TREATED WITH RESPECT AND DIGNITY
ESCORTS AND MASSEURS:
Ever been blown off - but not in the good way?
Stiffed, but not in a way that feels nice?
Or shafted up the ass- with a “bum” address?
We, the Escorts and Masseurs of DC, Maryland and Virginia, are taking charge of these negative situations. We are tired of no-show appointments, traveling to doors that don’t open, and not getting paid for the quality work we give.
On this page is a listing of clients who have caused trouble for us.
This page is a reference document so that other Escorts and Masseurs are not burned by the same deadbeat clients.
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IF YOU FIND YOUR PHONE NUMBER LISTED HERE, tough shit. You fucked up.
OK... we are nice guys - with integrity, too! There IS a way to get your number removed from this page. Click on this link: DID AN ESCORT OR MASSEUR TELL YOU TO COME TO THIS SITE? for more information.
When this site started, we had only been listing basic information like a first name, along with a person's phone number. But the Escorts and Masseurs posting here have found that they get a better "response" from blacklisted clients when additional information on them is added, such as the client's last name, family contacts, and/or addresses. You will find on the more recent listings greater details on the blacklisted people who are here.
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ESCORTS AND MASSEURS: This is a tremendous tool for you (maybe even bigger than your own!) Learn about using this site. Click on this link: ESCORTS AND MASSEURS: HOW TO USE THIS SITE for details.
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THE PEOPLE WHO DO THIS SORT OF WORK ARE DECENT PEOPLE, AND DESERVE TO BE TREATED WITH RESPECT AND DIGNITY.
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Michael
207-590-0135
1/30/10
He called me when I was visiting Boston and made plans to come over at 7 PM. He said that we couldn't meet the other time I had been in Boston and so he was looking forward to meeting me. He's into a lot of crazy stuff with dildos, which is not what I enjoy, but I agreed to used butt plugs on him anyway. Then he didn't show up, he didn't call to say he was late, nothing. Another no show, although he sounded so polite on the phone.
Service Provider: 2208
Ilario Regina
203-209-4016
1/28/10
He emailed me about my trip to New Haven, CT and asked me if I bottom. I said yes, I'm totally versatile.... Maybe that wasn't clear to him, because he emailed me again asking me if I bottom. I said yes and sent him a link to my pictures that he didn't see, he totally missed them. When I got to CT he called me and asked me if I bottom (3rd time that he asked me the same question.) I said yes. I had to repeat the name of my hotel 5 times, the address, everything. It was like talking to someone really stupid. In the end, he didn't show up for his appointment at my hotel, nor answer the phone when I called him.
Service Provider: 2208
Tom
508-583-5937
2/4/10
Called saying he was from Boston, coming in to DC. Told me he likes rough play, and is into wrestling. He sounded pretty cool. Told me he would be staying at a Marriott in town. Never showed up for his appointment and never called.
OTHER INFO: He found me on RentMen. His phone is a landline registered to Mary Stevens, 18 Anne Ave, Brockton, MA 02301-2146
Service Provider: 2224
John Scrabblin
540-814-0144
1/25/10
This dude has called me several times and has been very wishy-washy about booking an appointment. In one conversation, he told me that he had never been with men before, but then said he wanted an appointment with two men at once. That should have been a red flag to me. He called me on Jan 25th and wanted an appointment on the same day. I told him I could see him 2.5 hours later, but he asked if I could do it earlier. I said I could do it 2 hours earlier, and then he very sweetly requested that I make it for an hour and a half from then. I agreed - and rushed back to my place to get it - and myself - ready. He said he wanted to bottom and to top, too - so I had some prep work to do. Well, he never showed and never called. I've tried to call him, but can't leave a message because his voicemail box is always full!
OTHER INFO: He is either from Hardy, Burnt Chimney, or Martinsville, Virginia. He works on power lines, so he doesn't work when it rains. He is originally from southern Virginia and has a very strong accent. He likes to say things like "OK, see you soon, wild man."
If I were you I would refuse ANY appointments with this dude - he does not respect our time whatsoever. It is people like him who drain escorts... and then other clients wonder why we are so wary!
Service Provider: 2236
Ed Sandefur
270-860-3185
Date Unknown
Made appt for two hours but did not show. Later he emailed me and said he got called in to work. Asked if I would set another appt for later that day. I did, but he did not show - again.
Service Provider: 2235
Josh
aka David Patton - Jackson MS
aka Charles Patton - Jackson MS
aka Joshua Charles
601-983-0181
patton10@sprint.blackberry.net
1/3/10
this guy is a serious time drain, a braggart, has some extreme fantasies, and disrespects people in our profession. he first contacted me in april of 2009 with an email that included this text:
“How Rough will you get with my cock over a six hour session? We can work on it once a week to start and as we progress we can increase the sessions! I really don't want any permanent damage but with a lot of sessions it will turn darker like David Beckham. In flogging and using a whip and your hands and fists you will tear the foreskin some, Scars like that are ok! Even at times you can use your teeth on me!”
he didn’t set up a session at that time, but emailed me 10 more times over the next few weeks. and this year - january 1 to be exact - he contacted me again. in this new decade he has asked for me to compile a group of men - 3 or 4 or 5 of us - to work on him with cbt (even though he says he has never done it before.) he has told me how he will hire me once a week (or, at a different point, he said “every night this week”) to stomp on his dick. he has told me in various emails that he is very rich, he drives a jaguar, he works for bank of america, he wants to take me on trips abroad, he has his masters in banking and finance, he has a big long uncut cock, and he is SO good looking that even married men hit on him - with their wives around! ugh, exhausting. oh yeah, he also told me he is 60 years old...
here are some other nuggets from this man:
“Dude I am riding around DC near DuPont Circle In my 2010 BMW 750 i’m Buck Naked!”
“Your time is running out for you to Answer? I'll be a regular at $3300 a week!”
“If you cut my cock with a flogger we will stop till the bleeding stops or continue! I want to see what your thought this will heighten my desire to do this!”
“Are you going to Box my Cock an Balls? How intense you going to get? Are you going to flag me from the navel Down? How intense? Just call Me.”
“You have 30 minutes before I dress and go to my Office at Bank of America! No play because I will be Working! Your missing out on a Golden opportunity! I have checked you out! Answer Me! J”
obviously, he is a big fan of the exclamation point as well.
why would i put up with all these emails so far? well, i can entertain a lot of kinks and fetishes, and i am willing to work with people who are on erotic journeys - so i tried to help him make his fantasy a reality. eventually he set up an appointment with me on january 3, but didnt show up. he contacted me the next day, saying he got tied up, and telling me that he wants to pay for his missed appointment as well as another one for the upcoming night. i told him how to make payment, and he said he would but after giving him two deadlines and with him still wanting me to discuss what i will do with him, i felt i had no choice but to add him to this blacklist. by the way, you are doing a terrific job of this, Lars - thank you very much. it is a real service to guys like us, who deal with the 99% great clients and the 1% pitiful people who end up on this site. sorry this is so long but this guy is really someone to watch out for - i strongly suggest you guys refuse any communication from him from the start.
Service Provider: 2233
Patrick
206-854-7245
12/8/09
I exchanged emails with this guy, who wanted an appointment during my trip in Seattle. He kept writing openly sexual things, asking me to rim him, and telling me that he "likes to get his pussy eaten." Other times he referred to his ass as his "man cunt." He finally called me and made plans for a 1 PM appointment, but before hanging up the phone he suddenly requested we get together at 8 AM. That should have been a sign of the problems to come with him. In the end, he agreed to come over at 1 PM - but he never showed up.
Service Provider: 2208
Steven
310-316-3769
12/5/09
I was invited to spend time with him in LA (Redondo Beach, CA) and all was going well until he literally snapped. He ended up throwing my laptop on the ground, verbally abusing me and I eventually knew I had to get out. I asked for my overnight rate and he stiffed me $400 on it. I then had to find a motel by the airport (costing another $200) and found the next day at LAX that he cancelled my flight back home. I had to repurchase a ticket at full-fare. This guy is a scammer, a thief and the only bad experience I've ever had. BEWARE.
Service Provider: 2234
Ken
310-616-6400
11/15/09
He called me at 3AM for a 2 hour session. Described himself as a "bisexual masculine vers athletic bottom from Woodbridge." Never showed, never returned my calls. I stayed up late waiting for him.
Service Provider: 2219
Tim
703-216-1637
11/14/09
Called at 1AM, wanted an appointment in next 45 minutes. Didn't show. Called him to see if he was lost, but he hung up right after answering. On third attempt, I left message for him to call me but he didn't.
Service Provider: 2203
John
214-499-6767, 214-871-1000
11/9/09
I'm based in DC but travel to various places for client appointments. He called me the day before I arrived in Dallas, to make plans for the first day of my visit there. When I got to my hotel, I called him and there was no answer from him. 2 days later he called me and told me that he missed my phone calls and he had no memory of our previous appointment. We made plans for Tuesday at 6 PM to have fun and dinner after.
He called me on Tuesday at 12:30 and asked me to get together at 1 PM that day instead of 6. I said yes to his new schedule. When I was getting ready he called me and asked me if it was OK for him to take pictures of me naked. I said no to him for obvious reasons, he said he would pick me up at 1 as we spoke previously but first he had to pay some workers in his property and he might be a few minutes late.
I waited for him til 1:40, I called him to his house and cellphone and there was no answers. I finally called to tell him that I had other guys to see that day and I couldn't wait for him anymore.
He called me at 2 and 3 PM to ask me to take a cab to his place and get some pictures taken by him... I already had told him that I wasn't going to allow that to happen and that I wasn't available at all... He also forgot the first date we had scheduled, the one at 6 PM on Tuesday, etc.
Service Provider: 2208
Sean
410-487-5873
Date unknown
I did an outcall to his house in Baltimore (I was coming from DC.) At the end of the massage, he told me he could not find his wallet. He asked me to wait at my car while he went to his car to get money. I never saw him again. I reported the incident to the police, but unfortunately I never got paid.
Service Provider: 2232
Tom
240-349-2287
9/22/2009
No show. Started out telling me how he thinks he is bi-curious, and how he wanted a session with me and a female friend. Described himself as having a good build and a shaved head, and told me he's turned away "dozens" of women(!) I set up an appointment for him with myself and a girl I work with, based on the dates he gave me. When I confirmed it with her, and then got back to him, the date was no longer good for him. So we set up a different date to meet. She arrived, we waited for him - but he neither called, nor came! This was rude - not only to me, but to her. I will not book anything with him without getting some payment for this. And future appointments? I would suggest you get pre-payment from him first.
Service Provider: 2233
Allen
240-350-6965
9/08/2009
No show. When he didn't arrive, I called him... he actually MUTED the call when he answered. I asked him to call back, but of course he didn't. I will not be seeing this guy again unless he covers me for the last session. I suggest if you agree to see him, you get pre-payment first. He told me he is originally from El Salvador.
Service Provider: 2233
Luis
301-273-8239
8/01/2009
No show. Odd, because of two things: 1. He called and booked the appointment for an hour after we talked (not like it was two weeks out and he forgot.) 2. I had seen him once before, and we definitely had a good time. He never called me afterwards although I left a couple of messages.
Service Provider: 2207
name unknown
678-768-0306
7/10/2009
He never arrived and never called to cancel. He also never picked up the phone when I called to see if he was lost. On the phone, he said he wanted to come with a bag full of dildos for his ass. I guess he wants only to talk on the phone? He may not be serious about booking.
Service Provider: 2208
Michael
434-760-1375
7/07/2009
He called me and said he wanted to do some light bondage - he wanted me to use a rope on him. I gave him my address but he never showed up. When I called him to find out if he was lost, he never answered the call.
Service Provider: 2208
David
703-915-8673, also 703-998-5531
6/20/2009
He wanted an appointment, but never showed and never called. Beforehand, on the phone, he told me that he found it hard to connect with other people in DC - how ironic...
Service Provider: 2229
Eric
202-422-2105
Date not specified
This guy called me and he said that we saw before. We made plans to get together again, but he never showed, never called.
Service Provider: 2208
Name Unknown
901-494-9215
Date not specified
He made plans to get together with me in Memphis but didn't show up for the appointment at my hotel.
Service Provider: 2208
Name Unknown
301-915-7156
Date not specified
He never showed up, never called to cancel.
Service Provider: 2208
Name Unknown
404-816-8201
Date not specified
This guy called me at least 5 times offering to fly me to Atlanta "today" or tomorrow. When I said yes, he asked me to do it bareback with him. I told him I don't do it bareback, in Europe guys play safe all the time and there's no BB fever as it is in this side of the Atlantic. He seems to like to say that he has money to fly someone the same day to Atlanta, or maybe he gets off having a phone conversation about BB sex.
Service Provider: 2208
MORE ON HIM:
2/19/2008
Want you to know about a guy who called me to set up an appointment. He only wanted it if I would bareback him. Lars, I don’t know if he deserves to be blacklisted - but I thought other escorts should know about this.
Service Provider: 2229
Name Unknown
202-550-7183
Date not specified
He called me to go to his place in Adams Morgan. We had fun together. He seemed to be a nice guy, who happens to take a lot of antidepressants and has a crush on one of his students. He paid me and I left. Then, a week later I got a text from him. We made plans again, but this time when I arrived he didn't answer the phone and I couldn’t get inside his apartment building. He called me a couple of times later, but when I reminded him of his previous behavior, he hung up on me.
Service Provider: 2208
Jim
781-517-3186 and 781-620-0071
Approximately 4/09
He called me when I was in Boston. He asked for a discount price. Later he called to confirm but he never showed up for the appointment. When I called him he had his cell and home phone turned off.
Service Provider: 2208
Jason
703-505-6886
4/15/09
He called me and told me he wanted an immediate appointment. I rearranged my plans to see him two hours from then. After two phone calls with him setting this up, he then called back ten minutes later, telling me, “I got someone coming now... I'm gonna pass...” and hung up on me! I called him back, after several attempts I finally got him and told him he had done something similar to me about a year ago:
In March 2008, he told me he wanted to party with me and see how that went before taking me on an international trip to London. He told me he would want me to wear a tux for his corporate function there, said he was in good shape, told me he can be aggressive, be a “coach” daddy, and that he likes to have guys to pose for him. Then at the end of the conversation, he told me he would reimburse me when I brought the party favors to his place. I said, "Sorry, man, I don't have any connections." And he said, "Well, thanks but I'm gonna take a rain check" - and immediately hung up.
I reminded him of this similar call a year ago, and told him that he struck me as erratic, extreme and abrupt. I went on to say that I had to blacklist him on Lars' website. He went from being apologetic to calling me a Nazi, to cursing me out, and finally threatening to call the police on me (For what charges, I wonder?) Be careful though - this guy sounds a bit unbalanced.
Service Provider: 2222
Albert
203-859-2756
Approximately 4/09
He emailed me several times about a trip I was taking to New Haven. I called him when I got to New Haven, we made plans to get together at 9 PM, but then he didn't show up. And then, he wouldn't answer the phone when I called him.
Service Provider: 2208
mike
301-300-9637
12/19/2008
after telling me how good looking he is, and how he rarely does this, and how he can't believe he is hiring a man to be with him, he scheduled an appointment with me for later the same afternoon. 30 mins before he was to arrive, he called to say he had booked a session with another guy - someone from frederick... so he wont be coming to me. and then started to promise me that he would call over the weekend! i told him, "no, don't - this isn't working out. please don't call me again." he stressed that he called to cancel, as if that showed that he was being decent. i tried to explain to him that he shouldn't have booked with me in the first place unless he was serious - this is as much about my time as it is his.
Service Provider: 2203
Kirk
571-315-9520
8/15/08
This guy is to be handled carefully. He called me for a same day appointment. I went to his house, in Herndon, VA area, in the 13000 address range on Feldman Place. There was no answer at the door, but 30 feet away (just one townhouse down), there was a guy sitting outside, watching me as I approached the door. There was no answer at the phone number above. The guy watching me said he didn't know anyone around there named Kirk... he was pretty suspect - his voice sounded similar to the guy I spoke with on the phone. I would suggest you beware of anyone booking an appointment on Feldman Place.
Service Provider: 2212
chris b
540-550-7857, 540-439-6565
10/17/2008
booked a session with me at the marriott courtyard in tysons corner, three weeks out. he had to check in to the hotel the day of the appointment, and i had him on my calendar for all those weeks before it. but that day, he never called me with a room number, nor to confirm our session. i left several messages for him, but never heard back.
Service Provider: 2229
Scott M
804-399-7171
Date not specified
This guy calls me with an attitude, but I, being a nice guy, ignore it. He then shows up in the parking lot where we are to meet, says, "you are too old," and walks away from me. He knew my age beforehand, and if he had questions he should have asked beforehand. All this without even an apology for wasting my time!
Service Provider: 2218
Matt W
503-816-9432
8/14/08
He booked an appointment with me in his hotel room for the next day. I got there, knocked on his room door, but there was no answer. Called him a couple of times to his cell, and also no answer. This guy never called me back, even though I left two separate messages. Four days later I called him to tell him about this blacklist site, and he quickly said, "You've got the wrong number," and hung up on me while I was still speaking. No respect to me or my time...
Service Provider: 2203
Ed
240-328-3504
7/24/08
He set up an appointment for the same day he called. Then he called 1/2 hour before he was to arrive, left a message: "The taxi isn't here, I don't know if I can make it in time, please call." This was odd because he told me he was going to take metro... I called him, left a message for him to call me back - but he didn't. I called him again later, and he said he would call to set up another appointment next week. I told him first he would have to pay me for this one, and I would hold the money for a full month for him to redeem, or else I would have to blacklist him on this site. He insisted he would call me next week to set something up. I said said, "Sorry, I'm going to have to blacklist you." (I have heard that line - "I'll call you again to set something up" - way too many times before, with no phone call later)
Service Provider: 2222
Alex, aka Darin D.
540-325-8801
6/25/08
Had booked a 90 minute appointment with me, but did not show, did not call.
Service Provider: 2212
Brian, aka Bill
540-729-3837
6/26/08
Called me several times over the last few months, telling me various things: he never has done this before, he has a fantasy of two guys working out, naked, on workout equipment - etc. Booked an appointment with me and never showed, never called.
Service Provider: 2202
Greg
202-375-4753
5/24/08
Called and booked an appointment for the same evening. I was driving back from Rehoboth and told him I thought I would be in my apartment in DC, for an 11:30PM starting time. We agreed that if I were running late from traffic, I would call him. In fact I was ready to go at 11:30. He never showed up and never called. Thinking that he might have fallen asleep, I called him a couple other times over the next two days, but didn't hear from him again.
Service Provider: 2207
Mirko
703-786-9406
Approximately 5/08
At the appointment, he said he had no cash. We went to a cash machine which said his card was not valid. He said of course he would pay, but did not.
Service Provider: 2201
Andy
202-297-0037
4/7/08
I gave him one massage in fall of '07. Nice guy, no problems. Then he called on March 10 telling me he had been to me before, and how good I was - and that he needed to come see me right away. He said he would be at my place in 30 minutes. He never showed, and never answered the phone.
He called again on April 7 but I was booked. Again, he said he had been to me before. He made an appointment for 1pm the following afternoon. I felt he would not show, so I called him at 11:00am and there was no answer. I left a message for him to call me back and let me know if he was coming - but never got a return call.
Service Provider: 2201
Name Unknown
443-465-9330
2/24/08
He called for an appointment within the hour. Never arrived.
Service Provider: 2231
Bram
540-222-2365
his email: puggles127@yahoo.com
2/21/08
He called me setting up an appointment for night time, making me even cancel other things I had as priority just to make sure I could ensure him the greatest and most enjoyable time. Then a 2nd phone call from him asking if it was ok if he arrived kind of late. I said it would be fine since he was at least keeping me posted.
The 3rd phone call came 2 hours after the 1st call. He said he heard about a big storm on the news and he was concerned about driving to DC. I noticed that at that time he was still at home - and not on the road almost arriving at my Hotel. I just had strength to hang up on him - I could not even stand his voice at that moment.
This guy e-mails me two days later: “Sorry about the other night. The weather got bad and I truly apologize. I'm free this evening and can come over if you still want me to, please email me. I like it mild to wild and can come again. I'm sorry. Thanks.”
Before I could respond, he found one of my screen names on GAY.COM and started chatting with me, starting apologizing for the inconvenient hard time he made me go through, and asking me to please give him another chance to come to see me. He said that he was going to make it up to me.
I ended up making the big mistake of saying yes, come over.
He set the appointment for 8PM but I asked him to call me when he was on his way. That way I could see if he was for real or not.
I never heard from him, and now it is midnight, which is why I am blacklisting him. Well,well,well !!! Should I say anything else?? ...DON'T FUCK WITH US
Service Provider: 2231
Jerry
703-963-0448
2/11/08
He booked an appointment with me in March of 2006. Didn't ever show up, and never called afterwards, even though I had left messages for him. I never reported him to the site because I didn't know about BlacklistedNow back then. But I do keep good records on these guys who don't show. He called me again today, and wanted an appointment. I told him, I won't see you because you blew me off for an appointment about two years ago." He said he knew about that. I said, "You can either pay me for a portion of my fee, or I will blacklist you on a website for this, for other guys to know so they can be made aware." He said, "OK, well then, I'll just pass on making an appointment..."
So, guys, here is his information!
Service Provider: 2202
Tim
301-373-3854
1/20/08
He e-mailed me in early November about setting up an overnight visit at his place in Hollywood, Maryland. He was going to pick me up at the closest metro station and we would drive to his place. He contacted me a few days before, and called again later in the week to confirm. But then he called last minute and said he had a cold and couldn't meet. I said that was fine, but I didn't tell him I had declined another offer for a meeting since I thought I was going to meet him. Oh well, that's the business sometimes.
He contacted me two weeks later, and the same thing happened! This time, he said he had to go out of town for an emergency. I was a little annoyed then.
He tried a third time and cancelled again!
I blocked his e-mail address and figured he would get the hint to not contact me anymore.
He just called me a few minutes ago and said he wanted to meet. I told him I had no interest in seeing him because I knew we would never meet...it would just be another cancellation. He got upset with me and I told him that was the reason I had blocked his e-mail address.
This man needs a hobby besides jerking around guys that are trying to be honest when it comes to this line of work.
Service Provider: 2230
Chad
781-361-2335
1/19/08
Called me at 7:30am, for an outcall appointment at 11am. Asked that I give him a call shortly before arriving. I called him half an hour before, he answered and said, "Can I call you back in a minute?" but never did. I tried him ten minutes later, it went to voicemail, I left a message for him to call back. I tried him again at 11am, no answer. I didn't go to his place, but it was frustrating, because I had another call from a client later in the morning who wanted me at that time, and I told him I was already booked. When I called the other client back, he had made other plans.
For what it's worth, this guy Chad sounded a little out-of-it on the phone when we spoke. Otherwise, he might be a nice guy - but too unreliable for me to book with him again.
Service Provider: 2212
Steve
517-487-5669
1/4/08
Contacted me a month before his appointment, telling me he's into all sorts of kink and said he could be wearing a buttplug or CB harness at our appointment, if I wanted him to. Sent me an email with a detailed description of what he likes - from "attitude" and "limitations" to sensory deprivation, ass play, and toys. Text from this email included "Whole body: mummification, hot wax, clothespins (Someday I'd love to try for 1000, but it would take 7 people- 1 each on left head and arm; right head and arm; left torso; right torso; left leg and hip; right leg and hip; and cock and balls). I've been shaved head to toe, pissed on and buried up to my neck at a beach and face-fucked." Booked a 3 hour appointment with me - he was coming in from Michigan - but never showed up for it, and never called me back.
Service Provider: 2229
Michael
301-951-7517
10/12/07
Michael called me wanting an outcall to Chevy Chase right away, and I went. We agreed on the price, and when I arrived he was polite but seemed like he was on medication that perhaps was prescribed. He acted a bit drunk, but did not smell of alcohol. He is very hard of hearing and I had to say things over and over. At the end of the session he went into the bathroom for a long time. I told him I needed to leave, and he asked me how much the fee was. I told him and he handed me 3/4ths of the money, telling me he had no more. I told him he could write me a check. Then he tried to take the money back, but I clutched it and told him to write me a check for the rest of amount. He then asked me if I had change for a $100 bill, and I did, and he paid me.
Service Provider: 2201
Teddy
202-368-0539
7/23/07
He contacted me on 1/4/07, said wanted an appointment at 2:30 in the morning for that nite. I was willing to do that, and he was going to call back to confirm at 2am - but he never did. This was not enough to blacklist him, but he did seem flaky after that. Months later in July, he booked an appointment with me, but never showed up, and never called.
Service Provider: 2207
Keith
703-536-2546
4/10/07
Aside from the fact that he told me he might like me to fuck his wife in the future, he never showed up for his appointment, and never called.
Service Provider: 2207
Name Unknown
240-285-8477
Approximately 3/07
He called me at 7:10 and made plans to be in my place as soon as possible. Because of his cellphone, I knew that he was from Maryland. Knowing how "difficult it is to drive in DC" for these guys from Maryland, I asked him where he was. He said he was driving on Connecticut Ave toward the White House. I gave him my address (16th and U) and told him to get off Connecticut toward the left and look for the street numbers 18th, 17th and then Bingo: 16th.
I called him again at 8pm. He told me that he was at 14th and S and didn't know how to get to my place. I explained to him one more time to look for 16th St, and I told him the street number of my building. At 8:35 I just gave up on him.
What the f... is it with guys from MD - why is it so difficult to just follow the street numbers in DC? Every time I see a 301, 410, or 240, I think: “He might arrive late.”
Service Provider: 2208
Name Unknown
312-636-6989
Approximately 6/07
He didn’t show, and didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2209
Name Unknown
214-636-1699
Approximately 6/07
He didn’t show, and didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2209
Name Unknown
240-285-8477
Approximately 6/07
He didn’t show, and didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2209
Name Unknown
410-370-0640
Approximately 6/07
He didn’t show, and didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2209
Paul
703-431-1203
2/19/07
Never showed up, never called.
Service Provider: 2206
Tom
727-271-1667
2/19/07
Before the appointment, he called to say he was driving in from Alexandria. 40 mins later, I called him, and he said he was lost, and that he just ran into his boss (!!??!!), and he needed to call me back. 20 mins later, I called again, got his voicemail, and left a message. Later, when I finally spoke with him, I told him - “I don’t want to have to blacklist you.” He asked if he could rebook and have his female friend come to accompany. We also talked the next day but he never did call back to finalize an appointment.
Service Provider: 2206
Michael
937-271-5463
4/30/07
He didn’t show, and didn’t call. I called him later but his phone would not answer.
Service Provider: 2206
Dennis Roy
202-374-4393
Date not specified
Also known as Andy. Set up and confirmed a meeting with two of our escorts at the in-call location. Called to confirm, and then was a no-show. Kept everyone waiting after they traveled some distance to meet. When we were finally able to reach him, hours after the appointment, he became upset and gave some excuse about misplacing his wallet, but did not call to cancel.
Service Provider: A local escort agency
Name Unknown
202-588-9249
Date not specified
He set up an appointment for an incall, and called 30 minutes before to confirm. Then, he never showed up.
Service Provider: 2210
Name Unknown
202-256-5160
Date not specified
He gave a Georgetown address. I showed up, but the address did not exist and he did not answer his phone.
Service Provider: 2210
John
703-622-3265
Date not specified
This guy is my running joke. He has made seven appointments and canceled every one.
Service Provider: 2210
Paul
703-431-1203
2/19/07
Never showed up, never called.
Service Provider: 2211
Tom
727-271-1667
2/19/07
He booked a spontaneous appointment, telling me that he was driving in to DC from Alexandria. 40 minutes later, I called, he said he was lost, and that he just ran into his boss so he needed to call me back. 20 minutes later, I called him again, but the phone went to voicemail. He called me two days afterwards, to say he wanted to book an appointment for three days later, and asked if his female friend could be there, just to watch. I told him that was ok - and he was to call me back with a time that was good for both of them. I left follow up messages afterwards, but he never called.
Service Provider: 2211
Amy
571-261-1059
2/08/07
Never showed, never called.
Service Provider: 2212
John
410-952-4076
1/23/07
i live in dc, and a guy from baltimore called me to come over for a 3 hour meeting. we had agreed on a 9:30 p.m. meeting, and i had explained to him that i was taking the train over since i don't have a car. i rode the train for an hour there and called him because he was supposed to be waiting at the station for me. he pretended like he was sleepy and said that it was supposed to be at 9:30 a.m., not p.m. this is a total lie. i specifically asked on the phone if the meeting was for that night, and he said yes.
i had to wait for the next train, and ride an hour back. three hours total i wasted and i missed a potential client during my ordeal.
Service Provider: 2213
Tim
303-808-2939
Date not specified
I went on a call to this guy. Everything was going well until he asked me to finger him and I found he was not clean. I told him I would not do it anymore unless he took care of the problem. He then got mad, told me to get out, threw the money at me, and said I was the worst escort he ever called!
Service Provider: 2214
name unknown
202-745-9573
Date not specified
Never showed, never called.
Service Provider: 2215
name unknown
703-348-7523
Date not specified
Never showed, never called.
Service Provider: 2215
Scott
760-235-9177
Date not specified
Never showed, never called.
Service Provider: 2215
Alex
202-492-8316
1/11/07
Never showed up, never called.
Service Provider: 2216
Bobby
301-987-2451
1/17/07
Never showed up, never called.
Service Provider: 2216
Sean
301-449-4475
1/16/07
He set an appointment with me to meet at his place. It was far away from me. I met him at his place. At the end of the one hour session, he said he had no money to pay me, that he lost his checkbook, and he was going to mail it to me. He never did.
Service Provider: 2217
Jeff
757-343-3580
12/27/06
He called me just before the appointment, parked at the wrong property, and came to see me over the neighbor's fence. I asked him to park next to my car... then he went over and started driving away. When I called him back he didnt answer his phone. A rude, time-waster...
Service Provider: 2218
Alex
703-589-4261
Date not specified
Asked to see one of our transsexual companions, but when the person drove 45 minutes to Alexandria, failed to answer the phone and had neglected to say it was an apartment building. Finally gave the apartment number after we called from a different number - but no one ever answered that unit.
Service Provider: A local escort agency
Roger
540-408-3156
Date not specified
Set up appointment with one of our escorts at one of our in-call locations. Client had escort travel across town to meet him and then never showed up, never called, and did not answer phone.
Service Provider: A local escort agency
Victor
909-241-1470
12/19/06
Never showed up, never called!
Service Provider: 2219
Gary
302-690-2608
7/05
He set up an appointment at his friend's place in Prospect House in Arlingon. When I was at the L'Enfant Plaza Metro station he called me to confirm that I was coming. I told him I was on my way as promised. The comunication was bad and I couldn't understand what he said. I asked him to repeat himself and then he told me with a very angry voice: "I don't like your attitude, we'd better cancel this now." I called him back when I got off the metro, but I kept getting his voice mail.
The next day a friend of mine had the same problem with him, again he cancelled at the last moment! It seems that Gary enjoys turning down a guy - maybe it's a "Freudian" thing?
He called me once again at a later point for a session - he doesn't even keep the names or phone numbers of the guys he has bothered before. I politely suggested that he go to a mental hospital.
Service Provider: 2208
Larry
540-829-9531
Date not specified
He called several times offering me US$25,000 to appear in a movie about a guy who is a fitness model during the day and an escort at night. He kept talking about meeting first just to talk about it, but not for "fun”. I told him many times that I wasn't interested in his proposal. Then, one day a guy called me from a nearby pay phone and showed up in my place. He was dressed like a homeless person, and he was very sweaty. I asked him politely to take a shower to feel more confortable. At that moment he introduced himself as the guy who called me for the movie. He told me again the same story about the movie and how perfect I was for the main character. Once more time I told him that I wasn't interested. He never called me again.
Service Provider: 2208
Phil
804-387-6935
Date not specified
He called me to come to his hotel room at the Mayflower Hotel. When I got to his room, he wouldn’t answer the door. I called him on his cell and got his voicemail. I left a message, and waited in the hotel lobby for 15 minutes for him to call back - but he never did.
Service Provider: 2208
Names as yet unrecorded
917-673-4038, 301-221-7590, 917-991-8125, 301-717-7883, 240-744-6750, 301-674-9477, 724-272-7418, 214-636-1699, 301-643-5757, 804-356-7037, 571-643-2706, 240-672-2264, 703-569-8515, 301-654-7535, 202-486-8919, 202-271-8600, 202-441-3859, 202-398-1764
Multiple dates
All of the above numbers are from guys who didn’t show up for their appointments in my apartment. Up till now, I did not keep the names of them; I’ve only kept their phone numbers as “no shows.”
Service Provider: 2208
Name unknown
240-601-8924
Date not specified
He didn’t show up for his appointment in my apartment.
Service Provider: 2208
MORE ON HIM:
I saw him once. He told me his name was Soni. I arrived twenty minutes later than I intended, as his place was very hard to find. When I got there, his roommate was there, and he said he wanted to cancel the 90 minute appointment. I insisted he pay me half of my fee, which he begrudgingly did.
Service Provider: 2202
Paul
703-283-6316
12/9/06
He told me he likes to be paddled. He gave me directions to his place, and I was to call him when I got off the Van Dorn exit in Virginia. But when I called him, he had turned off his phone. A waste of gas and my time.
Service Provider: 2220
Jason
917-657-8495 and 724-272-7418
12/3/06
He didn’t show up for his appointment. Then he called me an hour and a half later, and asked me to travel to his place in Alexandria. I went there and we started our session. All was good, until he suddenly became worried his roommate was going to come home. He asked if we could go back to my place. I told him by the time we got there an hour would already be up, and asked him if he wanted an additional hour or more. He said he did, and followed me in his car to my place. When I arrived but he didn't, I called - he told me he realized he had left his wallet back home. He never did come back to my place. Afterwards, he would hang up the phone when I called him, and of course never did pay for the session. A complete waste of my time.
Service Provider: 2204
Stan, aka “stangon”
773-203-5343
12/1/06
He didn’t show up for his appointment, and he didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2221
Ray
310-751-7751
11/18/06
He didn’t show up for his appointment, and he didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2205
Chris
703-774-6938
11/18/06
He didn’t show up for his appointment, and he didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2205
Mike
703-801-1898
11/18/06
He didn’t show up for his appointment, and he didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2205
robert
301-793-7092
11/15/06
he didn’t show up for his appointment, and he didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2222
miles
240-305-4031
11/2/06
he didn’t show up for his appointment, and he didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2222
kevin
202-423-3422
10/28/06
he didnt show for his session, and didnt call. when i called, he said he fell asleep watching TV! said he totally understands what its like to miss an appointment, as his work involves appointments too (he cuts hair), and he felt so bad that he wanted to reschedule, and pay for half of the missed appointment as well. i rescheduled him for 11/01/06, and AGAIN, he didnt show. when i called, he said he totally forgot about that appointment, and because of that he wanted to just come by and pay for the two missed sessions. i confirmed arrangement of payment (i once again clarified, only by cash) and the time for him to come by, which was to be the next day at 5pm. he didnt come by. when i called, he said he totally forgot, but promised that he would be over in 1.5 hours. he never came. when i called again, he apologized and asked if i could come to him, as he had taken some sleeping pills and really couldnt go out (he was 4 blocks away). at that point i told him he was going to be blacklisted, so he said he would come by to pay, but it would have to be by check. there were just too many changes, too much bullshit, and too much spaciness from him. i told him i cant take a check, and reminded him that he knew that previously. beware- this guy is VERY FLAKY. DO NOT SEE.
Service Provider: 2222
Bob
480-247-6242
11/6/06
He leads you to a fake address over 50 miles away.
Service Provider: 2223
ricardo
202-561-0156
11/28/06
When I arrived at his place, he didn’t answer the door for a couple minutes. He had hired me for a massage, but was very nervous. I gave him a massage, but after a few minutes he said he wanted to turn over. Then he said he wanted to fuck me. I got a condom, and he began, thrusting too hard and fast (not a very good fuck, didn’t know what he was doing, to start out that way). He quickly pulled out, and freaked out- I think he couldn’t handle the fact that he was having sex with a guy. He canceled the rest of the session. I told him he could call me if he needed to talk about any of this in the future. Then he told me he wouldn’t be paying me, since he was so wigged out. He said we didn’t even go for the full session length! I offered to continue to give him a massage, but he said no. DO NOT SEE THIS MAN - he is a mess, and cannot take any responsibility for his own actions.
Service Provider: 2200
tim
313-610-1203
10/03/06
he had no respect for me; he just wanted his rocks off, and me out. afterwards, he didnt even want me to shower - - once he came, he was ready for me to get the fuck out. moreover, he was way too nervous. during our session, he freaked out after he came, and shouted "don't come on me!" however, not only was i NOT near coming, i wasn't even TOUCHING my dick! ultimately, he seemed very uptight about his sexuality. i won't see him again; as for you- well, just be prepared for a very nervous, very uptight guy to deal with.
Service Provider: 2203
John
540-481-0942
10/6/06
No show for appointment that was reconfirmed the day before with this number. I called him when he was late and he does not even have a voice mail set up for this number.
Service Provider: 2201
Peter
703-243-9493
10/6/06
No show. He called from a pay phone to make appointment. When I told him I needed a reconfirming number, he gave me his home number which was the same voice and name. Then I gave him my address and he did not show. He called an hour later from a hotel to tell me he was tired and not going to make it and "maybe this weekend". I told him I would not do business with him as he was rude and he hung up on me. Avoid him.
Service Provider: 2201
Jeff
202-364-9028
9/21/06
He didn’t show up for his appointment, and he didn’t call. Moreover, his number is not in service for incoming calls.
Service Provider: 2224
Nick
202-489-7326
9/13/06
Called me one minute before the appointment, and canceled, saying "something came up" - and this was at 11PM!!! I pointed out that he was canceling ONE MINUTE before the appointment, and I could have taken another appointment for that time, and I requested that he not call me again. He said I was not being very professional. I pointed out that HE was not being respectful of people’s schedules and appointments, and he hung up while I was talking to him.
Service Provider: 2224
Glen
443-404-6148
10/01/06
Never showed up, never called.
Service Provider: 2202
John
aka Casey
301-580-2306
9/08/06
Never showed up, never called!
Service Provider: 2219
Doug
754-264-1581
7/27/06
Never showed up, never called! Finally got him on the phone, he said he got confused, and thought I had two ads (!) Said he called ANOTHER guy named David to cancel. I told him that I lost the time. He said he would pay me almost half of my fee- I thought that was fair. He was to send it to me via post. It's six weeks later, though, and guess what - nothing from Doug.
Service Provider: 2219
Peter
203-554-6024
7/10/06
Contacted me by email, we had decent exchanges and he gave me his phone number. But when I tried to call him, he answered the phone but wouldnt speak - I had only said "Hi, Peter, this is Dave- can you talk right now?" and he hung up on me. I should've taken that as a sign of what was to come! But later he called me back, and he set up an appointment for 4 days from then, asking me to email my address/directions to him. The night before the appointment I called him to confirm that he got the address. The next day I hadn't heard from him, so I called him (twice). He never returned my calls, but at the scheduled time there I was, ready and waiting for him. He didn't show up and didn't return my calls.
Service Provider: 2216
brandon
aka david
202-271-2757
7/07/06
scheduled with me twice in september 2005, and then this july, 2006. first appointment, he called the day before, said he needed to reschedule for the next week. i called him the day of the appointment, he told me he was “just going to call”, he needed to reschedule again. for this july appointment, he didn't show up, and didn't return my calls.
Service Provider: 2222
Joe
aka Don
301-305-2450
6/26/06
He did not show for his appointment. He called me 1.5 hours before the appointment, and asked if he could push it up an hour. I told him I could not do it an hour later with my current schedule, but I could push him up for 45 minutes later. He was to call me back in 30 minutes, but he never did. Then, he never showed up at my place.
Service Provider: 2216
Scott
540-219-5559
5/25/06
He did not show for his appointment. I talked with him several times over the last 3 months and when he booked the appointment I asked for a reconfirming phone number. He was to begin the drive to DC at 6am in the morning and said he might arrive early. I called him at 10:30am, no answer. I paged him at 11:00am, no answer. Finally I left a message and told him I was posting his number on this website and he told me he was "in a meeting". He is a time waster and asks the same questions over and over again.
Service Provider 2201
MORE ON HIM:
he also goes by the names dean, larry, wesley, wes, chad. he has called me five separate times over the last year. he wanted me to meet him at an intersection near route 29, between vint hill and new baltimore, in virginia, and said he was going to be in a red toyota truck. this is not something i do normally, but since he had called previously, i thought he was serious. after i had started driving out to him, he called me, and said he couldnt do this - it was to be in his friend’s house, but now his friend’s wife was coming home! it was all very messy. i suggested we could use a hotel near warrenton, he hesitated; i said i could get the room, he hesitated. he wanted to call me in 5 minutes if he could get his own house, and then i said call me either way, or just be straight with me if this is not gonna work. he said ok, he would call in the future! i said no, forget it, you dont seem serious, i’m 15 mins away from you and we can use a hotel or your house, but its obvious youre not serious. i told him not to call me again.
Service Provider: 2222
Brian
703-861-2042
4/27/06
He did not show for his appointment. I called and only then did he say he was not coming.
Service Provider: 2201
Chris
410-979-6064
various dates
A time waster who calls once a month and asks the same questions. Has never had bodywork from a man before. The last time he called, I asked him if he had called before, and he said no. I told him that I have caller ID and not to waste my time.
Service Provider: 2201
Rick
240-793-7802
2/12/06
Never showed for his appointment, nor did he call. He is a very arrogant and controlling man. Avoid him!
Service Provider: 2201
nicholas
240-678-2650
week of 05/20/06
he gave me a fake address in rockville, i tried calling back later and i didn't get any answer.
Service Provider: 2225
kevin
202-841-1833
various dates.
he always books appointments very early in the morning, and always cancels at the last moment, with a variety of bogus reasons.
Service Provider: 2225
lee
540-351-0154 note: he says this is his office phone, but answered it at 11pm one nite; he also gave me a cell number that is bogus - it rings to a girl named brittany, who doesnt know lee at all.
05/22/06
he never showed for appointment, and never called back. because he lives an hour away from me, i had called him the night before to confirm our next day appointment. at that time, he told me that he would definitely be coming.
Service Provider: 2222
anthony
973-722-7456
11/18/05
he never showed up for appointment, and never returned my calls afterwards. he then called me on 060523, when i told him he blew me off in november he didnt seem to care at all.
Service Provider: 2222
Robert
301-682-4078
Multiple times called
Asks lots of questions, but never books; he is a time drain. I think he may be jerking off while calling.
Service Provider: 2226
MORE ON HIM:
i've dealt with him, too. i agree, he never books. he has called me numerous times, going by various names like chad, chandler, mallory, dave. asks me questions like, "are you good with your tongue?" and "will you send me your pictures in the mail?” once, he told me that he was ready to make an appointment, he had just been released from a psychiatric hospital- because he was suicidal (!)
Service Provider: 2222
MORE ON HIM:
he goes by the name of dave. he has been calling over the past 3 months, various dates, big time time waster,supposedly never has time to see me, but always time to obviously jerk off while telling me his fantasies.
Service Provider: 2225
MORE ON HIM:
He has been calling me since 12/05, using yet another alias which I hesitate to give, as I am sure he changes them according to his moods. He did make an appointment, but cancelled a week in advance, as he said he broke his leg (which of course had me on the phone consoling him as he was in pain). We have had cordial conversations this year and he has made 2 other advanced appointments, and cancelled them many days ahead, citing work changes.
Service Provider: 2201
Mark
301-213-0047
Date not provided
No show, no call. Claims he forgot. When chance to make it up is presented he does not call. Just a game player getting off on setting appointments.
Service Provider: 2227
Rob
757-639-6940
05/18/06
Kept changing appointment times, days, location. Multiple calls, taking up lots of time on phone, describing desired role play in great detail with specific requests (ie, wanted me with sweaty pits). Eventually canceled his three hour appointment 10 minutes before it was to happen, first asking if it could be later in the evening, then not even committing to that. I had told other callers I was already booked, and was left with a time gap, and sweaty pits!
Service Provider: 2216
James
202-409-8886
04/14/06
Did not show for appoinment.
Service Provider: 2228
Keith
717-404-7963
02/27/06
Wanted outcall appointment. I went to his Crystal City hotel, the room number was wrong. Upon calling him, he wouldn’t answer, nor return my calls.
Service Provider: 2228
Richard
202-333-3398
01/08/06
Did not show for appoinment.
Service Provider: 2228
Mario
703-525-4956
He did not show for appointment.
Service Provider: 2226
joseph
202-237-2257
04/28/06
wanted session but no apt number existed at the address given. When i called, he said “i’m not home yet!” and hung up, and never called back. sidenote: he called me numerous times in the past, from july 2004, wanting information, but could never seem to get my prices straight.
Service Provider: 2222
MORE ON HIM:
5/24/06
He wanted me to come to his place today. I explained that he had made an appointment with me before and I could not reach him to confirm and that I saw his name and number on this website. He said it was all lies. I told him I would not deal with him again.
Service Provider: 2201
MORE ON HIM:
9/22/06
He called me and I checked this site to see if his number was here - as I always do before booking someone. I told him he was on a Blacklist site, and he got very angry with me, although I explained to him that I did not put him there - I only use the site to check for issues with potential clients. I told him there is a way to get his name and number off the site. He yelled, "They are lying!!" and hung up the phone. I did not think this made him seem particularly innocent.
Service Provider: 2224
dwight
828-200-0338, alt is 703-790-1249
04/06/06
he never showed up for the appointment.
Service Provider: 2222
jeff
202-387-9252
04/28/06
never showed up at my place.
Service Provider: 2222
raul
202-361-0426
03/29/06
he didnt show, and never called.
Service Provider: 2222
Mike
803-917-1545
03/15/06
No show, and never returned calls.
Service Provider: 2200
Jerry
703-963-0448
03/10/06
No show, and never returned calls.
Service Provider: 2200
Joe
267-253-6275
03/01/06
Said he was $40 short of the previously told price when it came time to pay. Other notes on this guy: totally uptight, nervous, noncommunicative, and stupid, too! He couldn't get to my place in time, said he would be there in “5 minutes” but it took him 70 minutes! At the building entry system, he couldn't get the door open, he kept hanging up the phone just before I could begin to buzz him in. He is NOT the sharpest tool in the shed.
Service Provider: 2200
Rick
202-332-1866, also 202-701-4646
04/20/06
After spending the night with him, he was to pay in the morning. Have seen him before and knew that I only take cash, but in the morning wouldnt go to ATM to get cash, instead wanted to give me a check, which was not a possibility with me under any circumstances - and he knew that. I had to leave without payment. In fact, I had previously been warned about him from my friend Brett (an escort, now retired); when Brett arrived at his place for a session, Rick wouldn’t answer the door.
Service Provider: 2216
Jay
202-409-9774
03/10/06
He wanted to top me, and I was ok with that, but told him he needed to use a condom. It was all good... several positions, etc. Then at some point, I felt around and realized he had pulled off the condom, and was barebacking me! BLACKLISTED FOREVER.
Service Provider: 2216
Patrick
540-286-0351
07/07/04
He got into trouble with the cops because he tried to pick one up in a park in Fredericksburg, VA. The cops made a deal with him, he could get three sex offenders for them and they would remove charges against him. So, he set me up and the cops “found” him with me in a hotel room; I had to deal with a huge legal entanglement and it cost me a lot of money - it was a nightmare - that’s all I am going to say about it on this site.
Service Provider: 2216
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Michael
207-590-0135
1/30/10
He called me when I was visiting Boston and made plans to come over at 7 PM. He said that we couldn't meet the other time I had been in Boston and so he was looking forward to meeting me. He's into a lot of crazy stuff with dildos, which is not what I enjoy, but I agreed to used butt plugs on him anyway. Then he didn't show up, he didn't call to say he was late, nothing. Another no show, although he sounded so polite on the phone.
Service Provider: 2208
Ilario Regina
203-209-4016
1/28/10
He emailed me about my trip to New Haven, CT and asked me if I bottom. I said yes, I'm totally versatile.... Maybe that wasn't clear to him, because he emailed me again asking me if I bottom. I said yes and sent him a link to my pictures that he didn't see, he totally missed them. When I got to CT he called me and asked me if I bottom (3rd time that he asked me the same question.) I said yes. I had to repeat the name of my hotel 5 times, the address, everything. It was like talking to someone really stupid. In the end, he didn't show up for his appointment at my hotel, nor answer the phone when I called him.
Service Provider: 2208
Tom
508-583-5937
2/4/10
Called saying he was from Boston, coming in to DC. Told me he likes rough play, and is into wrestling. He sounded pretty cool. Told me he would be staying at a Marriott in town. Never showed up for his appointment and never called.
OTHER INFO: He found me on RentMen. His phone is a landline registered to Mary Stevens, 18 Anne Ave, Brockton, MA 02301-2146
Service Provider: 2224
John Scrabblin
540-814-0144
1/25/10
This dude has called me several times and has been very wishy-washy about booking an appointment. In one conversation, he told me that he had never been with men before, but then said he wanted an appointment with two men at once. That should have been a red flag to me. He called me on Jan 25th and wanted an appointment on the same day. I told him I could see him 2.5 hours later, but he asked if I could do it earlier. I said I could do it 2 hours earlier, and then he very sweetly requested that I make it for an hour and a half from then. I agreed - and rushed back to my place to get it - and myself - ready. He said he wanted to bottom and to top, too - so I had some prep work to do. Well, he never showed and never called. I've tried to call him, but can't leave a message because his voicemail box is always full!
OTHER INFO: He is either from Hardy, Burnt Chimney, or Martinsville, Virginia. He works on power lines, so he doesn't work when it rains. He is originally from southern Virginia and has a very strong accent. He likes to say things like "OK, see you soon, wild man."
If I were you I would refuse ANY appointments with this dude - he does not respect our time whatsoever. It is people like him who drain escorts... and then other clients wonder why we are so wary!
Service Provider: 2236
Ed Sandefur
270-860-3185
Date Unknown
Made appt for two hours but did not show. Later he emailed me and said he got called in to work. Asked if I would set another appt for later that day. I did, but he did not show - again.
Service Provider: 2235
Josh
aka David Patton - Jackson MS
aka Charles Patton - Jackson MS
aka Joshua Charles
601-983-0181
patton10@sprint.blackberry.net
1/3/10
this guy is a serious time drain, a braggart, has some extreme fantasies, and disrespects people in our profession. he first contacted me in april of 2009 with an email that included this text:
“How Rough will you get with my cock over a six hour session? We can work on it once a week to start and as we progress we can increase the sessions! I really don't want any permanent damage but with a lot of sessions it will turn darker like David Beckham. In flogging and using a whip and your hands and fists you will tear the foreskin some, Scars like that are ok! Even at times you can use your teeth on me!”
he didn’t set up a session at that time, but emailed me 10 more times over the next few weeks. and this year - january 1 to be exact - he contacted me again. in this new decade he has asked for me to compile a group of men - 3 or 4 or 5 of us - to work on him with cbt (even though he says he has never done it before.) he has told me how he will hire me once a week (or, at a different point, he said “every night this week”) to stomp on his dick. he has told me in various emails that he is very rich, he drives a jaguar, he works for bank of america, he wants to take me on trips abroad, he has his masters in banking and finance, he has a big long uncut cock, and he is SO good looking that even married men hit on him - with their wives around! ugh, exhausting. oh yeah, he also told me he is 60 years old...
here are some other nuggets from this man:
“Dude I am riding around DC near DuPont Circle In my 2010 BMW 750 i’m Buck Naked!”
“Your time is running out for you to Answer? I'll be a regular at $3300 a week!”
“If you cut my cock with a flogger we will stop till the bleeding stops or continue! I want to see what your thought this will heighten my desire to do this!”
“Are you going to Box my Cock an Balls? How intense you going to get? Are you going to flag me from the navel Down? How intense? Just call Me.”
“You have 30 minutes before I dress and go to my Office at Bank of America! No play because I will be Working! Your missing out on a Golden opportunity! I have checked you out! Answer Me! J”
obviously, he is a big fan of the exclamation point as well.
why would i put up with all these emails so far? well, i can entertain a lot of kinks and fetishes, and i am willing to work with people who are on erotic journeys - so i tried to help him make his fantasy a reality. eventually he set up an appointment with me on january 3, but didnt show up. he contacted me the next day, saying he got tied up, and telling me that he wants to pay for his missed appointment as well as another one for the upcoming night. i told him how to make payment, and he said he would but after giving him two deadlines and with him still wanting me to discuss what i will do with him, i felt i had no choice but to add him to this blacklist. by the way, you are doing a terrific job of this, Lars - thank you very much. it is a real service to guys like us, who deal with the 99% great clients and the 1% pitiful people who end up on this site. sorry this is so long but this guy is really someone to watch out for - i strongly suggest you guys refuse any communication from him from the start.
Service Provider: 2233
Patrick
206-854-7245
12/8/09
I exchanged emails with this guy, who wanted an appointment during my trip in Seattle. He kept writing openly sexual things, asking me to rim him, and telling me that he "likes to get his pussy eaten." Other times he referred to his ass as his "man cunt." He finally called me and made plans for a 1 PM appointment, but before hanging up the phone he suddenly requested we get together at 8 AM. That should have been a sign of the problems to come with him. In the end, he agreed to come over at 1 PM - but he never showed up.
Service Provider: 2208
Steven
310-316-3769
12/5/09
I was invited to spend time with him in LA (Redondo Beach, CA) and all was going well until he literally snapped. He ended up throwing my laptop on the ground, verbally abusing me and I eventually knew I had to get out. I asked for my overnight rate and he stiffed me $400 on it. I then had to find a motel by the airport (costing another $200) and found the next day at LAX that he cancelled my flight back home. I had to repurchase a ticket at full-fare. This guy is a scammer, a thief and the only bad experience I've ever had. BEWARE.
Service Provider: 2234
Ken
310-616-6400
11/15/09
He called me at 3AM for a 2 hour session. Described himself as a "bisexual masculine vers athletic bottom from Woodbridge." Never showed, never returned my calls. I stayed up late waiting for him.
Service Provider: 2219
Tim
703-216-1637
11/14/09
Called at 1AM, wanted an appointment in next 45 minutes. Didn't show. Called him to see if he was lost, but he hung up right after answering. On third attempt, I left message for him to call me but he didn't.
Service Provider: 2203
John
214-499-6767, 214-871-1000
11/9/09
I'm based in DC but travel to various places for client appointments. He called me the day before I arrived in Dallas, to make plans for the first day of my visit there. When I got to my hotel, I called him and there was no answer from him. 2 days later he called me and told me that he missed my phone calls and he had no memory of our previous appointment. We made plans for Tuesday at 6 PM to have fun and dinner after.
He called me on Tuesday at 12:30 and asked me to get together at 1 PM that day instead of 6. I said yes to his new schedule. When I was getting ready he called me and asked me if it was OK for him to take pictures of me naked. I said no to him for obvious reasons, he said he would pick me up at 1 as we spoke previously but first he had to pay some workers in his property and he might be a few minutes late.
I waited for him til 1:40, I called him to his house and cellphone and there was no answers. I finally called to tell him that I had other guys to see that day and I couldn't wait for him anymore.
He called me at 2 and 3 PM to ask me to take a cab to his place and get some pictures taken by him... I already had told him that I wasn't going to allow that to happen and that I wasn't available at all... He also forgot the first date we had scheduled, the one at 6 PM on Tuesday, etc.
Service Provider: 2208
Sean
410-487-5873
Date unknown
I did an outcall to his house in Baltimore (I was coming from DC.) At the end of the massage, he told me he could not find his wallet. He asked me to wait at my car while he went to his car to get money. I never saw him again. I reported the incident to the police, but unfortunately I never got paid.
Service Provider: 2232
Tom
240-349-2287
9/22/2009
No show. Started out telling me how he thinks he is bi-curious, and how he wanted a session with me and a female friend. Described himself as having a good build and a shaved head, and told me he's turned away "dozens" of women(!) I set up an appointment for him with myself and a girl I work with, based on the dates he gave me. When I confirmed it with her, and then got back to him, the date was no longer good for him. So we set up a different date to meet. She arrived, we waited for him - but he neither called, nor came! This was rude - not only to me, but to her. I will not book anything with him without getting some payment for this. And future appointments? I would suggest you get pre-payment from him first.
Service Provider: 2233
Allen
240-350-6965
9/08/2009
No show. When he didn't arrive, I called him... he actually MUTED the call when he answered. I asked him to call back, but of course he didn't. I will not be seeing this guy again unless he covers me for the last session. I suggest if you agree to see him, you get pre-payment first. He told me he is originally from El Salvador.
Service Provider: 2233
Luis
301-273-8239
8/01/2009
No show. Odd, because of two things: 1. He called and booked the appointment for an hour after we talked (not like it was two weeks out and he forgot.) 2. I had seen him once before, and we definitely had a good time. He never called me afterwards although I left a couple of messages.
Service Provider: 2207
name unknown
678-768-0306
7/10/2009
He never arrived and never called to cancel. He also never picked up the phone when I called to see if he was lost. On the phone, he said he wanted to come with a bag full of dildos for his ass. I guess he wants only to talk on the phone? He may not be serious about booking.
Service Provider: 2208
Michael
434-760-1375
7/07/2009
He called me and said he wanted to do some light bondage - he wanted me to use a rope on him. I gave him my address but he never showed up. When I called him to find out if he was lost, he never answered the call.
Service Provider: 2208
David
703-915-8673, also 703-998-5531
6/20/2009
He wanted an appointment, but never showed and never called. Beforehand, on the phone, he told me that he found it hard to connect with other people in DC - how ironic...
Service Provider: 2229
Eric
202-422-2105
Date not specified
This guy called me and he said that we saw before. We made plans to get together again, but he never showed, never called.
Service Provider: 2208
Name Unknown
901-494-9215
Date not specified
He made plans to get together with me in Memphis but didn't show up for the appointment at my hotel.
Service Provider: 2208
Name Unknown
301-915-7156
Date not specified
He never showed up, never called to cancel.
Service Provider: 2208
Name Unknown
404-816-8201
Date not specified
This guy called me at least 5 times offering to fly me to Atlanta "today" or tomorrow. When I said yes, he asked me to do it bareback with him. I told him I don't do it bareback, in Europe guys play safe all the time and there's no BB fever as it is in this side of the Atlantic. He seems to like to say that he has money to fly someone the same day to Atlanta, or maybe he gets off having a phone conversation about BB sex.
Service Provider: 2208
MORE ON HIM:
2/19/2008
Want you to know about a guy who called me to set up an appointment. He only wanted it if I would bareback him. Lars, I don’t know if he deserves to be blacklisted - but I thought other escorts should know about this.
Service Provider: 2229
Name Unknown
202-550-7183
Date not specified
He called me to go to his place in Adams Morgan. We had fun together. He seemed to be a nice guy, who happens to take a lot of antidepressants and has a crush on one of his students. He paid me and I left. Then, a week later I got a text from him. We made plans again, but this time when I arrived he didn't answer the phone and I couldn’t get inside his apartment building. He called me a couple of times later, but when I reminded him of his previous behavior, he hung up on me.
Service Provider: 2208
Jim
781-517-3186 and 781-620-0071
Approximately 4/09
He called me when I was in Boston. He asked for a discount price. Later he called to confirm but he never showed up for the appointment. When I called him he had his cell and home phone turned off.
Service Provider: 2208
Jason
703-505-6886
4/15/09
He called me and told me he wanted an immediate appointment. I rearranged my plans to see him two hours from then. After two phone calls with him setting this up, he then called back ten minutes later, telling me, “I got someone coming now... I'm gonna pass...” and hung up on me! I called him back, after several attempts I finally got him and told him he had done something similar to me about a year ago:
In March 2008, he told me he wanted to party with me and see how that went before taking me on an international trip to London. He told me he would want me to wear a tux for his corporate function there, said he was in good shape, told me he can be aggressive, be a “coach” daddy, and that he likes to have guys to pose for him. Then at the end of the conversation, he told me he would reimburse me when I brought the party favors to his place. I said, "Sorry, man, I don't have any connections." And he said, "Well, thanks but I'm gonna take a rain check" - and immediately hung up.
I reminded him of this similar call a year ago, and told him that he struck me as erratic, extreme and abrupt. I went on to say that I had to blacklist him on Lars' website. He went from being apologetic to calling me a Nazi, to cursing me out, and finally threatening to call the police on me (For what charges, I wonder?) Be careful though - this guy sounds a bit unbalanced.
Service Provider: 2222
Albert
203-859-2756
Approximately 4/09
He emailed me several times about a trip I was taking to New Haven. I called him when I got to New Haven, we made plans to get together at 9 PM, but then he didn't show up. And then, he wouldn't answer the phone when I called him.
Service Provider: 2208
mike
301-300-9637
12/19/2008
after telling me how good looking he is, and how he rarely does this, and how he can't believe he is hiring a man to be with him, he scheduled an appointment with me for later the same afternoon. 30 mins before he was to arrive, he called to say he had booked a session with another guy - someone from frederick... so he wont be coming to me. and then started to promise me that he would call over the weekend! i told him, "no, don't - this isn't working out. please don't call me again." he stressed that he called to cancel, as if that showed that he was being decent. i tried to explain to him that he shouldn't have booked with me in the first place unless he was serious - this is as much about my time as it is his.
Service Provider: 2203
Kirk
571-315-9520
8/15/08
This guy is to be handled carefully. He called me for a same day appointment. I went to his house, in Herndon, VA area, in the 13000 address range on Feldman Place. There was no answer at the door, but 30 feet away (just one townhouse down), there was a guy sitting outside, watching me as I approached the door. There was no answer at the phone number above. The guy watching me said he didn't know anyone around there named Kirk... he was pretty suspect - his voice sounded similar to the guy I spoke with on the phone. I would suggest you beware of anyone booking an appointment on Feldman Place.
Service Provider: 2212
chris b
540-550-7857, 540-439-6565
10/17/2008
booked a session with me at the marriott courtyard in tysons corner, three weeks out. he had to check in to the hotel the day of the appointment, and i had him on my calendar for all those weeks before it. but that day, he never called me with a room number, nor to confirm our session. i left several messages for him, but never heard back.
Service Provider: 2229
Scott M
804-399-7171
Date not specified
This guy calls me with an attitude, but I, being a nice guy, ignore it. He then shows up in the parking lot where we are to meet, says, "you are too old," and walks away from me. He knew my age beforehand, and if he had questions he should have asked beforehand. All this without even an apology for wasting my time!
Service Provider: 2218
Matt W
503-816-9432
8/14/08
He booked an appointment with me in his hotel room for the next day. I got there, knocked on his room door, but there was no answer. Called him a couple of times to his cell, and also no answer. This guy never called me back, even though I left two separate messages. Four days later I called him to tell him about this blacklist site, and he quickly said, "You've got the wrong number," and hung up on me while I was still speaking. No respect to me or my time...
Service Provider: 2203
Ed
240-328-3504
7/24/08
He set up an appointment for the same day he called. Then he called 1/2 hour before he was to arrive, left a message: "The taxi isn't here, I don't know if I can make it in time, please call." This was odd because he told me he was going to take metro... I called him, left a message for him to call me back - but he didn't. I called him again later, and he said he would call to set up another appointment next week. I told him first he would have to pay me for this one, and I would hold the money for a full month for him to redeem, or else I would have to blacklist him on this site. He insisted he would call me next week to set something up. I said said, "Sorry, I'm going to have to blacklist you." (I have heard that line - "I'll call you again to set something up" - way too many times before, with no phone call later)
Service Provider: 2222
Alex, aka Darin D.
540-325-8801
6/25/08
Had booked a 90 minute appointment with me, but did not show, did not call.
Service Provider: 2212
Brian, aka Bill
540-729-3837
6/26/08
Called me several times over the last few months, telling me various things: he never has done this before, he has a fantasy of two guys working out, naked, on workout equipment - etc. Booked an appointment with me and never showed, never called.
Service Provider: 2202
Greg
202-375-4753
5/24/08
Called and booked an appointment for the same evening. I was driving back from Rehoboth and told him I thought I would be in my apartment in DC, for an 11:30PM starting time. We agreed that if I were running late from traffic, I would call him. In fact I was ready to go at 11:30. He never showed up and never called. Thinking that he might have fallen asleep, I called him a couple other times over the next two days, but didn't hear from him again.
Service Provider: 2207
Mirko
703-786-9406
Approximately 5/08
At the appointment, he said he had no cash. We went to a cash machine which said his card was not valid. He said of course he would pay, but did not.
Service Provider: 2201
Andy
202-297-0037
4/7/08
I gave him one massage in fall of '07. Nice guy, no problems. Then he called on March 10 telling me he had been to me before, and how good I was - and that he needed to come see me right away. He said he would be at my place in 30 minutes. He never showed, and never answered the phone.
He called again on April 7 but I was booked. Again, he said he had been to me before. He made an appointment for 1pm the following afternoon. I felt he would not show, so I called him at 11:00am and there was no answer. I left a message for him to call me back and let me know if he was coming - but never got a return call.
Service Provider: 2201
Name Unknown
443-465-9330
2/24/08
He called for an appointment within the hour. Never arrived.
Service Provider: 2231
Bram
540-222-2365
his email: puggles127@yahoo.com
2/21/08
He called me setting up an appointment for night time, making me even cancel other things I had as priority just to make sure I could ensure him the greatest and most enjoyable time. Then a 2nd phone call from him asking if it was ok if he arrived kind of late. I said it would be fine since he was at least keeping me posted.
The 3rd phone call came 2 hours after the 1st call. He said he heard about a big storm on the news and he was concerned about driving to DC. I noticed that at that time he was still at home - and not on the road almost arriving at my Hotel. I just had strength to hang up on him - I could not even stand his voice at that moment.
This guy e-mails me two days later: “Sorry about the other night. The weather got bad and I truly apologize. I'm free this evening and can come over if you still want me to, please email me. I like it mild to wild and can come again. I'm sorry. Thanks.”
Before I could respond, he found one of my screen names on GAY.COM and started chatting with me, starting apologizing for the inconvenient hard time he made me go through, and asking me to please give him another chance to come to see me. He said that he was going to make it up to me.
I ended up making the big mistake of saying yes, come over.
He set the appointment for 8PM but I asked him to call me when he was on his way. That way I could see if he was for real or not.
I never heard from him, and now it is midnight, which is why I am blacklisting him. Well,well,well !!! Should I say anything else?? ...DON'T FUCK WITH US
Service Provider: 2231
Jerry
703-963-0448
2/11/08
He booked an appointment with me in March of 2006. Didn't ever show up, and never called afterwards, even though I had left messages for him. I never reported him to the site because I didn't know about BlacklistedNow back then. But I do keep good records on these guys who don't show. He called me again today, and wanted an appointment. I told him, I won't see you because you blew me off for an appointment about two years ago." He said he knew about that. I said, "You can either pay me for a portion of my fee, or I will blacklist you on a website for this, for other guys to know so they can be made aware." He said, "OK, well then, I'll just pass on making an appointment..."
So, guys, here is his information!
Service Provider: 2202
Tim
301-373-3854
1/20/08
He e-mailed me in early November about setting up an overnight visit at his place in Hollywood, Maryland. He was going to pick me up at the closest metro station and we would drive to his place. He contacted me a few days before, and called again later in the week to confirm. But then he called last minute and said he had a cold and couldn't meet. I said that was fine, but I didn't tell him I had declined another offer for a meeting since I thought I was going to meet him. Oh well, that's the business sometimes.
He contacted me two weeks later, and the same thing happened! This time, he said he had to go out of town for an emergency. I was a little annoyed then.
He tried a third time and cancelled again!
I blocked his e-mail address and figured he would get the hint to not contact me anymore.
He just called me a few minutes ago and said he wanted to meet. I told him I had no interest in seeing him because I knew we would never meet...it would just be another cancellation. He got upset with me and I told him that was the reason I had blocked his e-mail address.
This man needs a hobby besides jerking around guys that are trying to be honest when it comes to this line of work.
Service Provider: 2230
Chad
781-361-2335
1/19/08
Called me at 7:30am, for an outcall appointment at 11am. Asked that I give him a call shortly before arriving. I called him half an hour before, he answered and said, "Can I call you back in a minute?" but never did. I tried him ten minutes later, it went to voicemail, I left a message for him to call back. I tried him again at 11am, no answer. I didn't go to his place, but it was frustrating, because I had another call from a client later in the morning who wanted me at that time, and I told him I was already booked. When I called the other client back, he had made other plans.
For what it's worth, this guy Chad sounded a little out-of-it on the phone when we spoke. Otherwise, he might be a nice guy - but too unreliable for me to book with him again.
Service Provider: 2212
Steve
517-487-5669
1/4/08
Contacted me a month before his appointment, telling me he's into all sorts of kink and said he could be wearing a buttplug or CB harness at our appointment, if I wanted him to. Sent me an email with a detailed description of what he likes - from "attitude" and "limitations" to sensory deprivation, ass play, and toys. Text from this email included "Whole body: mummification, hot wax, clothespins (Someday I'd love to try for 1000, but it would take 7 people- 1 each on left head and arm; right head and arm; left torso; right torso; left leg and hip; right leg and hip; and cock and balls). I've been shaved head to toe, pissed on and buried up to my neck at a beach and face-fucked." Booked a 3 hour appointment with me - he was coming in from Michigan - but never showed up for it, and never called me back.
Service Provider: 2229
Michael
301-951-7517
10/12/07
Michael called me wanting an outcall to Chevy Chase right away, and I went. We agreed on the price, and when I arrived he was polite but seemed like he was on medication that perhaps was prescribed. He acted a bit drunk, but did not smell of alcohol. He is very hard of hearing and I had to say things over and over. At the end of the session he went into the bathroom for a long time. I told him I needed to leave, and he asked me how much the fee was. I told him and he handed me 3/4ths of the money, telling me he had no more. I told him he could write me a check. Then he tried to take the money back, but I clutched it and told him to write me a check for the rest of amount. He then asked me if I had change for a $100 bill, and I did, and he paid me.
Service Provider: 2201
Teddy
202-368-0539
7/23/07
He contacted me on 1/4/07, said wanted an appointment at 2:30 in the morning for that nite. I was willing to do that, and he was going to call back to confirm at 2am - but he never did. This was not enough to blacklist him, but he did seem flaky after that. Months later in July, he booked an appointment with me, but never showed up, and never called.
Service Provider: 2207
Keith
703-536-2546
4/10/07
Aside from the fact that he told me he might like me to fuck his wife in the future, he never showed up for his appointment, and never called.
Service Provider: 2207
Name Unknown
240-285-8477
Approximately 3/07
He called me at 7:10 and made plans to be in my place as soon as possible. Because of his cellphone, I knew that he was from Maryland. Knowing how "difficult it is to drive in DC" for these guys from Maryland, I asked him where he was. He said he was driving on Connecticut Ave toward the White House. I gave him my address (16th and U) and told him to get off Connecticut toward the left and look for the street numbers 18th, 17th and then Bingo: 16th.
I called him again at 8pm. He told me that he was at 14th and S and didn't know how to get to my place. I explained to him one more time to look for 16th St, and I told him the street number of my building. At 8:35 I just gave up on him.
What the f... is it with guys from MD - why is it so difficult to just follow the street numbers in DC? Every time I see a 301, 410, or 240, I think: “He might arrive late.”
Service Provider: 2208
Name Unknown
312-636-6989
Approximately 6/07
He didn’t show, and didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2209
Name Unknown
214-636-1699
Approximately 6/07
He didn’t show, and didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2209
Name Unknown
240-285-8477
Approximately 6/07
He didn’t show, and didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2209
Name Unknown
410-370-0640
Approximately 6/07
He didn’t show, and didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2209
Paul
703-431-1203
2/19/07
Never showed up, never called.
Service Provider: 2206
Tom
727-271-1667
2/19/07
Before the appointment, he called to say he was driving in from Alexandria. 40 mins later, I called him, and he said he was lost, and that he just ran into his boss (!!??!!), and he needed to call me back. 20 mins later, I called again, got his voicemail, and left a message. Later, when I finally spoke with him, I told him - “I don’t want to have to blacklist you.” He asked if he could rebook and have his female friend come to accompany. We also talked the next day but he never did call back to finalize an appointment.
Service Provider: 2206
Michael
937-271-5463
4/30/07
He didn’t show, and didn’t call. I called him later but his phone would not answer.
Service Provider: 2206
Dennis Roy
202-374-4393
Date not specified
Also known as Andy. Set up and confirmed a meeting with two of our escorts at the in-call location. Called to confirm, and then was a no-show. Kept everyone waiting after they traveled some distance to meet. When we were finally able to reach him, hours after the appointment, he became upset and gave some excuse about misplacing his wallet, but did not call to cancel.
Service Provider: A local escort agency
Name Unknown
202-588-9249
Date not specified
He set up an appointment for an incall, and called 30 minutes before to confirm. Then, he never showed up.
Service Provider: 2210
Name Unknown
202-256-5160
Date not specified
He gave a Georgetown address. I showed up, but the address did not exist and he did not answer his phone.
Service Provider: 2210
John
703-622-3265
Date not specified
This guy is my running joke. He has made seven appointments and canceled every one.
Service Provider: 2210
Paul
703-431-1203
2/19/07
Never showed up, never called.
Service Provider: 2211
Tom
727-271-1667
2/19/07
He booked a spontaneous appointment, telling me that he was driving in to DC from Alexandria. 40 minutes later, I called, he said he was lost, and that he just ran into his boss so he needed to call me back. 20 minutes later, I called him again, but the phone went to voicemail. He called me two days afterwards, to say he wanted to book an appointment for three days later, and asked if his female friend could be there, just to watch. I told him that was ok - and he was to call me back with a time that was good for both of them. I left follow up messages afterwards, but he never called.
Service Provider: 2211
Amy
571-261-1059
2/08/07
Never showed, never called.
Service Provider: 2212
John
410-952-4076
1/23/07
i live in dc, and a guy from baltimore called me to come over for a 3 hour meeting. we had agreed on a 9:30 p.m. meeting, and i had explained to him that i was taking the train over since i don't have a car. i rode the train for an hour there and called him because he was supposed to be waiting at the station for me. he pretended like he was sleepy and said that it was supposed to be at 9:30 a.m., not p.m. this is a total lie. i specifically asked on the phone if the meeting was for that night, and he said yes.
i had to wait for the next train, and ride an hour back. three hours total i wasted and i missed a potential client during my ordeal.
Service Provider: 2213
Tim
303-808-2939
Date not specified
I went on a call to this guy. Everything was going well until he asked me to finger him and I found he was not clean. I told him I would not do it anymore unless he took care of the problem. He then got mad, told me to get out, threw the money at me, and said I was the worst escort he ever called!
Service Provider: 2214
name unknown
202-745-9573
Date not specified
Never showed, never called.
Service Provider: 2215
name unknown
703-348-7523
Date not specified
Never showed, never called.
Service Provider: 2215
Scott
760-235-9177
Date not specified
Never showed, never called.
Service Provider: 2215
Alex
202-492-8316
1/11/07
Never showed up, never called.
Service Provider: 2216
Bobby
301-987-2451
1/17/07
Never showed up, never called.
Service Provider: 2216
Sean
301-449-4475
1/16/07
He set an appointment with me to meet at his place. It was far away from me. I met him at his place. At the end of the one hour session, he said he had no money to pay me, that he lost his checkbook, and he was going to mail it to me. He never did.
Service Provider: 2217
Jeff
757-343-3580
12/27/06
He called me just before the appointment, parked at the wrong property, and came to see me over the neighbor's fence. I asked him to park next to my car... then he went over and started driving away. When I called him back he didnt answer his phone. A rude, time-waster...
Service Provider: 2218
Alex
703-589-4261
Date not specified
Asked to see one of our transsexual companions, but when the person drove 45 minutes to Alexandria, failed to answer the phone and had neglected to say it was an apartment building. Finally gave the apartment number after we called from a different number - but no one ever answered that unit.
Service Provider: A local escort agency
Roger
540-408-3156
Date not specified
Set up appointment with one of our escorts at one of our in-call locations. Client had escort travel across town to meet him and then never showed up, never called, and did not answer phone.
Service Provider: A local escort agency
Victor
909-241-1470
12/19/06
Never showed up, never called!
Service Provider: 2219
Gary
302-690-2608
7/05
He set up an appointment at his friend's place in Prospect House in Arlingon. When I was at the L'Enfant Plaza Metro station he called me to confirm that I was coming. I told him I was on my way as promised. The comunication was bad and I couldn't understand what he said. I asked him to repeat himself and then he told me with a very angry voice: "I don't like your attitude, we'd better cancel this now." I called him back when I got off the metro, but I kept getting his voice mail.
The next day a friend of mine had the same problem with him, again he cancelled at the last moment! It seems that Gary enjoys turning down a guy - maybe it's a "Freudian" thing?
He called me once again at a later point for a session - he doesn't even keep the names or phone numbers of the guys he has bothered before. I politely suggested that he go to a mental hospital.
Service Provider: 2208
Larry
540-829-9531
Date not specified
He called several times offering me US$25,000 to appear in a movie about a guy who is a fitness model during the day and an escort at night. He kept talking about meeting first just to talk about it, but not for "fun”. I told him many times that I wasn't interested in his proposal. Then, one day a guy called me from a nearby pay phone and showed up in my place. He was dressed like a homeless person, and he was very sweaty. I asked him politely to take a shower to feel more confortable. At that moment he introduced himself as the guy who called me for the movie. He told me again the same story about the movie and how perfect I was for the main character. Once more time I told him that I wasn't interested. He never called me again.
Service Provider: 2208
Phil
804-387-6935
Date not specified
He called me to come to his hotel room at the Mayflower Hotel. When I got to his room, he wouldn’t answer the door. I called him on his cell and got his voicemail. I left a message, and waited in the hotel lobby for 15 minutes for him to call back - but he never did.
Service Provider: 2208
Names as yet unrecorded
917-673-4038, 301-221-7590, 917-991-8125, 301-717-7883, 240-744-6750, 301-674-9477, 724-272-7418, 214-636-1699, 301-643-5757, 804-356-7037, 571-643-2706, 240-672-2264, 703-569-8515, 301-654-7535, 202-486-8919, 202-271-8600, 202-441-3859, 202-398-1764
Multiple dates
All of the above numbers are from guys who didn’t show up for their appointments in my apartment. Up till now, I did not keep the names of them; I’ve only kept their phone numbers as “no shows.”
Service Provider: 2208
Name unknown
240-601-8924
Date not specified
He didn’t show up for his appointment in my apartment.
Service Provider: 2208
MORE ON HIM:
I saw him once. He told me his name was Soni. I arrived twenty minutes later than I intended, as his place was very hard to find. When I got there, his roommate was there, and he said he wanted to cancel the 90 minute appointment. I insisted he pay me half of my fee, which he begrudgingly did.
Service Provider: 2202
Paul
703-283-6316
12/9/06
He told me he likes to be paddled. He gave me directions to his place, and I was to call him when I got off the Van Dorn exit in Virginia. But when I called him, he had turned off his phone. A waste of gas and my time.
Service Provider: 2220
Jason
917-657-8495 and 724-272-7418
12/3/06
He didn’t show up for his appointment. Then he called me an hour and a half later, and asked me to travel to his place in Alexandria. I went there and we started our session. All was good, until he suddenly became worried his roommate was going to come home. He asked if we could go back to my place. I told him by the time we got there an hour would already be up, and asked him if he wanted an additional hour or more. He said he did, and followed me in his car to my place. When I arrived but he didn't, I called - he told me he realized he had left his wallet back home. He never did come back to my place. Afterwards, he would hang up the phone when I called him, and of course never did pay for the session. A complete waste of my time.
Service Provider: 2204
Stan, aka “stangon”
773-203-5343
12/1/06
He didn’t show up for his appointment, and he didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2221
Ray
310-751-7751
11/18/06
He didn’t show up for his appointment, and he didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2205
Chris
703-774-6938
11/18/06
He didn’t show up for his appointment, and he didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2205
Mike
703-801-1898
11/18/06
He didn’t show up for his appointment, and he didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2205
robert
301-793-7092
11/15/06
he didn’t show up for his appointment, and he didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2222
miles
240-305-4031
11/2/06
he didn’t show up for his appointment, and he didn’t call.
Service Provider: 2222
kevin
202-423-3422
10/28/06
he didnt show for his session, and didnt call. when i called, he said he fell asleep watching TV! said he totally understands what its like to miss an appointment, as his work involves appointments too (he cuts hair), and he felt so bad that he wanted to reschedule, and pay for half of the missed appointment as well. i rescheduled him for 11/01/06, and AGAIN, he didnt show. when i called, he said he totally forgot about that appointment, and because of that he wanted to just come by and pay for the two missed sessions. i confirmed arrangement of payment (i once again clarified, only by cash) and the time for him to come by, which was to be the next day at 5pm. he didnt come by. when i called, he said he totally forgot, but promised that he would be over in 1.5 hours. he never came. when i called again, he apologized and asked if i could come to him, as he had taken some sleeping pills and really couldnt go out (he was 4 blocks away). at that point i told him he was going to be blacklisted, so he said he would come by to pay, but it would have to be by check. there were just too many changes, too much bullshit, and too much spaciness from him. i told him i cant take a check, and reminded him that he knew that previously. beware- this guy is VERY FLAKY. DO NOT SEE.
Service Provider: 2222
Bob
480-247-6242
11/6/06
He leads you to a fake address over 50 miles away.
Service Provider: 2223
ricardo
202-561-0156
11/28/06
When I arrived at his place, he didn’t answer the door for a couple minutes. He had hired me for a massage, but was very nervous. I gave him a massage, but after a few minutes he said he wanted to turn over. Then he said he wanted to fuck me. I got a condom, and he began, thrusting too hard and fast (not a very good fuck, didn’t know what he was doing, to start out that way). He quickly pulled out, and freaked out- I think he couldn’t handle the fact that he was having sex with a guy. He canceled the rest of the session. I told him he could call me if he needed to talk about any of this in the future. Then he told me he wouldn’t be paying me, since he was so wigged out. He said we didn’t even go for the full session length! I offered to continue to give him a massage, but he said no. DO NOT SEE THIS MAN - he is a mess, and cannot take any responsibility for his own actions.
Service Provider: 2200
tim
313-610-1203
10/03/06
he had no respect for me; he just wanted his rocks off, and me out. afterwards, he didnt even want me to shower - - once he came, he was ready for me to get the fuck out. moreover, he was way too nervous. during our session, he freaked out after he came, and shouted "don't come on me!" however, not only was i NOT near coming, i wasn't even TOUCHING my dick! ultimately, he seemed very uptight about his sexuality. i won't see him again; as for you- well, just be prepared for a very nervous, very uptight guy to deal with.
Service Provider: 2203
John
540-481-0942
10/6/06
No show for appointment that was reconfirmed the day before with this number. I called him when he was late and he does not even have a voice mail set up for this number.
Service Provider: 2201
Peter
703-243-9493
10/6/06
No show. He called from a pay phone to make appointment. When I told him I needed a reconfirming number, he gave me his home number which was the same voice and name. Then I gave him my address and he did not show. He called an hour later from a hotel to tell me he was tired and not going to make it and "maybe this weekend". I told him I would not do business with him as he was rude and he hung up on me. Avoid him.
Service Provider: 2201
Jeff
202-364-9028
9/21/06
He didn’t show up for his appointment, and he didn’t call. Moreover, his number is not in service for incoming calls.
Service Provider: 2224
Nick
202-489-7326
9/13/06
Called me one minute before the appointment, and canceled, saying "something came up" - and this was at 11PM!!! I pointed out that he was canceling ONE MINUTE before the appointment, and I could have taken another appointment for that time, and I requested that he not call me again. He said I was not being very professional. I pointed out that HE was not being respectful of people’s schedules and appointments, and he hung up while I was talking to him.
Service Provider: 2224
Glen
443-404-6148
10/01/06
Never showed up, never called.
Service Provider: 2202
John
aka Casey
301-580-2306
9/08/06
Never showed up, never called!
Service Provider: 2219
Doug
754-264-1581
7/27/06
Never showed up, never called! Finally got him on the phone, he said he got confused, and thought I had two ads (!) Said he called ANOTHER guy named David to cancel. I told him that I lost the time. He said he would pay me almost half of my fee- I thought that was fair. He was to send it to me via post. It's six weeks later, though, and guess what - nothing from Doug.
Service Provider: 2219
Peter
203-554-6024
7/10/06
Contacted me by email, we had decent exchanges and he gave me his phone number. But when I tried to call him, he answered the phone but wouldnt speak - I had only said "Hi, Peter, this is Dave- can you talk right now?" and he hung up on me. I should've taken that as a sign of what was to come! But later he called me back, and he set up an appointment for 4 days from then, asking me to email my address/directions to him. The night before the appointment I called him to confirm that he got the address. The next day I hadn't heard from him, so I called him (twice). He never returned my calls, but at the scheduled time there I was, ready and waiting for him. He didn't show up and didn't return my calls.
Service Provider: 2216
brandon
aka david
202-271-2757
7/07/06
scheduled with me twice in september 2005, and then this july, 2006. first appointment, he called the day before, said he needed to reschedule for the next week. i called him the day of the appointment, he told me he was “just going to call”, he needed to reschedule again. for this july appointment, he didn't show up, and didn't return my calls.
Service Provider: 2222
Joe
aka Don
301-305-2450
6/26/06
He did not show for his appointment. He called me 1.5 hours before the appointment, and asked if he could push it up an hour. I told him I could not do it an hour later with my current schedule, but I could push him up for 45 minutes later. He was to call me back in 30 minutes, but he never did. Then, he never showed up at my place.
Service Provider: 2216
Scott
540-219-5559
5/25/06
He did not show for his appointment. I talked with him several times over the last 3 months and when he booked the appointment I asked for a reconfirming phone number. He was to begin the drive to DC at 6am in the morning and said he might arrive early. I called him at 10:30am, no answer. I paged him at 11:00am, no answer. Finally I left a message and told him I was posting his number on this website and he told me he was "in a meeting". He is a time waster and asks the same questions over and over again.
Service Provider 2201
MORE ON HIM:
he also goes by the names dean, larry, wesley, wes, chad. he has called me five separate times over the last year. he wanted me to meet him at an intersection near route 29, between vint hill and new baltimore, in virginia, and said he was going to be in a red toyota truck. this is not something i do normally, but since he had called previously, i thought he was serious. after i had started driving out to him, he called me, and said he couldnt do this - it was to be in his friend’s house, but now his friend’s wife was coming home! it was all very messy. i suggested we could use a hotel near warrenton, he hesitated; i said i could get the room, he hesitated. he wanted to call me in 5 minutes if he could get his own house, and then i said call me either way, or just be straight with me if this is not gonna work. he said ok, he would call in the future! i said no, forget it, you dont seem serious, i’m 15 mins away from you and we can use a hotel or your house, but its obvious youre not serious. i told him not to call me again.
Service Provider: 2222
Brian
703-861-2042
4/27/06
He did not show for his appointment. I called and only then did he say he was not coming.
Service Provider: 2201
Chris
410-979-6064
various dates
A time waster who calls once a month and asks the same questions. Has never had bodywork from a man before. The last time he called, I asked him if he had called before, and he said no. I told him that I have caller ID and not to waste my time.
Service Provider: 2201
Rick
240-793-7802
2/12/06
Never showed for his appointment, nor did he call. He is a very arrogant and controlling man. Avoid him!
Service Provider: 2201
nicholas
240-678-2650
week of 05/20/06
he gave me a fake address in rockville, i tried calling back later and i didn't get any answer.
Service Provider: 2225
kevin
202-841-1833
various dates.
he always books appointments very early in the morning, and always cancels at the last moment, with a variety of bogus reasons.
Service Provider: 2225
lee
540-351-0154 note: he says this is his office phone, but answered it at 11pm one nite; he also gave me a cell number that is bogus - it rings to a girl named brittany, who doesnt know lee at all.
05/22/06
he never showed for appointment, and never called back. because he lives an hour away from me, i had called him the night before to confirm our next day appointment. at that time, he told me that he would definitely be coming.
Service Provider: 2222
anthony
973-722-7456
11/18/05
he never showed up for appointment, and never returned my calls afterwards. he then called me on 060523, when i told him he blew me off in november he didnt seem to care at all.
Service Provider: 2222
Robert
301-682-4078
Multiple times called
Asks lots of questions, but never books; he is a time drain. I think he may be jerking off while calling.
Service Provider: 2226
MORE ON HIM:
i've dealt with him, too. i agree, he never books. he has called me numerous times, going by various names like chad, chandler, mallory, dave. asks me questions like, "are you good with your tongue?" and "will you send me your pictures in the mail?” once, he told me that he was ready to make an appointment, he had just been released from a psychiatric hospital- because he was suicidal (!)
Service Provider: 2222
MORE ON HIM:
he goes by the name of dave. he has been calling over the past 3 months, various dates, big time time waster,supposedly never has time to see me, but always time to obviously jerk off while telling me his fantasies.
Service Provider: 2225
MORE ON HIM:
He has been calling me since 12/05, using yet another alias which I hesitate to give, as I am sure he changes them according to his moods. He did make an appointment, but cancelled a week in advance, as he said he broke his leg (which of course had me on the phone consoling him as he was in pain). We have had cordial conversations this year and he has made 2 other advanced appointments, and cancelled them many days ahead, citing work changes.
Service Provider: 2201
Mark
301-213-0047
Date not provided
No show, no call. Claims he forgot. When chance to make it up is presented he does not call. Just a game player getting off on setting appointments.
Service Provider: 2227
Rob
757-639-6940
05/18/06
Kept changing appointment times, days, location. Multiple calls, taking up lots of time on phone, describing desired role play in great detail with specific requests (ie, wanted me with sweaty pits). Eventually canceled his three hour appointment 10 minutes before it was to happen, first asking if it could be later in the evening, then not even committing to that. I had told other callers I was already booked, and was left with a time gap, and sweaty pits!
Service Provider: 2216
James
202-409-8886
04/14/06
Did not show for appoinment.
Service Provider: 2228
Keith
717-404-7963
02/27/06
Wanted outcall appointment. I went to his Crystal City hotel, the room number was wrong. Upon calling him, he wouldn’t answer, nor return my calls.
Service Provider: 2228
Richard
202-333-3398
01/08/06
Did not show for appoinment.
Service Provider: 2228
Mario
703-525-4956
He did not show for appointment.
Service Provider: 2226
joseph
202-237-2257
04/28/06
wanted session but no apt number existed at the address given. When i called, he said “i’m not home yet!” and hung up, and never called back. sidenote: he called me numerous times in the past, from july 2004, wanting information, but could never seem to get my prices straight.
Service Provider: 2222
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5/24/06
He wanted me to come to his place today. I explained that he had made an appointment with me before and I could not reach him to confirm and that I saw his name and number on this website. He said it was all lies. I told him I would not deal with him again.
Service Provider: 2201
MORE ON HIM:
9/22/06
He called me and I checked this site to see if his number was here - as I always do before booking someone. I told him he was on a Blacklist site, and he got very angry with me, although I explained to him that I did not put him there - I only use the site to check for issues with potential clients. I told him there is a way to get his name and number off the site. He yelled, "They are lying!!" and hung up the phone. I did not think this made him seem particularly innocent.
Service Provider: 2224
dwight
828-200-0338, alt is 703-790-1249
04/06/06
he never showed up for the appointment.
Service Provider: 2222
jeff
202-387-9252
04/28/06
never showed up at my place.
Service Provider: 2222
raul
202-361-0426
03/29/06
he didnt show, and never called.
Service Provider: 2222
Mike
803-917-1545
03/15/06
No show, and never returned calls.
Service Provider: 2200
Jerry
703-963-0448
03/10/06
No show, and never returned calls.
Service Provider: 2200
Joe
267-253-6275
03/01/06
Said he was $40 short of the previously told price when it came time to pay. Other notes on this guy: totally uptight, nervous, noncommunicative, and stupid, too! He couldn't get to my place in time, said he would be there in “5 minutes” but it took him 70 minutes! At the building entry system, he couldn't get the door open, he kept hanging up the phone just before I could begin to buzz him in. He is NOT the sharpest tool in the shed.
Service Provider: 2200
Rick
202-332-1866, also 202-701-4646
04/20/06
After spending the night with him, he was to pay in the morning. Have seen him before and knew that I only take cash, but in the morning wouldnt go to ATM to get cash, instead wanted to give me a check, which was not a possibility with me under any circumstances - and he knew that. I had to leave without payment. In fact, I had previously been warned about him from my friend Brett (an escort, now retired); when Brett arrived at his place for a session, Rick wouldn’t answer the door.
Service Provider: 2216
Jay
202-409-9774
03/10/06
He wanted to top me, and I was ok with that, but told him he needed to use a condom. It was all good... several positions, etc. Then at some point, I felt around and realized he had pulled off the condom, and was barebacking me! BLACKLISTED FOREVER.
Service Provider: 2216
Patrick
540-286-0351
07/07/04
He got into trouble with the cops because he tried to pick one up in a park in Fredericksburg, VA. The cops made a deal with him, he could get three sex offenders for them and they would remove charges against him. So, he set me up and the cops “found” him with me in a hotel room; I had to deal with a huge legal entanglement and it cost me a lot of money - it was a nightmare - that’s all I am going to say about it on this site.
Service Provider: 2216
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