30.9.22
DID AN ESCORT OR MASSEUR TELL YOU TO COME HERE?
Yes? Oh, fuck...
In all likelihood, you’ve been blacklisted!
Perhaps you blew off an appointment. Or you didn’t pay the service provider what he was owed. Or you did something else that crossed the line for an Escort or Masseur.
Here’s what you need to do. Check to see if your phone number is on this site, by doing a search on the page for your phone number. DON'T go to the top of this page and use the "Search This Blog" feature - it doesn't seem to work. Instead, go to something like your computer's "Edit" drop-down menu, and choose something like "SEARCH" or "FIND" to locate text on the page. It may be easiest to search by the last four numbers of your phone, as opposed to the whole number. It will save you time, as well as prevent any oversights with the hyphen or space keys.
If nothing comes up, that’s good news for you! It means that you are not showing any history of mishaps on this site. But if your number does come up, it will also have some information attached to it. Perhaps the first name that you gave the Escort or Masseur. Perhaps a date, showing when the situation occurred. And certainly, it will list a brief description of what happened. Finally, it will show a number assigned to the service provider.
So, your number is on the site. What should you do now?
First of all, realize that your number can now be pulled up if anyone were to conduct an internet search for it, by using a search engine like Google. Not good... not good at all, for most people (who seem to desire discretion).
But then again (let me take a moment to get preachy here...), what you did was not good, either. Blowing off an appointment is not nice. Not paying someone a previously agreed-upon amount is not nice. Giving someone a false address is not nice. Not using a condom, when someone requests you to, is not nice. These are basic manners. JUST BE NICE. If you haven’t learned this lesson yet, perhaps this situation (that you have actually created for yourself) will teach you. There are consequences for irresponsible behavior.
OK, enough of the lecture. You probably want to get your number and personal details removed from this site. You now have a couple of options:
1. Contact the service provider if you know who he is, and try to fix whatever problem the Escort or Masseur has described. For example,
---- Did you not show up for a session? You may need to reimburse the Escort or Masseur for his time (think about it, this is time he lost, because he could have had another session then). In many cases, service providers prep considerably for their clients - insuring that they are clean, cleaned out, they look good, their place is ready, they are mentally psyched for the session, they have supplies needed, etc.
---- Did you not pay the service provider the full amount owed to him? Make good on this. Step up to the plate and, at this point, pay not only the full amount, but probably an additional amount to show that you understand that with Escorts and Masseurs, time really is money - and they have spent additional time with you even dealing with these steps.
Use your head for other situations.
This is your chance to rectify the situation, and perhaps even set up another appointment with that hot guy. Money speaks volumes. And, service providers tend to be sensitive and compassionate, and as such, are pretty "forgiving" people.
2. Contact Lars (email: larsollson@gmail.com) and explain your situation. This is the obvious option if you don't remember who the service provider is. Lars will send your explanation on to the service provider and have the provider contact you.
IF THE TWO OF YOU CAN MAKE AMENDS: if you two can make amends (again, usually financial amends, dude), your complete phone number and any PERSONAL information posted on the site - including things like your name, email address, and physical address - will then be removed from this page. However, the FIRST DIGIT and LAST FOUR DIGITS of your phone number will remain on the site, along with the notes of what happened with you and the provider, in an effort to warn other service providers that there had been an incident with you in the past.
Just a reminder: BE GENEROUS.
And remember that an apology goes a long way.
Are you having difficulty feeling remorse? Just imagine making a doctor's appointment and not showing up, or blowing off a meeting with your lawyer, or refusing to pay your barber after he cut your hair. The majority of Escorts and Masseurs are professionals. They provide a necessary service to society. They deserve to be treated with the same respect that you would give to people in other professions.
Now let’s say you do these steps, and get your full number removed, but you still want to hire other service providers. And one of those providers sees your last four digits (not your full phone number, but just your FIRST DIGIT and then LAST FOUR DIGITS) on the blacklist site. If the provider asks you about it, you should explain what happened, but also explain that you have made amends. You can even send the provider to this page, to this very sentence:
_____________________________________
SERVICE PROVIDERS: If you see a PARTIAL phone number here (FIRST DIGIT and then LAST FOUR DIGITS ONLY), you may conclude that the person having those digits DID make a mistake, but ultimately resolved it with the provider. BLACKLISTEDNOW believes everyone should be given a second chance, and therefore suggests that you consider giving the owner of the phone number an opportunity for an appointment with you.
_____________________________________ ¶ 00:43
Yes? Oh, fuck...
In all likelihood, you’ve been blacklisted!
Perhaps you blew off an appointment. Or you didn’t pay the service provider what he was owed. Or you did something else that crossed the line for an Escort or Masseur.
Here’s what you need to do. Check to see if your phone number is on this site, by doing a search on the page for your phone number. DON'T go to the top of this page and use the "Search This Blog" feature - it doesn't seem to work. Instead, go to something like your computer's "Edit" drop-down menu, and choose something like "SEARCH" or "FIND" to locate text on the page. It may be easiest to search by the last four numbers of your phone, as opposed to the whole number. It will save you time, as well as prevent any oversights with the hyphen or space keys.
If nothing comes up, that’s good news for you! It means that you are not showing any history of mishaps on this site. But if your number does come up, it will also have some information attached to it. Perhaps the first name that you gave the Escort or Masseur. Perhaps a date, showing when the situation occurred. And certainly, it will list a brief description of what happened. Finally, it will show a number assigned to the service provider.
So, your number is on the site. What should you do now?
First of all, realize that your number can now be pulled up if anyone were to conduct an internet search for it, by using a search engine like Google. Not good... not good at all, for most people (who seem to desire discretion).
But then again (let me take a moment to get preachy here...), what you did was not good, either. Blowing off an appointment is not nice. Not paying someone a previously agreed-upon amount is not nice. Giving someone a false address is not nice. Not using a condom, when someone requests you to, is not nice. These are basic manners. JUST BE NICE. If you haven’t learned this lesson yet, perhaps this situation (that you have actually created for yourself) will teach you. There are consequences for irresponsible behavior.
OK, enough of the lecture. You probably want to get your number and personal details removed from this site. You now have a couple of options:
1. Contact the service provider if you know who he is, and try to fix whatever problem the Escort or Masseur has described. For example,
---- Did you not show up for a session? You may need to reimburse the Escort or Masseur for his time (think about it, this is time he lost, because he could have had another session then). In many cases, service providers prep considerably for their clients - insuring that they are clean, cleaned out, they look good, their place is ready, they are mentally psyched for the session, they have supplies needed, etc.
---- Did you not pay the service provider the full amount owed to him? Make good on this. Step up to the plate and, at this point, pay not only the full amount, but probably an additional amount to show that you understand that with Escorts and Masseurs, time really is money - and they have spent additional time with you even dealing with these steps.
Use your head for other situations.
This is your chance to rectify the situation, and perhaps even set up another appointment with that hot guy. Money speaks volumes. And, service providers tend to be sensitive and compassionate, and as such, are pretty "forgiving" people.
2. Contact Lars (email: larsollson@gmail.com) and explain your situation. This is the obvious option if you don't remember who the service provider is. Lars will send your explanation on to the service provider and have the provider contact you.
IF THE TWO OF YOU CAN MAKE AMENDS: if you two can make amends (again, usually financial amends, dude), your complete phone number and any PERSONAL information posted on the site - including things like your name, email address, and physical address - will then be removed from this page. However, the FIRST DIGIT and LAST FOUR DIGITS of your phone number will remain on the site, along with the notes of what happened with you and the provider, in an effort to warn other service providers that there had been an incident with you in the past.
Just a reminder: BE GENEROUS.
And remember that an apology goes a long way.
Are you having difficulty feeling remorse? Just imagine making a doctor's appointment and not showing up, or blowing off a meeting with your lawyer, or refusing to pay your barber after he cut your hair. The majority of Escorts and Masseurs are professionals. They provide a necessary service to society. They deserve to be treated with the same respect that you would give to people in other professions.
Now let’s say you do these steps, and get your full number removed, but you still want to hire other service providers. And one of those providers sees your last four digits (not your full phone number, but just your FIRST DIGIT and then LAST FOUR DIGITS) on the blacklist site. If the provider asks you about it, you should explain what happened, but also explain that you have made amends. You can even send the provider to this page, to this very sentence:
_____________________________________
SERVICE PROVIDERS: If you see a PARTIAL phone number here (FIRST DIGIT and then LAST FOUR DIGITS ONLY), you may conclude that the person having those digits DID make a mistake, but ultimately resolved it with the provider. BLACKLISTEDNOW believes everyone should be given a second chance, and therefore suggests that you consider giving the owner of the phone number an opportunity for an appointment with you.
_____________________________________ ¶ 00:43
