6024
7/10/06
Contacted me by email, we had decent exchanges and he gave me his phone number. But when I tried to call him, he answered the phone but wouldnt speak - I had only said "Hi, Peter, this is Dave- can you talk right now?" and he hung up on me. I should've taken that as a sign of what was to come! But later he called me back, and he set up an appointment for 4 days from then, asking me to email my address/directions to him. The night before the appointment I called him to confirm that he got the address. The next day I hadn't heard from him, so I called him (twice). He never returned my calls, but at the scheduled time there I was, ready and waiting for him. He didn't show up and didn't return my calls.
Service Provider: 2216

brandon
aka david
202-271-2757
7/07/06
scheduled with me twice in september 2005, and then this july, 2006. first appointment, he called the day before, said he needed to reschedule for the next week. i called him the day of the appointment, he told me he was “just going to call”, he needed to reschedule again. for this july appointment, he didn't show up, and didn't return my calls.
Service Provider: 2222

Joe
aka Don
301-305-2450
6/26/06
He did not show for his appointment. He called me 1.5 hours before the appointment, and asked if he could push it up an hour. I told him I could not do it an hour later with my current schedule, but I could push him up for 45 minutes later. He was to call me back in 30 minutes, but he never did. Then, he never showed up at my place.
Service Provider: 2216

Scott
540-219-5559
5/25/06
He did not show for his appointment. I talked with him several times over the last 3 months and when he booked the appointment I asked for a reconfirming phone number. He was to begin the drive to DC at 6am in the morning and said he might arrive early. I called him at 10:30am, no answer. I paged him at 11:00am, no answer. Finally I left a message and told him I was posting his number on this website and he told me he was "in a meeting". He is a time waster and asks the same questions over and over again.
Service Provider 2201
MORE ON HIM:
he also goes by the names dean, larry, wesley, wes, chad. he has called me five separate times over the last year. he wanted me to meet him at an intersection near route 29, between vint hill and new baltimore, in virginia, and said he was going to be in a red toyota truck. this is not something i do normally, but since he had called previously, i thought he was serious. after i had started driving out to him, he called me, and said he couldnt do this - it was to be in his friend’s house, but now his friend’s wife was coming home! it was all very messy. i suggested we could use a hotel near warrenton, he hesitated; i said i could get the room, he hesitated. he wanted to call me in 5 minutes if he could get his own house, and then i said call me either way, or just be straight with me if this is not gonna work. he said ok, he would call in the future! i said no, forget it, you dont seem serious, i’m 15 mins away from you and we can use a hotel or your house, but its obvious youre not serious. i told him not to call me again.
Service Provider: 2222

Brian
703-861-2042
4/27/06
He did not show for his appointment. I called and only then did he say he was not coming.
Service Provider: 2201

Chris
410-979-6064
various dates
A time waster who calls once a month and asks the same questions. Has never had bodywork from a man before. The last time he called, I asked him if he had called before, and he said no. I told him that I have caller ID and not to waste my time.
Service Provider: 2201

Rick
240-793-7802
2/12/06
Never showed for his appointment, nor did he call. He is a very arrogant and controlling man. Avoid him!
Service Provider: 2201

nicholas
240-678-2650
week of 05/20/06
he gave me a fake address in rockville, i tried calling back later and i didn't get any answer.
Service Provider: 2225

kevin
202-841-1833
various dates.
he always books appointments very early in the morning, and always cancels at the last moment, with a variety of bogus reasons.
Service Provider: 2225

lee
540-351-0154 note: he says this is his office phone, but answered it at 11pm one nite; he also gave me a cell number that is bogus - it rings to a girl named brittany, who doesnt know lee at all.
05/22/06
he never showed for appointment, and never called back. because he lives an hour away from me, i had called him the night before to confirm our next day appointment. at that time, he told me that he would definitely be coming.
Service Provider: 2222

anthony
973-722-7456
11/18/05
he never showed up for appointment, and never returned my calls afterwards. he then called me on 060523, when i told him he blew me off in november he didnt seem to care at all.
Service Provider: 2222

Robert
301-682-4078
Multiple times called
Asks lots of questions, but never books; he is a time drain. I think he may be jerking off while calling.
Service Provider: 2226
MORE ON HIM:
i've dealt with him, too. i agree, he never books. he has called me numerous times, going by various names like chad, chandler, mallory, dave. asks me questions like, "are you good with your tongue?" and "will you send me your pictures in the mail?” once, he told me that he was ready to make an appointment, he had just been released from a psychiatric hospital- because he was suicidal (!)
Service Provider: 2222
MORE ON HIM:
he goes by the name of dave. he has been calling over the past 3 months, various dates, big time time waster,supposedly never has time to see me, but always time to obviously jerk off while telling me his fantasies.
Service Provider: 2225
MORE ON HIM:
He has been calling me since 12/05, using yet another alias which I hesitate to give, as I am sure he changes them according to his moods. He did make an appointment, but cancelled a week in advance, as he said he broke his leg (which of course had me on the phone consoling him as he was in pain). We have had cordial conversations this year and he has made 2 other advanced appointments, and cancelled them many days ahead, citing work changes.
Service Provider: 2201

Mark
301-213-0047
Date not provided
No show, no call. Claims he forgot. When chance to make it up is presented he does not call. Just a game player getting off on setting appointments.
Service Provider: 2227

Rob, aka Robert Ellett
757-639-6940
05/18/06
Kept changing appointment times, days, location. Multiple calls, taking up lots of time on phone, describing desired role play in great detail with specific requests (ie, wanted me with sweaty pits). Eventually canceled his three hour appointment 10 minutes before it was to happen, first asking if it could be later in the evening, then not even committing to that. I had told other callers I was already booked, and was left with a time gap, and sweaty pits!
Service Provider: 2216
06/18/10
This guy is already in your blacklist and he flaked on me too.
This appointment was scheduled a week in advance. It was supposed to be a 90 minute in call for role play. He decided he wanted an out call so I adjusted my schedule to do an out call. 5 minutes before I'm ready to take off to him, he can't find his envelope of cash which he had "last night". I informed him I take credit cards as well but he stated he really needs to find his cash and wanted to reschedule. I informed him Fridays are one of my busier nights and I had turned down 4 clients already who were looking for his time slot. This guy is a flake and a waste of time.
Service Provider: 2240

James
202-409-8886
04/14/06
Did not show for appoinment.
Service Provider: 2228

Keith
717-404-7963
02/27/06
Wanted outcall appointment. I went to his Crystal City hotel, the room number was wrong. Upon calling him, he wouldn’t answer, nor return my calls.
Service Provider: 2228

Richard
202-333-3398
01/08/06
Did not show for appoinment.
Service Provider: 2228

Mario
703-525-4956
He did not show for appointment.
Service Provider: 2226

joseph
202-237-2257
04/28/06
wanted session but no apt number existed at the address given. When i called, he said “i’m not home yet!” and hung up, and never called back. sidenote: he called me numerous times in the past, from july 2004, wanting information, but could never seem to get my prices straight.
Service Provider: 2222
MORE ON HIM:
5/24/06
He wanted me to come to his place today. I explained that he had made an appointment with me before and I could not reach him to confirm and that I saw his name and number on this website. He said it was all lies. I told him I would not deal with him again.
Service Provider: 2201
MORE ON HIM:
9/22/06
He called me and I checked this site to see if his number was here - as I always do before booking someone. I told him he was on a Blacklist site, and he got very angry with me, although I explained to him that I did not put him there - I only use the site to check for issues with potential clients. I told him there is a way to get his name and number off the site. He yelled, "They are lying!!" and hung up the phone. I did not think this made him seem particularly innocent.
Service Provider: 2224

dwight
828-200-0338, alt is 703-790-1249
04/06/06
he never showed up for the appointment.
Service Provider: 2222

jeff
202-387-9252
04/28/06
never showed up at my place.
Service Provider: 2222
NOTE FROM LARS: This number does not take incoming calls!!! This is a payphone in Dupont Circle. It seems to be a frequent number to use by men who are calling to hire. Consider a call from this NOT SERIOUS. I have been sent several emails from working boys about this number.

raul
202-361-0426
03/29/06
he didnt show, and never called.
Service Provider: 2222

Mike
803-917-1545
03/15/06
No show, and never returned calls.
Service Provider: 2200

Jerry
703-963-0448
03/10/06
No show, and never returned calls.
Service Provider: 2200

Joe
267-253-6275
03/01/06
Said he was $40 short of the previously told price when it came time to pay. Other notes on this guy: totally uptight, nervous, noncommunicative, and stupid, too! He couldn't get to my place in time, said he would be there in “5 minutes” but it took him 70 minutes! At the building entry system, he couldn't get the door open, he kept hanging up the phone just before I could begin to buzz him in. He is NOT the sharpest tool in the shed.
Service Provider: 2200

Rick
202-332-1866, also 202-701-4646
04/20/06
After spending the night with him, he was to pay in the morning. Have seen him before and knew that I only take cash, but in the morning wouldnt go to ATM to get cash, instead wanted to give me a check, which was not a possibility with me under any circumstances - and he knew that. I had to leave without payment. In fact, I had previously been warned about him from my friend Brett (an escort, now retired); when Brett arrived at his place for a session, Rick wouldn’t answer the door.
Service Provider: 2216

Jay
202-409-9774
03/10/06
He wanted to top me, and I was ok with that, but told him he needed to use a condom. It was all good... several positions, etc. Then at some point, I felt around and realized he had pulled off the condom, and was barebacking me! BLACKLISTED FOREVER.
Service Provider: 2216

Patrick
540-286-0351
07/07/04
He got into trouble with the cops because he tried to pick one up in a park in Fredericksburg, VA. The cops made a deal with him, he could get three sex offenders for them and they would remove charges against him. So, he set me up and the cops “found” him with me in a hotel room; I had to deal with a huge legal entanglement and it cost me a lot of money - it was a nightmare - that’s all I am going to say about it on this site.
Service Provider: 2216

DID AN ESCORT OR MASSEUR TELL YOU TO COME HERE?

2006-04-26T03:43:00.005-04:00

Yes? Oh, fuck...
In all likelihood, you’ve been blacklisted!

Perhaps you blew off an appointment. Or you didn’t pay the service provider what he was owed. Or you did something else that crossed the line for an Escort or Masseur.

Here’s what you need to do. Check to see if your phone number is on this site, by doing a search on the page for your phone number. DON'T go to the top of this page and use the "Search This Blog" feature - it doesn't seem to work. Instead, go to something like your computer's "Edit" drop-down menu, and choose something like "SEARCH" or "FIND" to locate text on the page. It may be easiest to search by the last four numbers of your phone, as opposed to the whole number. It will save you time, as well as prevent any oversights with the hyphen or space keys.

If nothing comes up, that’s good news for you! It means that you are not showing any history of mishaps on this site. But if your number does come up, it will also have some information attached to it. Perhaps the first name that you gave the Escort or Masseur. Perhaps a date, showing when the situation occurred. And certainly, it will list a brief description of what happened. Finally, it will show a number assigned to the service provider.

So, your number is on the site. What should you do now?

First of all, realize that your number can now be pulled up if anyone were to conduct an internet search for it, by using a search engine like Google. Not good... not good at all, for most people (who seem to desire discretion).

But then again (let me take a moment to get preachy here...), what you did was not good, either. Blowing off an appointment is not nice. Not paying someone a previously agreed-upon amount is not nice. Giving someone a false address is not nice. Not using a condom, when someone requests you to, is not nice. These are basic manners. JUST BE NICE. If you haven’t learned this lesson yet, perhaps this situation (that you have actually created for yourself) will teach you. There are consequences for irresponsible behavior.

OK, enough of the lecture. You probably want to get your number and personal details removed from this site. You now have a couple of options:

1. Contact the service provider if you know who he is, and try to fix whatever problem the Escort or Masseur has described. For example,
---- Did you not show up for a session? You may need to reimburse the Escort or Masseur for his time (think about it, this is time he lost, because he could have had another session then). In many cases, service providers prep considerably for their clients - insuring that they are clean, cleaned out, they look good, their place is ready, they are mentally psyched for the session, they have supplies needed, etc.
---- Did you not pay the service provider the full amount owed to him? Make good on this. Step up to the plate and, at this point, pay not only the full amount, but probably an additional amount to show that you understand that with Escorts and Masseurs, time really is money - and they have spent additional time with you even dealing with these steps.

Use your head for other situations.

This is your chance to rectify the situation, and perhaps even set up another appointment with that hot guy. Money speaks volumes. And, service providers like us tend to be sensitive and compassionate, and as such, are pretty "forgiving" people.

2. Contact Lars (email: larsollson@gmail.com) and explain your situation. This is the obvious option if you don't remember who the service provider is. Lars will send your explanation on to the service provider and have the provider contact you.

IF THE TWO OF YOU CAN MAKE AMENDS: if you two can make amends (again, usually financial amends, dude), your complete phone number and any PERSONAL information posted on the site - including things like your name, email address, and physical address - will then be removed from this page. However, the FIRST DIGIT and LAST FOUR DIGITS of your phone number will remain on the site, along with the notes of what happened with you and the provider, in an effort to warn other service providers that there had been an incident with you in the past.

Just a reminder: BE GENEROUS.
And remember that an apology goes a long way.

Are you having difficulty feeling remorse? Just imagine making a doctor's appointment and not showing up, or blowing off a meeting with your lawyer, or refusing to pay your barber after he cut your hair. The majority of Escorts and Masseurs are professionals. They provide a necessary service to society. They deserve to be treated with the same respect that you would give to people in other professions.

Now let’s say you do these steps, and get your full number removed, but you still want to hire other service providers. And one of those providers sees your last four digits (not your full phone number, but just your FIRST DIGIT and then LAST FOUR DIGITS) on the blacklist site. If the provider asks you about it, you should explain what happened, but also explain that you have made amends. You can even send the provider to this page, to this very sentence:
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SERVICE PROVIDERS: If you see a PARTIAL phone number here (FIRST DIGIT and then LAST FOUR DIGITS ONLY), you may conclude that the person having those digits DID make a mistake, but ultimately resolved it with the provider. BLACKLISTEDNOW believes everyone should be given a second chance, and therefore suggests that you consider giving the owner of the phone number an opportunity for an appointment with you.
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ESCORTS AND MASSEURS: HOW TO USE THIS SITE

2006-04-25T13:35:00.003-04:00

“I was so pissed off ! I didn't know what to do - call the police, or leave - I ended up walking away from this scam...”
- a local service provider

This website is a tool, intended to help you from booking a no-show appointment, dealing with someone who doesn't pay you what you asked, or any other negative experiences that may arise in this discreet, service-based world that we inhabit. My name is Lars. I am an Escort, and the main reason I created this site was to help my fellow men who provide a QUALITY, and NECESSARY service for others.

Why did I start this?
I decided to launch this site when one too many clients blew me off. Like the straw that broke the camel’s back, it was just too much. I was tired of getting negative experiences from sessions that never materialized, when I knew that many people who see me have some of the most incredible times of their lives. Having some friends who are in the industry as well, I knew that I was not alone, yet I also knew that no network existed for people like us. So it was time to take charge, and gain control of situations with those assholes who make it bad for the vast majority of clients who are “up and up.”

So, you are thinking, “How can I maximize this site?”
Use this site when you are booking appointments. It will show phone numbers of people who have been dicks (in the bad way, I mean) to other service providers. As you book an appointment with someone, check to see if their phone number is on the site, by doing a search on the main page (http://blacklistednow.blogspot.com) for their phone number. DON'T go to the top of the page and use the "Search This Blog" feature - it doesn't seem to work. Instead, go to something like your computer's "Edit" drop-down menu, and choose something like "SEARCH" or "FIND" to locate text on the page. It may be easiest to search by the last four numbers of the client's phone, as opposed to the whole number. It will save you time, as well as prevent any oversights with hyphen or space keys.

If nothing comes up, then that person is not showing any history of mishaps on this site. But if they do come up - well, read about their past history, and take it with a grain of salt. This site helps to warn you about them.

If you are talking with the person on the phone, feel free to challenge them on their listed “infraction”. Why not? There are escort and massage sites where WE get rated... let’s take control and minimize the assholes in our lives. Well, er... well, you know what I mean...

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TO ADD SOMEONE TO THIS SITE:
If you have had a negative experience with a client, contact me (email: larsollson@gmail.com) with the following information --
- Client’s name (first and last name, too - if you have it)
- Client’s phone number
- Date of appointment
- A one or two sentence description of what happened. For example, “Client gave fake address”; “Client said he/she didn’t have enough money”; “Client never showed for appointment”.
- Any other information that you might have on the client. This can include an address, work information, if a phone is registered to another person, that person's name, and any other personal details you might have on the blacklisted client. Doing a "Reverse Phone" search is often productive for this sort of information.
- Your working name
- A link to one or more of your online ads

- Your working name and ad information WILL NOT appear on the page. Instead, I will assign a Service Provider Number to you, and that number will show up on the site in lieu of your name. I will keep a confidential list of Service Provider Numbers and email addresses. Then, if a client wants to make amends with you, that number will allow me to contact you through your email address. It IS extra work for me, but I am committed to empowering Escorts and Masseurs in this way.

IMPORTANT: If amends have been made, contact me again and let me know, and I will remove the client's details from the site. Specifically, only the FIRST DIGIT and LAST FOUR DIGITS of their phone number will remain on the blacklist site, along with what happened. The client's name, email address, physical address, physical description, and other identifying details will be removed.

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2006-04-11T20:43:00.001-04:00

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